Does it actually work?

[Se****]

Maybe you do, but then you can give them consent in private or maybe in your bio, you do as you want, but if they do for me, I won't just block them, but also report them, ignoring another's consent is a grave fault, be it in a normal dating app or in a kink related app, and I don't give them consent and I don't want to have to see this in my inbox, nor should I ! You know, Dégradation is also my kink, but I want to have it with my partner, Dom or master, not some random guy whome I know nothing

[Mi****]

Women = send whatever you want to guys
Hot guys = send whatever you want to women
All other guys = doesn’t matter what you send you’re not getting a response either way

[La****]

3 minutes ago, MisterSatisfaction said:

Women = send whatever you want to guys
Hot guys = send whatever you want to women
All other guys = doesn’t matter what you send you’re not getting a response either way

I don't care if he looks like a god. If his opening message is gross, it's getting deleted.

[Se****]

Toxic hot guys are still toxic guys, so yeah, same procedure ! Block and report 😀

[el****]

I feel the EXACT same way you do. I don’t respond either. It’s disgusting and disrespectful. It’s one thing to work your way up to that kind of conversation, but to just message women and talk like that is disturbing.

[Jonathanboyd]

It's my first choice because it was the only way for a woman to be actually interested in me when getting to know each other. No WOMAN HAS EVER GIVEN ME THE CHANCE IN HELL, without me being sexual. I have gotten a few hook ups and various failed talking stages, but I have been single for 5 years

[Mi****]

16 minutes ago, Lady_Char said:

I don't care if he looks like a god. If his opening message is gross, it's getting deleted.

Maybe I could’ve said it differently. I watch hot guys send lewd messages or just “Hey” and have a success rate much higher than my success rate when sending the same messages plus messages that are thought out, done with effort, and from a place of wanting to converse and get to know someone.

Their success rate isn’t 100% because there are women who will block and report. But their success rate is still much higher than guys who aren’t hot.

[vv****]

Toxic guys are really outing themselves on this post 👀

[By****]

I always try to be gentle and never send less messages but it doesn’t world too

[Jonathanboyd]

Not a toxic guy, just giving a first hand account called facts, no opinions.

[Ch****]

Personally, no. It's one reason I get so tired of these sites.

[Ar****]

36 minutes ago, MisterSatisfaction said:

Women = send whatever you want to guys

Women, please do NOT send "whatever you want" to me

 

Ffs 🤦‍♂️

[Go****]

3 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

Women, please do NOT send "whatever you want" to me

 

Ffs 🤦‍♂️

I won’t send you any chocolate or ice cream, don’t worry 😝

 

 

[Mi****]

I never start with a lewd messages. I’m trying to make an impression and I don’t want that to be anyone’s first impression of Me.

[sp****]

Definitely not a comment but if the profile suggests its kinky then id try

[ok****]

I block them. It's a good way to weed out the creeps.

[vv****]

7 minutes ago, MisterDafydd said:

I never start with a lewd messages. I’m trying to make an impression and I don’t want that to be anyone’s first impression of Me.

This is the way. ☝️

[Mi****]

Just now, vvhitelie said:

This is the way. ☝️

This is the way.

[Ar****]

9 minutes ago, GoodGirlBetterBrat said:

I won’t send you any chocolate or ice cream, don’t worry 😝

Well-played, I can offer only admiration and no comeback 😂

[Go****]

1 minute ago, Aranhis said:

Well-played, I can offer only admiration and no comeback 😂

Yeah but you can buy me ice cream next time I visit instead 😂

[gy****]

I like to start out with HI THERE SEXY LADY!! is that too offensive??

[ca****]

1 hour ago, callmeleo said:

I called out one guy and he said “I thought you were a slutty type of girl.” Like sluts deserve a good morning/hey how are you/whats up too

Like sluts DONT* deserve

[Mo****]

I am one of the women who does not like being approached with lewd messages. I even state on my page to speak to me with respect. I like intelligent conversation and to connect and get to know someone. I also can't stand when I get messages from men who have not read my page and are not what I'm looking for or men that have read my page and aren't what I'm looking for but think they will be the exception. I pass on them and move along. No respect? No messages? Not what I'm looking for? I won't give them the time of day.

[ne****]

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For any men who start out conversations with a lewd message, how often does that actually lead to a hookup online or irl? And why is that your first choice when approaching someone?

It rarely works out but I still send them anyways lol

[ki****]

I hope people learn to respect boundaries and respond with a respectful and sincere message. You will have more success if you show interest other than your physical attributes. Be better!