First moment that shaped you?

[De****]

What is the first moment that shaped you, changed the course of your interest and self image? In a good way.

[Si****]

The first time my brothers seen me dressed up like a girl 🧒 😘

[Deleted Member]

I googled "pegging" looking for porn with clothes pegs being used on a woman... let's just say that caused a pretty severe U-turn in my interests 😅

[go****]

I thought I was a switch until the first time I was with a Dom who could keep up with me. Once I realized how deep into submission I could go, I couldn’t go back to coaching.

[Ca****]

At uni we tried swinging for a while when we had a threesome with a Dom i realised that is what she needed and i was also a submissive - from then on we were cuckold and no longer swingers

[Ti****]

My 7th grade physical exam. The dr had me stand and drop my pants and she got down in a squat and she smiled and winked at me while holding my whole shaft in her hand. She was young (old to me at the time), blonde, had a toe ring. Gave me a confidence that carried me all the way to losing my virginity a couple years later. It’s been about 15 years since then i still love older women and feet🤣🤣

[DarkArts1066]

The iconic moment for me is written in my Fetlife profile.
Complicated to go into here, but suffice it to say, it happened when I was quite young, and shaped my big breast fetish over forty years ago.

 

[lg****]

A few years ago I was having a conversation with a couple of female friends when one brought up needing to have “the BDSM talk” with her new partner. That opened the conversation up for us to delve into our interests. I mentioned that I saw myself as a dom and they both laughed at me. I was hurt by their laughter in that moment but later on I thought about it. Could I be a submissive? I decided to try and find out.

My girlfriend (at the time) and I had played a little bit - me tieing her up, spanking her, etc. - but I decided to surprise her one day and see what it would feel like to submit. When she texted me that she was on her way home, I tied myself up to the bed, naked and blindfolded. I was very excited but extremely nervous as well. I didn’t know how she would react or how it would go. When she got home, she came into the bedroom and found me. She didn’t say anything but she took her time putting her things away, making me wait for her. Eventually she came back in. She taunted me for a moment, then gave me a bl*w job. I c*me very quickly which was unusual because I tend to have difficulty finishing from receiving oral.

It turned out to be one of the most erotic experiences ever to that point. In that moment, I realized I could definitely be a sub. Not only could I, but as we occasionally played over the next year or so, I realized I was a very sub-leaning switch.

I have never had a genuine kink relationship but I hope my next relationship is with someone I can submit to (but who wouldn’t mind being tied up or spanked from time to time 😉).

[JackJonesHull]

It was that moment she handcuffed herself to that radiator. It stopped being funny and became absolutely real.

[su****]

My x caught me in her panties and riding her Dildo watching Trans porn, turned me into a cuckold. I love her for it.

[fr****]

I was 15 years old when I climbed America’s first national park and monument Devils Tower, national monument in Wyoming. You can see five states from the very top on a clear day. It was a powerful moment for me. I am strong enough to conquer whatever you put your mind to!!;-) cheers mates that we choose wisely and learn to know the difference.

[me****]

After reading fifty shades of grey I wanted to try something different in the bedroom

[co****]

P**ing in the woods. Now I'm an exhibitionist 😂

[Kd****]

When my late wife marci clawed my back while cumming. She drew *** and I came so hard I quivered for over 20 minutes after.

[ro****]

I realized I’m a Service Top and just want to make unforgettable experiences.

[Wi****]

Once a guy couldn’t find my clit. I got annoyed and something got unleashed within. I stopped everything, sarcastically humiliated him and punished him till he found it and learnt how to work it properly. The power I felt was intoxicating and there’s no going back now. 😄

[Sp****]

Back in 2005 I realised I was a submissive the girl I dated at the time was dominant she beated me with a hairbrush just for enjoyment and we both totally loved it, from that moment I understood where my heart was.

[sa****]

I was younger and snuck my way into what I thought was a night club. The first image I walked into was a man on a crucifix, having his b@lls stretched. It was an all male sex club. I started working there a year later

[Ma****]

My ex just brought a chastity cage when I was like a 18-19 and when it first went on everything changed n here I am 🤣

[ba****]

Met a man after a 15 year failed marriage. He made me understand why I loved the song S&M by Brit and Rhianna. I loved him so much. He was a blast and made me enjoy it all. Then I found out he had a very dark past and left him. Now I crave the sex we had but not him.