Ra**** Posted November 18 I'm a man and I'm a CD I look good both ways and I know that sounds arrogant but I get a lot of support both ways and I get confused sometimes because part of me wants to transition but part of me thinks I might regret it down the road so has anybody done this and what is your advice
Curiously_Exploring Posted November 18 I'm not trans, but I have quite a large number of friends who are gender-non-conforming, non-binary, trans and many other gender identities. Have you had counselling to explore your gender identity? It might be a good place to start. There are many gender identities open to you... only you will know where you feel most comfortable in the long term. I wish you all the best in your efforts to find your true self đ
Pa**** Posted November 18 Itâs not arrogant at all to say you look good both ways, it shows confidence. Exploring identity doesnât have to be rushed. Gender can be fluid, and transition isnât the only path. Take your time, journal your feelings, talk to others whoâve been through it, and listen to your own body. You donât owe anyone a fixed answer. What matters is what brings you peace and joy.
Cheveyo Posted November 18 First you should seek counseling and talk it out to figure out what is the right thing for you. Second, as one in the Native American community I ask that you not confuse Two Spirit with Transgender. They are not the same.
Curiously_Exploring Posted November 18 1 hour ago, ParsleyTree said: Itâs not arrogant at all to say you look good both ways, it shows confidence. Exploring identity doesnât have to be rushed. Gender can be fluid, and transition isnât the only path. Take your time, journal your feelings, talk to others whoâve been through it, and listen to your own body. You donât owe anyone a fixed answer. What matters is what brings you peace and joy. Absolutely! I spend time in a lot of spaces where young people are incredibly gender-fluid, and present themselves in the way that they feel most comfortable at that point in time. I have friends who have decided to transition part-way physically and are perfectly happy and complete with where they are. I also have friends who have undergone full physical transitions (one waited until she was in her 60s, and now finally feels physically like the woman she always has been). Gender is unlimited, and I think that for older people we are only just beginning to fully realise the possibilities away from the binary đ
jo**** Posted November 18 Sounds unrelated, but I managed to get through my entire Navy career with no tattoos. I considered them, but then thought that my time in the service was not my lifetime, but a tattoo was. You were built from the ground up with the organs, shape and protuberances that you have. If you choose to remove, alter or reshape them, it is (almost) a one/way trip. Take your time. Think long term. Know that you having a 6â clit might make that new friend very happy. If you canât see past the transition, take some time to talk to someone else that might have gone through it and get some insight Ultimately, the decision is yours. Whatever you decide is right for you. Find your peace.
Ra**** Posted November 18 Author But I think I can manage being both because that's what makes me happy
Pr**** Posted November 18 I feel this so much and itâs just a heavy feeling of being alone in my own body
Laycette Posted November 19 If you can manage being both, great. However if either one causes you ***, you do not have to do that. Transition does not nean losing skills, or not doing activities you like. You can think outside stereotypes.
Ba**** Posted November 19 I feel my opinion here is significantly lower than others, but it is how you feel, not how others perceive you. Where are you more comfortable? What makes you feelâŚyou? That is how you proceed, not on the opinions of others.
Curiously_Exploring Posted November 21 6 hours ago, Dirtylittlecumslut said: What is a CD? I am new here and I donât know a lot of the terminology Cross-dresser. I wish that there was a better term out there - to me, all clothes are for all genders, and the term always implies that our clothes are regulated by gender. If anyone knows of a different term, I would love to hear it.
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