Caretaker variant?

[Ap****]

So my initial thought was caretakers were the big in a big little dynamic. But is that all they are? I suspect not as we are all unique.

So came to this ponder when understanding what in need from a partner, being on the spectrum myself. I had shaped it as understanding and compassion, but am now wondering if the caretaker is one of many ways that would manifest? And not only for my needs, but would my situation fulfill a caretaker as well?

Then on top of this, could this be a kink that can often times be folded into vanilla life with a partner than needs help?

Thank you, open mind awaiting.

[Ba****]

Not really my field but as far as i understand as the caregiver you could be anything from a bigger little or middle babysitter over a nanny type to a parental figure or teacher up to a mentor or grandparent
So yeah everything is possible, you could even be submissive caregiver trying (and failing) to handle a spoiled sadistic bratty little princess with impossible standards and random expectations if you want

Additionally the connections between CGL and BDSM and the connection between CGL and sexuality are both entirely optional and quite controversial with strong opinions on all sides both in- and outside the relevant communities

[pu****]

Sometimes a feeder is a cg too

[La****]

Glad that someone put this topic to light.
Yes ofc.
Im a caregiver. But NOT a mommy as in maternal type of parental figure.
Im a big ***, a teacher, and a protector. I love taking care of my sweet baby subs. But being seen as their mother (mommy) doesn’t click with me.

[La****]

Just now, Lady_King said:

Glad that someone put this topic to light.
Yes ofc.
Im a caregiver. But NOT a mommy as in maternal type of parental figure.
Im a big ***, a teacher, and a protector. I love taking care of my sweet baby subs. But being seen as their mother (mommy) doesn’t click with me.

*big s_is.ter

[Li****]

Yes some littles are dominant to the cg. Those are called princesses.

[ti****]

I’m a caretaker, in the sense that when your mind leaves and your body takes over I help you come back together when we are done. I have no B/L daddy/girl teacher/student roll play in mind. It’s about control and trust. Trust me and you will not be harmed (more than tge normal ***) emotionally or harm your heart or soul..

It’s not about the dominant to submissive. It’s about the control and of trust. Knowing they have given me all of them to take care of during our time together knowing I will be there until they are whole again.