Trust

[vi****]

If you don’t trust don’t date

[Wi****]

Not everyone can trust with our building some repor first. Dating on apps takes chatting and finding souls you can trust. If you question if there real just ask. People are just human they live love get scared just be your self and injoy all you can .

[Mu****]

just keep rolling with it it builds confidence in you and eventually you see some show and some go

[Ki****]

Maybe that's a good thing? To know early? Or maybe meet somewhere else? Like an ice cream shop? Did you ask why? I don't get many invites, but I had to back out of one because m@ney was too tight to buy Starbucks. Dating has changed so much since my youth. I was out for 20 years and still haven't found my footing.

[co****]

There's not much you can do honestly. This site is literally full of people that are just on here to talk and try to get pics or some dirty conversation for nothing. They say they'll do all this and that, but when it comes time to show and back it up, in my experience about 98 percent are full of crap and wont show up and will stop answering. From this app we have had about 30 or 40 people message and show interest, about 10 say they wanna meet up and have fun, and only 1 person actually show up. And we drove almost 2 hours to meet. Never had anyone local actually show up and we got hotels 4 times locally just for them to give some bs excuse last minute or just stop answering altogether. So its just par for the course with this specific app and the people it attracts.

[mn****]

this hasn’t happened to me yet, but i guess to not have any expectations is a good start to regaining trust in the world.
just trust that you are also human, and that for a myriad of reasons you could cancel on someone. be it anxiety, second guessing/doubts, change of mind, etc. you know this deep within anything could be a reason. how others move forward once that comes up is the different. you could say “i’d never do that to someone!”, but that’s the catch, we are all unique creatures, despite all being the human ***. we have our habits that we know we can rely on others to have, but the fire we cultivate within changes our interactions with the world. know that you are going out, to go out. if you are met with a person, reciprocate that energy and see where it goes. if you are left alone, you went out. you had an experience. and how you move forward from there is what makes you yo unique from the rest of the species. to know you are good enough for yourself takes a lot of strength, but when you are able to see that you are all that you need to carry your self in this reality, the meetups just become the icing on the proverbial cake.

for whatever it’s worth. 🪙🪙

[Co****]

In Ronald Regan’s words: “Trust, but verify.” To put it another way, don’t be a reckless fool. You are dealing with strangers. There is no logical reason to trust without reservation. Trust builds with experience. You trust in small things, like the promise that they will show up to meet in public, and when they do as they say, it builds trust to go further and work toward trust in private and in delicate situations. If they can’t even show up, then you know that they can’t be trusted with anything more serious.

[Sn****]

It happens all the time! People say they can do things for another and then don’t follow through. They just quit communicating without giving any closure. The least we should do for one another is be honest. Give each other some kind of closure

[th****]

To be honest with you, I think a lot with people who plan something and don't show up, that's their kink getting others do something and standing them up

[Ma****]

If someone agrees to meet then no shows... There should be a button that destroys the liars phone;!!

[sh****]

From my experience I’ve not chatted with one person who wasn’t a bot or a scam artist

[li****]

I feel like if someone agrees to meet someone else on here, or any dating site, they need to be mature enough to show up, or to communicate with that person if they need to cancel. We all have our phones glued to our hands, so absolutely no excuse to not simply communicate with each other.

[sh****]

I agree

[un****]

I’ve had fair luck meeting up with people once i learned the tell tale signs of bots remember your world is different than theirs slow down on how quick you think you have to go you’re wrong. Act like you’re in different time zones phone calls, texts, pictures, video calls, you’ve got to play to their curiosity have their own thirst for adventure wanting to go with you

[Ma****]

Even I have been stood up. I am a literal dream come true and I finally liked someone back enough to meet and they ghosted. Even a woman like me gets stood up, so dont feel bad

[JP****]

Same for me almost made me give up on this app. Found my dream dom here we talked for weeks sexual energy was intense and incredible. But when the time arrived to build real trust so we could meet in real life he freaked out and ghosted me. Why people have such a big problem building trust?!?

