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My last BDSM relationship there was both a sexual and non-sexual component because it was often long distance. For the non-sexual context my partner would have to hold poses for a certain amount of time and if it was long distance Make a daily video of their commitment and submission. There were other tasks as well In which it was for time and they would have to send me a screenshot of their phone stopwatch showing that they had done their task.
We also rode a pledge of submission together and everyday whether in person or sending a little video chat they would send it in
I had a dynamic a while back (pte COVID) with a Domme who very much made it clear it was non sexual. She wanted me 8n chastity when I arrived (I could remove it when I left) and it was mostly service submission. I cleaned her house and gave her massage and foot rubs.
This isn't about just sex. Living a lifestyle dynamic; sex is a very, very small part of it even if it's a large portion of a healthy relationship. Even outside of a lifestyle; every dynamic still has underlying things that build up a healthy foundation beyond sex. The misconception is tiresome.
Alot of D/s is non sexual. Because it's about power. Whereas all sex is power, not all power is sex
I served a femdom in a non sexual D/S relationdship for several years. It taught me quite a bit and I'm thankful for the experience. How ever it's not something I would be looking to do going forward.
Thursday at 08:16 PM, PLEASEandTEASEme said:
I'm a submissive. I do not do task behaviors. I often do not have a 24/7 dom. Yet as being friends with my doms outside of my bedroom, I do love when they are near and ask me to do similar acts to what you have dislikes. To me this is safe it is secure, it makes me feel special. I have had amazing relationships that included nonsexual submissions. And they fit.what I and my dom have agreed to and what we are comfortable with together❤️!

I would like to amend my statement slightly because Ive had people ask...I do task behaviors dependent on the request...but they are limited.

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