Using bondage for relaxation

[bo****]

Any body uses bondage for relaxation? I do, I love to de-stress and be tied up for a while. Am I the only one out here who feels the same way? Sometimes I feel like an island of one...hate that feeling. Lol

[Do****]

🙏

[PL****]

Being bound is extremely relaxing to myself as well, you are not alone.

[hot-springs206194]

👍

[Ro****]

Not so much the bondage but what it represents - loss of control, no need tl think.

[ch****]

Not bobdage for relaxation, but sometimes I wish I could use one of those stretching tables to crack my back. I think we've all thought that, though...

[jo****]

I used to have a neighbor that would come to my house after her husband left for work and she dropped her daughter at school. I would tie her to my bed and then cocoon her in nautical rope so that she couldn’t move. I would then go get my workday started and let her lay for at least an hour in silence. She said it was the most relaxed she had ever been

[PL****]

15 minutes ago, joesarciii said:

I used to have a neighbor that would come to my house after her husband left for work and she dropped her daughter at school. I would tie her to my bed and then cocoon her in nautical rope so that she couldn’t move. I would then go get my workday started and let her lay for at least an hour in silence. She said it was the most relaxed she had ever been

Yes! I relate to this...it is a feeling of safety!

[Ro****]

Same but opposite, I tie people up to relax. I can leave the work week behind and focus on the knots and the comfort of the tied individual

[Tw****]

Being tied and not touched is a big thing. You're not alone. I have never experienced being tied myself but the few subs I have tied preferred it to more physical interaction ties. From what I understood about their mindset it was comfort from not being able to do anything but also having someone watching over them.

[Da****]

I think I should try this

[bo****]

13 hours ago, DatGirlGanja said:

I think I should try this

DatGirl I think you would love it.

[bo****]

On 12/9/2025 at 4:50 PM, chesire0myles said:

Not bobdage for relaxation, but sometimes I wish I could use one of those stretching tables to crack my back. I think we've all thought that, though...

I need one of those tables too. lol

[DR****]

I do. I love being tied up gagged and blindfolded and shut away in a wardrobe made to struggle

[Ex****]

This is common, especially with high-power people... People who regularly must be in control, give directions, make decisions, often like the opposite in the bedroom...

[Ka****]

I had a Master once that used to like to tie me up as punishment. He would sit me in a dark closet on a kitchen chair bound to the chair with my hands tied above my head to the clothes pole. Every single time he would close the door I would end up falling asleep. It totally relaxed me. Not the outcome he hoped for.

[Prodd]

This I like the sound of

[jstmeokc]

I have started to learn more about the Japanese Art of "Shibari" Shibari which translates to "to tie" in Japanese, is a style of erotic rope bondage that originated in Japan in the 17th century

[ha****]

I must try it

[ne****]

September 25, jstmeokc said:

I have started to learn more about the Japanese Art of "Shibari" Shibari which translates to "to tie" in Japanese, is a style of erotic rope bondage that originated in Japan in the 17th century

Are you sub?