Masochistic mayhem

[DirtyDaddyx]

Hi fellow kinksters. 
 

These questions are targeted at masochists but anyone is invited to comment or further the discussion. 

How does the location of p@in on your body, the type of p@in and how the p@in is delivered affect your experience? 
 

Do you crave for specific p@in or general? 

If you have specific preferences how do you get a new sadistic partner on board with that ? And similarly if your new sadistic partner has new ideas, how is best to go about introducing these? 
 

Ddx

[W1****]

Very specific. I am not into whips, paddles or spanking. I like pinching, biting, hair pulling and mild estim. More intense *** in less sensitive areas. Or less prolonged if it is more intense.

As far as new experiences, let them try it on themselves (if they consent to the type of ***). Then test a mild degree of *** on the area you would like to inflict ***( again with consent). If you interact with a partner often enough you may learn what is always ok, and what is off limits.

Also consent is not permanent. Asked where and which implements are ok before each session.

These are my 2 cents. Definitely ask your partners these questions every time. People change, maybe become open to new experiences or grow a dislike of old.

[ts****]

I’m a pleasure Dom but if my submissive gets pleasure from *** - I’m going to do my best to please them in that way. Communication as to what they “need”, taking it slow so that you understand what the submissive can take while paying attention to their reactions are - you should be able to ascertain what they are enjoying / getting off on vs. suffering with. Communication is always key!

[sardonicus87]

I have no response on the question (sadist here), I just want to comment to say that these kind of questions are a great example of the kind of communication people should be having with prospective play partners.

Whenever I have—and will continue to say—that communication is key, this is a big part of what I mean.

Might seem tedious, but it needs doing.

[Su****]

I agree communication and consent for each play session are essential. I am a *** queen and I rarely want less *** but sometimes I do. I make sure my needs are known and I check my play partners needs. It's essential