Ro**** Posted July 21 Here's my take, take it or leave it. 30 + generally, because I require my connections to have their own shit in order. Like proper adulting. Taking care of their own life responsibly because if they don't, then how the hell do i expect them to be responsible for my well being in a scene if they can not handle their own shit properly? Most 20somethings ( and some beyond) are still stumbling their way through adulthood. Also, my kids are in their 20s, so if they look like they could be one of my kids' friends , I get the ick. I will admit there are a few exceptions, but that's what establishing connection is about. Seeing what the right dynamics is.
ca**** Posted July 21 I'm not really into young females I've only been with a few but mostly been with older females
Ot**** Posted July 21 Age is not an issue for who I’ll play or scene with. It is an issue for people with whom I’ll have a dynamic.
vi**** Posted July 29 I am 72 and my last playdate a week ago was with a 27y.o. woman that approached me. Quite an upgrade from the ex
Deleted Member Posted August 14 Author Honestly, age is a slight factor to me. I want desire someone 30 years old or older because I want some maturity. Not to say someone under 30 cannot be mature they can but my preference is what it is. My upper limit is between 62-65.
ol**** Posted August 14 Not too much, but I generally like guys that are older than me because they have the maturity and experience that I’m looking for a partner.
Deleted Member Posted August 17 Author For sure! I’ve only been attracted to age appropriate woman though
Sw**** Posted August 25 Well I guess it depends on the emotional maturity of the individual we're getting to know. Our ex was 21 and we're 46/43. That one was kinda rough so we're shooting for late twenties now minimum. I guess if someone in their early twenties has has life altering experiences that have matured their minds enough we would consider them.
SubbyEngineer Posted August 26 Only to an extent. While minors and under 18's ARE definently out of the question, I do believe age is important to an extent due to compatibility related reasons, like there is a "too old" for me obviously. Someone who is mature and responsible will take priority in the end of the day.
ki**** Posted October 7 I feel like my personal range is 8 years younger at the most and oldest is gonna be mid to late 60's unless the vibe is right
Li**** Posted October 8 Im 36 and just joined. It automatically sets age to 18-80 and I was getting 18-20yo and I realized that age is absolutely a factor for me. Those are babies. Upper 20s minimum for me but I prefer 30s and 40s.
JackJonesHull Posted October 8 I'm of a mind to say no. But I know that it actually makes a difference at least initially. If a play partner is half my age then the thought is there regarding mutual understanding, when they were born I'd already left education and seen things they could only have nightmares about. But if you are given the opportunity to get to know each other then age becomes less important.
qu**** Posted October 9 It’s definitely a factor for me to an extent. Age can come with power dynamics, as well as questions of maturity and compatibility around stage of life and shared experience no matter how much I might like to think that it’s just a number. The youngest I’ve felt okay flirting with has been 26 (12 years younger than me) and that feels like a stretch but I think the individual personality makes a big difference. So far the oldest person I’ve been with is 50 (12 years older) and I’m not sure what “too old” is other than being very clear that if someone reminds me strongly of my parents I’m not going to be able to engage sexually.
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