What has been your biggest turn off

[ne****]

What has been your biggest turn off from wanting sex? What needs to change?

[fe****]

Pushy people trying to f@rce their kinks and likes on me while simultaneously ignoring what I like. Needs to be a common middle ground and mutual respect

[Ho****]

Race place and focusing on me being black! Irks my nerves!!!!

[Ar****]

It being pushed when I've already said not that night, or being otherwise expected in general.

In these instances, an improvement in respect and consent levels.

[Ne****]

Lack of communication and random blocking after hours or days of conversation. Its shity and makes you want to say f*ck this scene.

[ki****]

A woman who doesn’t suck

[by****]

I think my biggest turn off was when I was in a committed relationship with a woman and came to the realization that the only time she would f*ck me was when she was drunk or h1gh. After 10 years and after I ended the relationship, now she wants to f*ck me sober but now I don't want to f*ck her at all.

[Deleted Member]

A man who doesn’t go down, but expects his partner to.

[Ho****]

30 minutes ago, kinkysense said:

A woman who doesn’t suck

Men who don't eat...

[Ki****]

Cleanliness- for the love of all things sexual if you are meeting someone for a hook up please be showered and clean!

[Sw****]

Men that call me “good girl” in the first conversation as if they know me already and men that don’t eat pussy

[Do****]

Doms that can go on and on about what they plan to do to me, but can't make plans to meet up in person. Eventually I lose interest and move on.

[De****]

When sex goes capitalistic. I support sex workers, but I am a cold planet when someone asks me to get off the app and chat elsewhere. The change needed here imo is a respectful separation between relationships and financial navigation. We are not business partners.

[ne****]

1 hour ago, HoustonWeveAProblem said:

Race place and focusing on me being black! Irks my nerves!!!!

The black fetishizing! Ugh girl I feel you

[mi****]

Ones perspective, actions, and own emotions are the only things that they can truly change. What do call people who try to control and f@rce others to conform to their ways???

[fe****]

A constant need for reassurance.

[de****]

Conceited self absorbed babble bragging, like shut the hell up IDC if you know ICP, I don't care if you make music in a studio. It's trash anyways and makes me wanna van gogh both ears. But yeah the matching and never speaking or ghosting is a big one. Makes me wanna drink a monster and start punching lol jk sorta. I'm a basket case eff you

[tu****]

Oh.. I guess I just need a partner. I mean I do alright by myself but... U know, jus not the same

[Se****]

Connection and intimacy and basic respect. If you can’t treat me like an actual person and only want to engage with me when you want to penetrate me then I will go completely cold.

[Ni****]

I think for me it's being pushed to just hook up when I always say that I want to meet first and see if there's chemistry and compatibility. Maybe you can look at a hot person and be turned on but my brain doesn't work that way. You can either meet up with me and if we vibe we can take it further or maybe we don't. Everyone is looking for instant gratification, if you want that either pay for it or find someone else looking for the same thing

[ne****]

1 hour ago, RopeLamb said:

Doms that can go on and on about what they plan to do to me, but can't make plans to meet up in person. Eventually I lose interest and move on.

Yes not being about that action!

[ne****]

1 hour ago, SweetNSourPatchBrat said:

Men that call me “good girl” in the first conversation as if they know me already and men that don’t eat pussy

Yes! If he’s not an eater he’s out

[ne****]

2 hours ago, Kinky_Queen said:

Cleanliness- for the love of all things sexual if you are meeting someone for a hook up please be showered and clean!

I’ve heard so many similar stories of men not washing their ass too, and not using a sponge

[ne****]

2 hours ago, HoustonWeveAProblem said:

Men who don't eat...

That part! Most women can’t climax without oral stimulation. They think the 🍆 is the main attraction, but it’s not lol

[ne****]

3 hours ago, Aranhis said:

It being pushed when I've already said not that night, or being otherwise expected in general.

In these instances, an improvement in respect and consent levels.

*** is more common in relationships and even marriage than people think