The death of kink

[th****]

Yeah I get that this feels more like a popularity contest to me sometimes even been here for a few months with nothing and no one to show for it 🤷🏾‍♂️

[Mo****]

Yeah same here man, I'm tempted to delete my account fully instead of just going inactive, I've been here for ages and quite literally the only people I've talked to who haven't either deleted their accounts or ghosted is creepy people in my dms or scammers that are most likely in the process of being banned.
Yeah I've had a couple good chats here and there, but anytime I try to find a little to connect with on an actual relationship type level it has fallen through every time because they disappear, and I'm just left back where I started, just wanting someone to hold at the end of a long and tiresome day..

[DM****]

Be true to yourself, nothing else at this point matters. Search for what you need, and settle for NOTHING less.

[si****]

I have felt that way too at times. I haven't met the right person yet. Keyword is yet. I have met some really great people on here. Yes, I have had my fair share of creeps and hook up seekers. I either ignore them or block them. I had to take a break from any new relationships due to my health, but have stayed on and made new friends. I actually think one of my new friends could possibly be a good fit for you? DM me and I'll fill you in.

[Em****]

I’ve really only met weirdos on here so far or people o have no interest in. I have televised for sex many times in my life but I’ve gone celibate this year and decided I won’t have sex until I’m in a dedicated relationship. But it makes my kinds that much more important to me. I want to find someone that will indulge all my kinks and that I want to fall in love with

[Kinkyboy1980]

41 minutes ago, EmeraldShoreline said:

I’ve really only met weirdos on here so far or people o have no interest in. I have televised for sex many times in my life but I’ve gone celibate this year and decided I won’t have sex until I’m in a dedicated relationship. But it makes my kinds that much more important to me. I want to find someone that will indulge all my kinks and that I want to fall in love with

I like this, I feel the same, I've been in vanilla relationships, was married for 15 years. I want to meet a kinky woman whilst I can and still have energy. I don't just want random sex with anyone, did all that in my early 20s. I want to love someone and vice versa.

[Da****]

16 minutes ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

I like this, I feel the same, I've been in vanilla relationships, was married for 15 years. I want to meet a kinky woman whilst I can and still have energy. I don't just want random sex with anyone, did all that in my early 20s. I want to love someone and vice versa.

This. Fully agreed.

[la****]

The pursuit of happiness can be exhausting. Most kink requires some level of trust, which to me just doesn't happen overnight. While the body still craves freedom, the brain protects us. And women, we have an extra added layer of a need for safety. It's okay to crave connection. Just like it's okay to want a ONS, but the key is respecting everyone's specific wants, needs, and boundaries.

My experience has been frustrating to say the least. I sometimes lose hope surrounding finding a true daddy, but I've met a couple cool people. Maybe not my person, but still.

[Em****]

18 hours ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

I like this, I feel the same, I've been in vanilla relationships, was married for 15 years. I want to meet a kinky woman whilst I can and still have energy. I don't just want random sex with anyone, did all that in my early 20s. I want to love someone and vice versa.

Wish my original post didn’t have so many typos lol.
It was supposed to say I have felt used for sex many times. No idea where televised came from. Haha  my point still stands though.

[Re****]

Shut up, nobody wants to deal with you "spine".

[Em****]

3 hours ago, ReliableDoubt said:

Shut up, nobody wants to deal with you "spine".

Who got your panties in a bunch ?

[wi****]

Just a another horrible character who loves to hurt women instead of build them up and bring out their potential. I wouldnt give him the satisfaction of attention.

[Re****]

Fuck'm .

[Re****]

Friday at 03:44 PM, EmeraldShoreline said:

Who got your panties in a bunch ?

I love having my panties in a bunch, but that's besides the point, did we. It read the same thing? Fuck that bitch and her got dam "spine".

[Em****]

48 minutes ago, ReliableDoubt said:

I love having my panties in a bunch, but that's besides the point, did we. It read the same thing? Fuck that bitch and her got dam "spine".

Don’t think we did bc idk what tf you’re talking about.

[Kinkyboy1980]

41 minutes ago, EmeraldShoreline said:

Don’t think we did bc idk what tf you’re talking about.

Why is he attacking you?

[wi****]

Cuz he is mad that he is a sniveling little sorry excuse for a man and attacking who ever gives him the attention to do so.

[Em****]

58 minutes ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

Why is he attacking you?

lil dick energy, and obviously a woman hater. Never once saw OP mention spine that he’s so hung up on

[Re****]

22 hours ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

Why is he attacking you?

This is an A+B discussion, so C your way out. You all in the Kool aid and don't know the flavor. What I think is more offensive is you assuming she needs you and the other guy to come white white Knighting for her. And how'd that work out for ya?

[wi****]

Im sure its hard for u to understand but if u post on a public forum its no longer a A+B discussion. All your doing is proving that ur a waste of time to anyone reading this. Go play in traffic little buddy.

[Re****]

23 hours ago, EmeraldShoreline said:

Don’t think we did bc idk what tf you’re talking about.

She started out complaining about the dumb dudes that only want sex from her, then she wrote she wants somebody who knows her and is not intimidated by her darkness and her spine 🤢 , and now she non-binary and she don't know if she belong here. Its like shut up , ya 🔩⚾

[Re****]

27 minutes ago, willwantsit said:

Im sure its hard for u to understand but if u post on a public forum its no longer a A+B discussion. All your doing is proving that ur a waste of time to anyone reading this. Go play in traffic little buddy.

That phrase was created in public. How easy it for you to understand why you can't even take your own advice.

[wi****]

🙄👌👍

[Em****]

*** are bad. I suggest your quit doing them dude. 😂😂