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Honestly, feeling both excited and nervous is totally normal… it shows you care about your safety and boundaries.
• Being nervous isn’t a warning, it’s just your body telling you it matters.
• You don’t have to enjoy everything...some parts might feel good, some neutral, some you’ll learn about yourself.
• Experience changes what excites you; it can grow or shift once you try it.
• Any decent partner will expect this uncertainty and move at a pace that feels safe.

Honestly, if you only feel excitement with no nerves, that worries me more. Take it slow, stay curious, and don’t stress about getting it “right.” There’s very little you can actually mess up😉

Everyone is new at BDSM at some point, as for me I'm new to it too I would love to try everything and come up with much more l.

Never tried anything kinky but always been curious about having a dominant woman pegging me but no one seems interested in that

I think the scary part is that you might screw things up with your partner, at least that’s one for me. But any one worth experimenting with should put communication consent, boundaries and trust above all else -

You just have to follow what feels right and take it slow

Generally way more exciting than *** it should be talked out until both of you understand it's important, and I know lots of ppl worry about when you break up or if the other person is an a**hole who laughs about it. But know your partner enough to know either they fully understand and find leverage in case they were a sh*tty person/partner

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