Kinky dates

[zh****]

So, I’m seeing alot of people saying they are into kinky dates, but I have not dated in a while, and it got me thinking, what are kinky dates for you? What are your expectations?

[kl****]

Most problem location .Fet program is poorly chosen by people based on distance or needs

[cum4meSlowly]

Well looking for a kinky date I hope she would come without any knickers on or at least be willing to take them off and hand them over

[DC****]

Getting tied up

[typhoon2]

For me a kinky date involves kink and not just normal dating aspects. This might be the conversation revolving around BDSM themes, terminology, past scenes, possibly future scenes. It might be with the anticipation of hours in the dungeon as soon as the drinks are finished. The degree of kink is less important than the fact that kink is core to the date.

[Ro****]

I was thinking the exact same thing. So many girls have “kinky date” and what the heck does that mean.

[Ma****]

36 minutes ago, typhoon2 said:

For me a kinky date involves kink and not just normal dating aspects. This might be the conversation revolving around BDSM themes, terminology, past scenes, possibly future scenes. It might be with the anticipation of hours in the dungeon as soon as the drinks are finished. The degree of kink is less important than the fact that kink is core to the date.

I agree with this idea of a kinky date. A kinky date doesn't even need to involve a dungeon and IMO should be a continuous event in a relationship. A kinky date could involve nothing more than a vanilla date with a Top/Dom/me controlling a vibe in a restaurant.

[Re****]

I have no idea what a Kinky Date is I just do what is Natural! I show up with no bra, no undies, a a great thirst for C**k!

[Fa****]

I figured it would also include adult film watching?

[Ba****]

Well the „kinky“-part is just the theme of this app, you know like having „spanks“ instead of „likes“, calling everybody on here „kinksters“, naming this forum „kink academy“ ect, they are kind of milking it here and there are no alternative „dates“ options to look for on here either so it’s just „normal“ date between assumed to be „kinky“ people

Don’t let the pretty labels mislead you, it’s not that deep
Getting a coffee at starbucks together is as much a „kinky date“ as visiting a dungeon on this app

[Ma****]

So basically it means different things to different people... like so many other things.

[Ro****]

romantic outings or intimate encounters centered around exploring consensual sexual interests, fantasies, or fetishes that fall outside of conventional, mainstream ("vanilla") sex

[ey****]

In theory, I guess it would depend on what the other person hoped for.

For me a date is a date regardless of if they are kinky or not

When it is meeting specifically for play I'd say it's a "play date" rather than a kinky date - what it entails is what we both agree on

[Ka****]

Well if you go based off the Kinky Ads then it’s meeting for sex in some form,

[gy****]

I went on a kink date in which we discussed before hand the purpose of it, then the date was a date within a "role play"... its fun, i had enjoyed it ... ive also gone on dates where the vibe was not there so we parted ways without further ado

[Ha****]

I'd like to go on what I would see as a "kinky date", which is setting up a sort of scene/roleplay as something fun to do and to kind of get a feel for a potential dynamic and what that might be like with someone, but because kinky date seems to mean "causal freaky sex" to many people, I leave it off my profile, because a lot of people also seem to not read any of it, even the first few words, and just message based off a picture. Please excuse the underlying tone of annoyance and exhaustion in the reply lol

[Deleted Member]

The only kinky dates ive attended are bdsm educational events

[Nomad-2850]

Thats a interesting prospect. Im learning

[zh****]

16 hours ago, Hana-- said:

I'd like to go on what I would see as a "kinky date", which is setting up a sort of scene/roleplay as something fun to do and to kind of get a feel for a potential dynamic and what that might be like with someone, but because kinky date seems to mean "causal freaky sex" to many people, I leave it off my profile, because a lot of people also seem to not read any of it, even the first few words, and just message based off a picture. Please excuse the underlying tone of annoyance and exhaustion in the reply lol

Thank you so much for this, it’s exactly the info i was looking for ❤️

[zh****]

Yesterday at 01:10 AM, gypsyraven said:

I went on a kink date in which we discussed before hand the purpose of it, then the date was a date within a "role play"... its fun, i had enjoyed it ... ive also gone on dates where the vibe was not there so we parted ways without further ado

Awesome! Exactly the info i was curious about

[Th****]

Would that also include just a vanilla date but with some kink mixed in, like she gave me the socks she had on at the date to play with, but otherwise it was a boring dinner date

[mt****]

Different things to different people. Without a lot of back and forth communication in the beginning, because without a good amount of communication, expectations for kinks should be low from the outset. That goes without saying that there are a lot of fake profiles on any app including this one. It takes a lot of discernment to reach the inevitable goal.

[ka****]

I can't get a date on this site. IDK what I'm doing wrong but frfr I'm growing so I don't really care about to delete.
Sad part is there's several women here that I'd do about anything for and even a few I see potential wife material. I have bad social skills but I'm up front and I guess maby I try too hard and don't know how to say what I want were ladies don't freak out on me. I apologize for my rambling Idk

[ey****]

5 hours ago, kansas-city21005 said:

I can't get a date on this site. IDK what I'm doing wrong but frfr I'm growing so I don't really care about to delete.
Sad part is there's several women here that I'd do about anything for and even a few I see potential wife material. I have bad social skills but I'm up front and I guess maby I try too hard and don't know how to say what I want were ladies don't freak out on me. I apologize for my rambling Idk

usually when posts start "I don't know what I'm doing wrong" it's a case of "well, neither do we if we don't know what you're doing" but there's a few obvious flags.

like on one hand, your profile reading that you didn't pay so expect others to message you comes across like you're cheap and want others to put the work in.  Your profile is also very basic and it doesn't sound like you even know what you're looking for.

The profiles you're looking at are a couple of pictures and a few lines of text - it would be impossible from this to view anyone as being a wife - and that you claim there's several you'd do anything for also comes across very desperate and again, why, you've no relationship.  If you're talking with one and another asks you to do something do you drop things for them?