What has been your biggest turn off

[sm****]

Genuine and no hidden agendas or airs and graces.  basically people trying to be a type they are not.  Just be your real self with all the faults is much more realistic.

[We****]

When I tell someone what doesn’t work for me- and they completely ignore that thinking it’ll magically change if they keep doing it

[se****]

It sucks yall be having these experiences. This was a golden thread. 🙏🏾

[Ar****]

Unsolicited pictures, titling before consent, forcing play or graphic fantasies, arrogance, selfish or very unskilled lovers, lying about having other partners, ignoring my profile, trying to have sex with me before even learning my name, lying about wearing a condom or protection, threatening or bullying me because I said no… are a few.

[Th****]

Over pressuring, and/or plain lying about the education level you have on a specific kink/fetish. I'm like a golden retriever, I'm just happy to be involved, but I get ahead of myself, so I generally teust/depend that my partner knows what they're doing

[La****]

There are a few. But one track minded individual is such a pet ***ve. Especially if they only got dirty thoughts. Talking to them is draining and make you feel gross. So much things in life. So much to learn and to achieve, yet youre stuck in the lowest bottom pit out of human existence. You cannot even have a functioning conversation with them. BDSM and kink is too much of an intimate activity. I cant just engage with individual that is no better than a stale drywall.

[fr****]

Arrogant ”Masters” that pushes limits and moves goalposts. The lack of accountability and men who don’t do oral. Just to name a few at the top of the list.