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[Ki****]

6 minutes ago, FETMOD-BD said:

 - Stay on topic please

Thank you 😊

[Fe****]

See. There it is again: Words to be missunderstood.
It's a mess. Verbal communication.

[Fe****]

What does "dating" even mean? What is the difference to a relationship except time? And does time even matter, if you live in the moment? Really live?!

[ey****]

On 8/29/2026 at 8:46 PM, Connobuckley1 said:

I can't relate to this because I'm new to the app but I mean as a neurospicy individual myself I feel like it's hard for me to find someone who would accept me for who I am

Sometimes I half wonder if the representation of ND folk within the kink community is because, on the whole, it is easier to find the associated acceptance/structure - but then that there is also a lot of challenges in online comms.

The challenges of course can be linked to the form of neurodiversity - someone with ADHD having different challenges to Autism to dyslexia and so on.     I have found it interesting that there are a lot of people in my kink community I know who are different shades of neurodiverse whose online posts can go in one of two ways - from the frequent and oversharing, especially in a friends group they feel is safe - to those extremely reclusive who might pop up now and then when they have the emotional energy

So, yeah - people in general maybe are a little more accepting of ND - but it's sometimes a little easier in community spaces, and, well, like a lot of stuff depends on what your own needs are and how you manage them 

[Ki****]

6 hours ago, Fehmarn68bi said:

See. There it is again: Words to be missunderstood.
It's a mess. Verbal communication.

Well it was just the same thing i always struggle with. Ppl thinking i mean more than what i said.