PRAISE KINK people, what actually works for you?

[Mi****]

Everyone says they like praise but nobody ever says the actual words. And I noticed the ones that work best aren't always sweet. Sometimes a bit of teasing mixed in hits way harder.

Some of mine. "You're taking me so well". "You look so pretty when you roll your eyes". "Awwn look at my poor baby, trying so hard to please me". That last one is half mean and it works better than anything sweet I've said.

Also noticed some lines do double duty. "You like that, hmmm?" is basically a check-in but it doesn't kill the mood like "are you okay?" does. Anyone else have one like that?

So what's yours? Giving or receiving, sweet or a little mean, sarcastic-ish. And if a line ever completely killed the mood, share that too, those are the fun ones.

[Sq****]

Most of my subs tend to love the you are such a good toy for me

[Th****]

Personally I enjoy hearing how good I am, how good I feel, taste, look. . Things like that

[Go****]

I normally say along the lines of "you're doing such a good job" and "aren't you the perfect little slut" kinda depends on the context tho

[ve****]

I love being told I'm doing a good job and being called a good girl

[Be****]

My absolute favorite is being told Im a good girl.

[Lu****]

i like using mirrors 😏
to make a sub see herself pleasing me and using the “praise” exactly as youve described it , to reward the behavior but teasing and humiliating a bit..
it is a bit natural, in the way i conduct things.
not that calculated, but it is interesting to think more deeply on it

[Cu****]

I like the possessive praise. Being told " thats my good girl" or if were being intimate being told "youre doing such a good job" is sooo hot.

[Ed****]

This Daddy Dom smothers his subs with lots of "...Omg, you are using such good girl behavior!...I just love the way you're learning so quickly!...You're doing an amazing job listening!...You got this, baby girl, Daddy believes in you!..."

[mr****]

Pointing out progress, mixed in with affirms are glorious lol "Look how much further you went this time! Well done, Baby Girl"

[laura90]

By now it is not giving men access to me, giving mixed signals, give them love, then ignorance and suddenly seeing them getting absolutely obsessed with me. It works so easily. I always have been too good in the past.

[an****]

Well these were the 'wet maker' phrases that worked, just hit something real. It doesn't always have to be sexual to be sexually arousing. I learned that.

These were said while working on her with one hand jackhammering trying to get to a release or soaking and after warming up. These acted like gasoline to a fire 🔥.

Your apartment looks so f**king clean

You did a good job baby with laundry, I love the way you fold those towels thats exactly the way I want them and you do it perfectly

Describing whatever food she made in great detail and why it was so good

You are so hydrated I can tell, very detailed

You did a great job getting all your 'xyz'

You take such good care of us (details)

You take such good care of yourself

You deserve such wonderful things

I'm proud of you for 'xyz'

The more detailed the more it hit the need.

[fe****]

I personally love to here that im a good girl, but other phrases that affirm that im doing well in a particular task that I am currently doing sexual or not, praise for keeping my composure when im frustrated or angry as I do have temper and very little patience. Affirmations for taking care of myself is also a hit for me, but one of my absolute favorite phrase is "that a girl", makes melt every time I hear it. I also found that when my Dom verbally claims me out loud is arousing for me.

[am****]

I like being told I’m doing a good job, only when I am though, I don’t want false praise, I also like being told I’m a good girl, basically I want to be rewarded for good behavior

[Sa****]

Anything that compliments. Use the words pretty, sweet, good, precious, or beautiful. You can interchange what you mix it with like, “beautiful face” “sweet girl” “good mouth of yours” “pretty pussy”

[Mu****]

“Thank you for listening to me” is one that always works for me and my partner

[Sp****]

Good girl of course lol
See I knew you could
You made quick work outta that
Fit for a queen
Only my girl could do that
Well now I need to double your reward you took that so well
You're gonna have to give me a minute to compose myself sweetheart you made me a bit too excited with that

[Pa****]

Right after A Lot of impact play "See, that's all it was, you did beautifully"
While wiping away tears "Look at that, you look so beautiful, perfect"
Those were just my two favorite.

[Vl****]

they are numerous, varied, and based on the situation. the highest praise however is "you're such a good girl for me"

[Loganmjol]

What a wonderful little girl you’ve been, I’m so proud you took it all again, I think I’m going to have to reward you with something new now.

[Go****]

I still melt for “good girl” when I fulfil a request or task..

Anything possessive is hot so add in “my little”

Always: you take me so well, you feel so.., you do xyz so fucking good, your amazing.. etc..

For me it’s primarily recognition that I did something either asked for or not. That he noticed…

[si****]

5 hours ago, ThatBratRiss said:

Personally I enjoy hearing how good I am, how good I feel, taste, look. . Things like that

That comes naturally for me. Nothing fake. simple appreciation

[Ur****]

I like praises that are senses focused. I'm so big on focusing on our 5 senses during any time of pleasure.

Sight: "wow you look so good with my 🐓 inside of you"..." you look so good making a mess sucking my 🐓"
Smell: "your wetness smells so good"
"you smell delicious tonight baby girl"
Taste: "god you taste so good on my tongue"
Hear: "you sound so amazing sucking my 🐓".
"...."your 😻 is extra wet
tonight"
Feel: "you feel so amazing baby girl"..."you make daddy so happy by making him feel good"
I like to be recognized in all areas.
Also I like a mix of loving praises and degrading praises.

[xR****]

I love the simple things. "Doing such a good job!" When I am. Calling me pretty. I really loved it when my last domme called me a good girl. I blushes every time. I loved it when she said "Good girl, just keep licking like that. " Like, oh God. 🫠

[Ki****]

I like playing puppy dog games with my female partners sometimes she’s dominant other times I switch and I’m dominant although we can never play the game 🪨📄✂️ because it always ends in a tie, but strangely enough, both of us always win 😝