Advice

[Ka****]

Im a girl and been attracted to girls for a long time but recently have this craving of being submissive to a man. Why? This is new to me.

[mi****]

We all have different preferences and cravings that change over time… the key is to indulge in a healthy way and to have fun! Cheers!

[La****]

It’s called being bisexual.
You encountered a new revelation on your sexuality. It is valid. Congratulations.

[sa****]

Very nice would love to see how that turns out for you, darling. Everything changes throughout life. Keep your head up and be happy.🌹🌹🌹❤️

[ra****]

People change… evolve… or you might be hypnotized… ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[gy****]

I hope it happens for you darling

[lo****]

I’m curious 🤔. Have you been submissive in your relations with women? I do hope you get to play out your… curiosity 😁

[kinkymasterandrew]

Cravings happen, so it may be temporary and based on something/someone you saw. It may also be a new fetish awakening in you and be rather permanent. The important thing is not to judge yourself or your desires. Try watching some videos or fantasizing about different aspects and see what gets you most excited. Maybe you'll act on the new interests or maybe not, either way is fine.

[is****]

You say that like it’s abnormal ? You’re a woman and your biological clock is ticking . Your mind is attracted to woman but your body is saying it’s wants a baby in it before it’s too late.

[wa****]

Interesting

[Em****]

Sexuality is fluid and constantly changing

[ey****]

wishing to be submissive to a man doesn't necessarily mean a shift in sexuality.  

There's a lot of potential explanations which will vary on the person.   

It may be because you find it humiliating to submit to a man.  Or it may be there's some activities which are about the sensation etc.  It may also be a "what if"

(I have actually played with a guy sub woman before.  We established what the boundaries were which were largely around genitial contact. In her case she wanted to see what the experience would be with someone where it was solely about the play side who she had no desire to be sexual with) 

 

[Al****]

Submission isnt inherently sexual. We've just skewed it that way societally. It's all a mind game, so listen to what your mind is suggesting and see if there's a scenario you would like to build out of that. Build the fantasy first, THEN see if there's something there you're actually interested in IRL.

[Te****]

From my perspective and experience it’s actually impossible to answer your question „why“ without a lot more information. It could me because of many factors, developments in your life or even specific triggers. Then don’t get me started on what „being submissive to a man“ actually means for you. Could be sexual or non-sexual, curiosity or deeper desire as well as other things. That in turn would be needed to know in order understand exactly why just that.

The actual question maybe is more like does the „why“ actually matter? Explore and experience whatever you want without questioning yourself and boxing your self in with needing to understand the reason. Just be playful and gentle with yourself in the exploration also allowing to find out what’s not for you. I think you will figure everything out over time that way automatically.

[Ra****]

I like girls too

[Mi****]

Factory settings

[Bi****]

Asking why is a hard question to answer. It brings more questions then answers let me know if you want to explore those feelings and we can talk

[fa****]

I am sorry, someone must have pressed the reset button in your brain, now your desires are back to factory settings. But don't worry you are able to explore and shape your desires as you act on them or focus more on other things that turn you on!

[Sm****]

On 2/22/2026 at 6:11 AM, Kassy541 said:

Im a girl and been attracted to girls for a long time but recently have this craving of being submissive to a man. Why? This is new to me.

Very good question. So I will give you a very good answer. We are humans and as history shows . Our species have deep drive for adventure and knowledge. Even though we shouldn't at time. Our curiously gets the best of us and makes us look over the other side of the mountain 

[No****]

It’s perfectly natural to feel attraction to whoever it is you feel attraction to. If you feel yourself developing feelings or attractions towards a gender, you previously weren’t I’d recommend exploring those feelings. Safely of course.

[Ju****]

Biology 🤷‍♂️🙂

[xl****]

You can always explore

[Da****]

Men naturally are dominant. So it makes complete sense sweets. Hope you find what you're looking for

[jpb]

If it feels good (and all are consenting) then give it a try

[Sy****]

Is it being submissive in general or in sexual sense?