Should men pay for their women’s nails and hair?

[MistressWhipplash]

I pay for my own, but my Slave has paid too. It depends what I want.

[Deleted Member]

Of course they should

[am****]

I don't think women get their nails done to look good for the guys. It's for themselves, so no I don't think they should pay for it. Unless they want to.

[yu****]

If that’s his preference: hair, nails, wax, shoes, lingerie, etc—then yes. If he met me that way, then yes, because to dump c*m in me, on my face, on tiddays, my shoulders knees and toes cost whatever effort I put into it myself c*m free.

[Dee_n_Jay]

My slave does her own hair and nails, she always does it to please me, and she always does a fantastic job, and always looks amazing. She wouldn't want me to pay for anything so I would have to order her to let me pay lol.

[Deleted Member]

If they want them to look a certain way, yes. I’ll always ask opinions but if I’m paying it’s my final decision. I’ve incorporated favorite colors or asked them to pick once I’ve narrowed down my choices. All about making them feel included

[Ma****]

If he is my Dom, then yes. But not just for the average meeting, get together, etc. 

[sk****]

When it's official that you belong to me; we've discussed exclusivity. Yes. Early stages - eh - it can set the wrong dynamic; if you're looking for respect. Becoming a human ATM before showing a woman that you are a man that deserves honor and respect can be a dangerous game to play.

[Br****]

Nope. If I did that for every woman I played with more than once that would be 10 women I would be paying for.

I don’t expect them to pay for my beard trims, haircuts, deodorant.

I have noticed I drive a lot but I’m happy to pay for that. If you’re polyam and want to see multiple partners you best be prepared to travel.

My sub looks good with or without makeup. There are other ways to spoil her….

[Ra****]

I think that is a dynamic question, if it works in your relationship then do it. This question fits in a bunch of categories because you could be doing the pay pig thing or you could just be being generous, but the way this question is stated, it seems more like a stereotype men should pay for women. 🤷‍♂️ so maybe clarify what you are asking. I don’t think being a dominant means you pay for your submissive because the concept is deeper than vanilla “ how to woo the opposite sack techniques”

[Deleted Member]

Maybe has a gift as in a birthday but in general not really.

[Deleted Member]

On 3/27/2026 at 11:55 PM, GeneGrey said:

I think men should because their women put effort to look good for them. But what do you guys think?

No, mostly disagree there. For a gift like for a birthday but other than that it's their choice. 

[Kn****]

I think it depends on the relationship dynamic. Some people have trauma connected to gifti gifting and get weirded out by unsolicited attempts to pay for/buy stuff for them. I think if there’s a conversation and an agreement beforehand, that helps. Learn the other person’s love language(s). You might find that gifts are welcome, or that they are traumatic.

[SugarFreeDaddy]

No. Dating someone doesn't entitle you to their ***, unless it's an agreement between the two.

[li****]

Honoring and appreciating the person you are with however they enjoy being honored or appreciated … can never be wrong.