Just thinking out loud

[bo****]

I’m sure everyone has an opinion on this. For myself it all starts with a good self inventory, why did I get into this relationship? What were my expectations? Do I even know what their expectations are? What changed? Do I even know the root of this change and am I willing to put in the effort to be all in or am I just pointed to the exit? Truthfully they both involve my active participation. Probably the most important question did I sit down and communicate any of this with my partner.
At the end of the day I don’t think there are any wrong answer. The older I get the more I really value communication.

[Ma****]

13 hours ago, Barthold said:

Really?? After calling a simple „talk to your partner““projection“ you go on to suggest what could end up being passive aggressively bullying their partner into leaving instead as „the only choice“??

Its one option. Not the only nor the healthiest haha

[Lo****]

I agree with this!

[To****]

Wednesday at 12:00 PM, boston472 said:

I’m sure everyone has an opinion on this. For myself it all starts with a good self inventory, why did I get into this relationship? What were my expectations? Do I even know what their expectations are? What changed? Do I even know the root of this change and am I willing to put in the effort to be all in or am I just pointed to the exit? Truthfully they both involve my active participation. Probably the most important question did I sit down and communicate any of this with my partner.
At the end of the day I don’t think there are any wrong answer. The older I get the more I really value communication.

💯🍻🫣💭 not long after my second divorce where my ex and I had been drifting apart for about 5 years. been divorced before and you're trying harder to improve on things but other habits that creep in overtime like not giving each other attention or making the time to talk about things that are happening and getting a little too comfortable with assuming that the other person knows what is on your mind because you've been together so long.

[st****]

Yep. I just done mine.

[il****]

Some relationship are built in a way you won’t have no right to decide on your own. For example a TPE relationship is designed to give up total control in which you won’t have right on your own

[Ba****]

9 hours ago, iliamna770459 said:

Some relationship are built in a way you won’t have no right to decide on your own. For example a TPE relationship is designed to give up total control in which you won’t have right on your own

Dude in most civilized places the interpersonal negotiations of BDSM/kink dynamics are not legally binding but the freedom of the individual to leave a relationship they no longer want to be in is

So yes every sub can decide on their own to stop giving up total control and end even a TPE