Single interest kinksters?

[Co****]

Is it somewhat common for people to have a single interest as far as kinks, and for those that do have you found dating or finding partners to be more challenging? Or is it more of a "you'll find what you like once you're in the lifestyle" sort of deal?

I know there are many devout spanko's that only do spanking but I feel like it's more rare to see people into other stuff ONLY be into that

[Ch****]

We've found it best when people look at it from a dyadic standpoint. You might only like one thing, but it's amazing what you get into when "you" becomes a "we". For example, jenna never wore latex before she met Chrome, and she helped Chrome unlock his more sadistic impulses. Both of us are happier as a result...and we could go on sharing ways we developed things together. I hope this addressed the point you're making...our kinks weren't limited to one, but they're certainly a lot more together.

[be****]

No

[gg****]

A lot of people on this app are into p@in or ropes or other stuff, I’m into latex and not really into any of the other stuff so finding someone (especially not 800 miles away) has been tough. Especially since a lot of the guys on here are creeps and most women just ignore messages at this point.

[aj****]

I love showing my tiny dick

[ey****]

there are a lot of single-interest folk.   They are sometimes known as "Fetishists" since they're not really into D/s either as a dynamic or even play outside of their specific interest.

For how difficult it is - I guess it depends on what their single interest is?

You mention spanking as a common one. Foot fetish is another common one.   

[Co****]

3 hours ago, ChromeStarz said:

We've found it best when people look at it from a dyadic standpoint. You might only like one thing, but it's amazing what you get into when "you" becomes a "we". For example, jenna never wore latex before she met Chrome, and she helped Chrome unlock his more sadistic impulses. Both of us are happier as a result...and we could go on sharing ways we developed things together. I hope this addressed the point you're making...our kinks weren't limited to one, but they're certainly a lot more together.

Good to know, it doesn't surprise me a partner can bring you in new directions like that lol

[Wr****]

I have what I call my gateway kink - the one that started it all. I think it's unusual that people stick to just one but it probably happens a bit.

[***Fetish_Urineluck]

Major p@@ fetish. Super difficult to find like-minded girls where that's also her main kink.

[Deleted Member]

I tend to keep an open mind, theirs things that are more appealing up front and some things that are a definite no. But I think the partner I'm with is a large factor. It should feel natural the way you play off each others energy and desires.

[Ke****]

I don't most kinks have a base in just one idea, I think it tends to expand into a wide range of kinks

[Ko****]

I see where your coming from but I think thats only if your kinks dont align.
For example I'm not so much into feet but do like them in my face on occasion in the middle of sessions. On the other hand never have I gotten excited about me giving mine to someone else. That's until I met that girl with a foot kink. So as weird and turn off as it was for me I would let her enjoy her kink and she let's me enjoy mine. We shared different kinks but one didnt stop the other from enjoying ourselves. It's about keeping an open mind and if your kinks clash with your yuks I think thats the only time it's a problem.

[Wr****]

My kink is being my role. It is singular for me. I don't have many things for myself outside of the role that wouldn't seem extremely vanilla. I will do anything for the right sub with the right connection. I'm fortunate to have that now. It's an interesting experience tending to someone else's needs in some rather wild ways that don't "do it for you" by definition. I also think that's probably why I manage to do those things well. It's just a love of the game and my sub.

[ka****]

Not sure anyone has just one kink.... at least they may have others they haven't found yet ... for me I love being spanked especially during sex. But I also have another kink as I call it.... where I dress in a teddy or some sexy lingerie and let a man slowly undress me .... gets me soo hot ... and being told how to please him and when is hot but not into chastity or ***.... so can't say dom/sub is for me. Even though I consider myself a sub bottom . If that makes sense.