Trust

[vi****]

If you don’t trust don’t date

[Wi****]

Not everyone can trust with our building some repor first. Dating on apps takes chatting and finding souls you can trust. If you question if there real just ask. People are just human they live love get scared just be your self and injoy all you can .

[Mu****]

just keep rolling with it it builds confidence in you and eventually you see some show and some go

[Ki****]

Maybe that's a good thing? To know early? Or maybe meet somewhere else? Like an ice cream shop? Did you ask why? I don't get many invites, but I had to back out of one because m@ney was too tight to buy Starbucks. Dating has changed so much since my youth. I was out for 20 years and still haven't found my footing.

[co****]

There's not much you can do honestly. This site is literally full of people that are just on here to talk and try to get pics or some dirty conversation for nothing. They say they'll do all this and that, but when it comes time to show and back it up, in my experience about 98 percent are full of crap and wont show up and will stop answering. From this app we have had about 30 or 40 people message and show interest, about 10 say they wanna meet up and have fun, and only 1 person actually show up. And we drove almost 2 hours to meet. Never had anyone local actually show up and we got hotels 4 times locally just for them to give some bs excuse last minute or just stop answering altogether. So its just par for the course with this specific app and the people it attracts.

[mn****]

this hasn’t happened to me yet, but i guess to not have any expectations is a good start to regaining trust in the world.
just trust that you are also human, and that for a myriad of reasons you could cancel on someone. be it anxiety, second guessing/doubts, change of mind, etc. you know this deep within anything could be a reason. how others move forward once that comes up is the different. you could say “i’d never do that to someone!”, but that’s the catch, we are all unique creatures, despite all being the human ***. we have our habits that we know we can rely on others to have, but the fire we cultivate within changes our interactions with the world. know that you are going out, to go out. if you are met with a person, reciprocate that energy and see where it goes. if you are left alone, you went out. you had an experience. and how you move forward from there is what makes you yo unique from the rest of the species. to know you are good enough for yourself takes a lot of strength, but when you are able to see that you are all that you need to carry your self in this reality, the meetups just become the icing on the proverbial cake.

for whatever it’s worth. 🪙🪙

[Co****]

In Ronald Regan’s words: “Trust, but verify.” To put it another way, don’t be a reckless fool. You are dealing with strangers. There is no logical reason to trust without reservation. Trust builds with experience. You trust in small things, like the promise that they will show up to meet in public, and when they do as they say, it builds trust to go further and work toward trust in private and in delicate situations. If they can’t even show up, then you know that they can’t be trusted with anything more serious.

[Sn****]

It happens all the time! People say they can do things for another and then don’t follow through. They just quit communicating without giving any closure. The least we should do for one another is be honest. Give each other some kind of closure

[th****]

To be honest with you, I think a lot with people who plan something and don't show up, that's their kink getting others do something and standing them up

[Ma****]

If someone agrees to meet then no shows... There should be a button that destroys the liars phone;!!

[sh****]

From my experience I’ve not chatted with one person who wasn’t a bot or a scam artist

[li****]

I feel like if someone agrees to meet someone else on here, or any dating site, they need to be mature enough to show up, or to communicate with that person if they need to cancel. We all have our phones glued to our hands, so absolutely no excuse to not simply communicate with each other.

[sh****]

I agree