Just thinking out loud

[bo****]

I’m sure everyone has an opinion on this. For myself it all starts with a good self inventory, why did I get into this relationship? What were my expectations? Do I even know what their expectations are? What changed? Do I even know the root of this change and am I willing to put in the effort to be all in or am I just pointed to the exit? Truthfully they both involve my active participation. Probably the most important question did I sit down and communicate any of this with my partner.
At the end of the day I don’t think there are any wrong answer. The older I get the more I really value communication.

[Ma****]

13 hours ago, Barthold said:

Really?? After calling a simple „talk to your partner““projection“ you go on to suggest what could end up being passive aggressively bullying their partner into leaving instead as „the only choice“??

Its one option. Not the only nor the healthiest haha

[Lo****]

I agree with this!