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Is there anyone that is currently sharing or has shared gf in the past with other man. Did you ever feel less of a man or did you regret it.

Yea that shits lame imo I don’t like feeling like a cuck

Master talks about sharing me at times. But not as Him being a cuck. He wants to control us both. That is an option. The owner doesn’t have to be cuck.

Na. Do what makes you happy and fuck anyone else.

Wow these men commenting are really showing who the weak ones are. SMH

Polyamory is not for the weak, you have to deal with your own insecurities and things. It can be amazing though!

No.. Because it made her happy and desired.

😂yeah do it and see how it makes you feel my MAN

It really helped through breaking down my toxic ego and come to know what I bring to the table and rein*** my beliefs in the goid things about me. And the bad thing so that needed improvement. It's a journey. And it may not last forever. But if you can swallow a little ego, maybe have a respectful guy, it helps.

For example, my ex loved sushi and I didn't. She had a guy take her on a date to a very nice sushi restaurant. The way I see it.

I got a me a night of free time for myself (I had dates other nights and try to stay free in case she feels unsafe or needs Me)
She got to go to whree she wants and be super happy. With someone to enjoy it with her.
I didn't have to pay lol.
And we banged when she got back and I got a back massage. Soooook perks, but death of toxic ego. And birth of confidence in who you are. Know thyself.

As someone who does not engage in monogamy at all. If you aren’t sure how you feel for any reason at all it’s probably best to stick to a monogamous structure see if there are other ways to get what you actually want out of sharing without doing so. If it was a partners suggestion just say no for now and give yourself more time to consider other avenues.

Its not for everyone but you should focus on the connection and time you have together and yes you are competing in a way, who has more to offer sometimes is huge or how close you get. I wasn't worried that much and I enjoyed my time with her though limited, she did eventually pick another guy to be more traditional with but life if full of shitty lessons to learn. And knowing when to let go is a good one and that your time together is valuable so offer the most you have. Granted this isn't always going to be the case here people vary so to say that my experience is the same for all is wrong but we are all competing shared or not

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