[Ga****]

Same, why talk the talk if you cant walk the walk.
My time and energy is extremely limited and precious, and id enjoy it if it wasnt wasted by someone being a no show or getting cold feet.
Change your mind, sure, you always can, but by the gods communicate it at least

[SL****]

Trust??? Wtf

[Willingtlp]

No show's is a very disappointing but remember that there confidence is not as strong as you are I think that *** plays a part as well if there is interest in you and your just continue to communicate with them and you can pick them up and get what you are interested in

[Re****]

Some people don't have a raging sex drive, or just want kinky sex occasionally. That's how I am. So far, I've liked everyone I've met on here, but haven't followed through with a couple people, but we have gone out.

[Sk****]

February 19, Gatadata said:

Same, why talk the talk if you cant walk the walk.
My time and energy is extremely limited and precious, and id enjoy it if it wasnt wasted by someone being a no show or getting cold feet.
Change your mind, sure, you always can, but by the gods communicate it at least

I agree, communication would be nice...but on the other hand, its so common people spazz and get toxic if they feel rejected. They may be hurtful, sometimes in ways that go beyond words...so i dont blame people for going the safer route of ghosting anymore.

My attitude is it isnt over...it was never there. Im not really invested until the second meeting in person.

[parkcruiser]

on all sites most are driven by the married /bi crowd that watchb too much porn and create the person they always wanted to be but are not, life in cyberland you can be who ever whatever you want, its safe so they have no intention of meting, jist roleplay a scenario , they r the best lovers etd, but when oppertunity presents itself ? they will chicken out, very few can live up to thier online personna,but you can havr pulitzer prise winning chats, so knowing that ? trust no one until theyv have earned, it, Chemistry is the unknown factor and is the most important of all and that energy has to be experienced in person 1 on 1 in the 3 dimensional plane not here in Cyber-land ,i speak from a vast amount of boots on the ground ( or knees) lol, encounters, i have a chat style that filters 98 percent out , but have been ghosted whichb i care not as they r replaceable , never had a bad experience trust your inner senses , ifv you r uneasy? excuse yourself, always have a back up plan and let it be known to whoom you are meeting that mom needs you for?? so you have a polite out, if all is good? mom can wait lol, be smart be safe have fun out there

[Ba****]

3 hours ago, parkcruiser said:

on all sites most are driven by the married /bi crowd that watchb too much porn and create the person they always wanted to be but are not, life in cyberland you can be who ever whatever you want, its safe so they have no intention of meting, jist roleplay a scenario , they r the best lovers etd, but when oppertunity presents itself ? they will chicken out, very few can live up to thier online personna,but you can havr pulitzer prise winning chats, so knowing that ? trust no one until theyv have earned, it, Chemistry is the unknown factor and is the most important of all and that energy has to be experienced in person 1 on 1 in the 3 dimensional plane not here in Cyber-land ,i speak from a vast amount of boots on the ground ( or knees) lol, encounters, i have a chat style that filters 98 percent out , but have been ghosted whichb i care not as they r replaceable , never had a bad experience trust your inner senses , ifv you r uneasy? excuse yourself, always have a back up plan and let it be known to whoom you are meeting that mom needs you for?? so you have a polite out, if all is good? mom can wait lol, be smart be safe have fun out there

There sure seem to be a whole lot of married bisexuals roleplaying as middle aged dudes for some reason

Who could ever live up to such creative online personas as slightly chubby balding white guy with sunglasses and no shirt number 3865??
Must be all that porno influence

Do they get payed by the illuminati or the lizard folk??

[Ty****]

Sunday at 01:19 AM, SkipperVa said:

I agree, communication would be nice...but on the other hand, its so common people spazz and get toxic if they feel rejected. They may be hurtful, sometimes in ways that go beyond words...so i dont blame people for going the safer route of ghosting anymore.

My attitude is it isnt over...it was never there. Im not really invested until the second meeting in person.

Exactly this. I have a darker side than my husband. It’s why I’m here, now.. I got tired of trying to teach him.

I fully agree, the second meeting is just another opportunity to see if the person is actually genuine or not.

Unfortunately that’s what gets younger people killed too easily too.

Im training good boys around here to go back out and behave to train the rest.. so, hey I’m Siren.