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**“Quick question for the kink-minded here — we all know what orgasm denial is, but is there actually a proper term for the opposite?
Like… instead of holding someone back, it’s about pushing them over the edge, encouraging them, teasing them towards release rather than away from it.

Is there an official name for that, or is it just considered edging in reverse?
Curious what you all think.”**
Obviously call it whatever you will, but for a lot of people that’s just standard foreplay&sex end goal 🤣

***d Orgasm would maybe be the closest thing, but a lot of the time that’s used continuously over and over, when they’re already extremely sensitive and have already orgasmed.
1 minute ago, RMZropes said:
Edging is the proper way to call.

Edging is the brink of orgasm, bringing someone to the edge and keeping them there… not forcing them to orgasm like the OP was referring to 🤣

16 minutes ago, MrWolf666 said:
Obviously call it whatever you will, but for a lot of people that’s just standard foreplay&sex end goal 🤣

***d Orgasm would maybe be the closest thing, but a lot of the time that’s used continuously over and over, when they’re already extremely sensitive and have already orgasmed.

F.o.r.c.e.d - and not the Jedi mind trick kind of *** as this app hates specific words for a kink site 🤣

17 minutes ago, MrWolf666 said:

F.o.r.c.e.d - and not the Jedi mind trick kind of *** as this app hates specific words for a kink site 🤣

This. I would only add that it all falls under the general kink of Orgasm control. Sometimes combined with other BDSM elements like bondage, ***, or praise. Keep in mind that f.o.r.c.e.d. orgasms multiple in a row are one way some people can be brought to physical and emotional overload just as surely as if they were being flogged or caned. Doing so as a Dom should be done with an eye to well being as in ALL scenes.

4 minutes ago, KinkInSpace said:
I've heard the term milking being used too, which I think is more suitable than f0rced.

Milking is a femdom term usually referring to the ***d/continuous act after the initial ejaculation

Edging for me in semantic terms is meandering and pulling back from the border of an orgasm, not pushing someone over it .

I guess your question requires nuance : is the teasing consentual or not ? If not = ***d orgasm. If multiple orgasms for females in a pleasure dom type of way = interestingly there’s no word for that 🤔😳🙄
8 minutes ago, TheGoodGirl_ said:
Edging for me in semantic terms is meandering and pulling back from the border of an orgasm, not pushing someone over it .

I guess your question requires nuance : is the teasing consentual or not ? If not = ***d orgasm. If multiple orgasms for females in a pleasure dom type of way = interestingly there’s no word for that 🤔😳🙄

I think its known as Sex, that was my out take for what they’re describing, as I think funnily enough people have forgot that ‘sex’ in general is about both/those involves eventually climax or for purposes of reproduction 😂

I agree with DaddyforPrincess. It’s all just Orgasm Control as a broad category. People’s definitions or what they want and need is going to be too broad to categorize without getting into the minutia. And, what they enjoy or need at one moment may change the next.
I refer to giving oral/toy/spank, etc, pleasure. That inevitably leads to multiple orgasms for the receiver as *Pampering*

It's a kinky foreplay that is aligned to the receivers' kinks.

The role of the Pleasure Dom is to be receptive to those kinks and to be versatile in the way they are delivered.

Pampering is about connecting with the mind as much as the body.

Being sensually assertive in ways that are aligned to the receivers libido.

Of course, it's fun to have playful rules, such as, the receiver asking for permission to cum. But, that should always be their choice to play in that way.

You can tell I'm not a hardcore Dom 😆😎



One term is “***d orgasm.” Another is “pleasure dom.” Another is, as already mentioned, “sex.” They all refer to different things though!
So, Pampering is a collection of all those activities to provide unrivalled orgasmic pleasure for the receiver.
I guess it does fall into the realms of For-ced orgasms, without any real *** being used. Obviously, using bed restraints adds to the receivers' experience of being unable to resist the stimulation they are receiving.

The restraints don't need to be overly restrictive either. It's about creating the sensation of restraint that still allows the receiver to move their limbs to a certain extent before the restraints have any effect.

E.G. The cuffs are connected to ropes under the bed, and there is a weight on the rope. The receiver will only feel the weight on the resistance of the weight when they move their cuffed limbs in a certain direction.😈





2 hours ago, Agent69x10 said:
I refer to giving oral/toy/spank, etc, pleasure. That inevitably leads to multiple orgasms for the receiver as *Pampering*

It's a kinky foreplay that is aligned to the receivers' kinks.

The role of the Pleasure Dom is to be receptive to those kinks and to be versatile in the way they are delivered.

Pampering is about connecting with the mind as much as the body.

Being sensually assertive in ways that are aligned to the receivers libido.

Of course, it's fun to have playful rules, such as, the receiver asking for permission to cum. But, that should always be their choice to play in that way.

You can tell I'm not a hardcore Dom 😆😎



I think you closest to the true 🤔😉😁

Exactly. Oh, and maybe make sure you have a bag of frozen peas and a towel to wrap them in for some soothing after care. 😎
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