Da**** Posted May 20 Any human relationship can evolve and to any other style of human relationship. Nothing is linear or absolute. That being said, don't go into it with an expectation that hasn't been properly communicated.
Deleted Member Posted May 20 NSA means there’s no strings but that doesn’t mean it can’t be something else. Don’t go limiting yourself
cu**** Posted May 20 NSA can most definitely turn into something more either intentionally or unintentionally and it all depends on the people involved.
An**** Posted May 20 Yes it can, had a fwb/nsa relationship for yrs and wound up dating her for awhile.
Deleted Member Posted May 21 NSA and ONS are not mutually exclusive…meaning you can absolutely have one without the other but they do overlap at times and can be the same but not always
Tr**** Posted May 21 (Disclaimer, I lack the expertise to speak authoritatively) I’d think so. I’m casual/NSA because I don’t think I’m in a stable enough place mentally to commit, not out of a lack of desire to. If I surprised myself it’d be wonderful but I world feel dishonest committing to such.
ch**** Posted May 21 My wife and I separated and she's in a committed relationship with her nsa fwb and he takes good care of her so I would say yes.
Ul**** Posted May 21 Basically, yes.. any relationship can change and evolve or even devolve and turn sour. As other have pointed out, communication is key. This will allow things to be guided and hopefully prevent those awkward moments.
Tw**** Posted May 21 Almost always an emotional connection is formed. When women have sex they release a lot more oxytocin than men.
Bi**** Posted May 22 Not in my experience. It leads to being on completely different pages, where one gets very hurt and the other becomes more and more distant and less willing to participate. Eventually things will end badly.
Ta**** Posted 23 hours ago It truly depends on the foundation. When genuine connection, deep trust, and strong emotional intimacy are present, what begins as a no-strings-attached arrangement can naturally evolve into something far more meaningful — often becoming one of the most fulfilling relationships imaginable. I’ve experienced this several times. My last one started purely as NSA, yet it blossomed into an intensely passionate, wildly fun, and deeply satisfying connection that lasted seven remarkable years. Even now, I still carry great affection and fond memories for her. Though it ultimately ended for reasons unrelated to how it began, it remains one of the most memorable chapters of my life.
Ha**** Posted 10 hours ago I leave it off my profile for the reason that I have been in such "situationships" and someone always gets hurt, because feelings develop only on one side. And also because to me, when someone says they want NSA, it translates to "casual sex" or "casual kinky stuff", but mostly "casual sex", and that just doesn't do it for me, personally. While sex is a way to deepen a bond for me, I'm not there right away. I need safety, security, trust, and a sense of whether I would want the guy in my life regardless of whether sex was on the table or not. I typically develop romantic feelings of wanting to be that guy's "special someone" (what I call a "crush") before any sexual attraction or desire develops, so I just don't get anything out of casual flings; I have only ever gotten a sense of emptiness, loneliness, and alienation from having sex without some amount of love and admiration for the other as a person on both sides being the case beforehand. At the same time, those things don't typically develop overnight, so, I can see how NSA could mean "let's see where things go" out of a desire to not want to burden the interaction with expectation. I worry that my lack of inclusion of NSA will feel like pressure, but at the same time, I most definitely do not want requests for casual cyberfun or one night stands
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