Limits

[Deleted Member]

Since you have started exploring kink, has your limits changed along the way? Have you got more or less over the years?

[LG****]

They absolutely have changed and much much less limits. Much more fun that way

[ey****]

Yes

and

both ways

there are things which were a limit which I tried and went straight back to being a limit - there are also things I am in no hurry to try

there are things I tried that were limits that are now... I will do them on the mood

and... there are things I used to be happy with that I've chucked onto my limits given pretty much everyone takes it too far (I don't think as a deliberate intention - but, y'know) 

[Ba****]

My soft limits have changed a lot. Growing to include some of my past hard limits, while my hard limits have probably shorten. My soft limits are mainly just labeled that way because I havent done enough research on them, or I've done research but aren't sure how I feel about it.

[Deleted Member]

I have got to the point that I prefer no limitations and no safe word involved as I want my own boundaries pushed beyond my own perspective

[mo****]

Id love to get pegged by a big woman and her enjoy it

[ge****]

In respect of things I've already had experience of my limits have remained pretty much the same - though if there were a new angle to them the boundaries I had with them may change.
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However there are some things that previously would have been limits as in I had no interest in trying them, which I now have an interest in trying, or have tried - two examples of this being watersports and chastity - both of which if you'd asked me a few years ago would have been of no interest, but now I'd either be open to (in the case of watersports) or have experienced (in the case of chastity).
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Aside from the obvious ones which would always be a hard no, I guess I see limits a little like food you don't like - if you find a recipe that appeals you may be open to trying it.

[Xd****]

Yes, Most definitely, 

Tho even just finding a friend with similar interests and local, is near impossible to find..guess I'm in the wrong city??

[Rebel-3817]

I would have to say yes my hard limits are now soft limits except for two No Poop & you better be clean or imma but your ass in the shower 😁

[Deleted Member]

changed quite a bit, my *** tolerance got much higher with time, also i like it rougher on both sides 😝

[Ni****]

Honestly my limits started out as basically everything and moved to something more reasonable. Though they have not changed really at all in about a year. Probably from the fact I've not had a partner in so long!

[mo****]

Yes

[ge****]

1 hour ago, Sandholme63 said:

I have got to the point that I prefer no limitations and no safe word involved as I want my own boundaries pushed beyond my own perspective

You still need limits though to be able to not only safeguard yourself but others too, as well as frame things for them.
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Regardless I'm sure you do have limits to some degree....for example if a dominant said they wanted to permanently tattoo "F*CK SLUT" on your forehead would that be a boundary you'd consent to being pushed?
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If not then that right there is a limit, and I bet there are others besides.

[Adamc90]

I have explored some things I thought I wouldn't. It's a great adventure

[Fl****]

Definitely more! I like pushing the limits.

[Deleted Member]

When I first joined the site, I had a list of limits as long as you arm 🤣 Most of those, I slowly realised, were prejudices and ignorance. Now my hard limits list is small but my soft limits are numerous and exist on a sliding scale. Growth should involve an opening of yourself, I feel, as well as a narrowing down of what you truly enjoy.

[co****]

I wouldn't say more or less, just more defined

[te****]

1 hour ago, Lady_Char said:

When I first joined the site, I had a list of limits as long as you arm 🤣 Most of those, I slowly realised, were prejudices and ignorance. Now my hard limits list is small but my soft limits are numerous and exist on a sliding scale. Growth should involve an opening of yourself, I feel, as well as a narrowing down of what you truly enjoy.

What sort of things were limits that you now consider prejudices and ignorance?

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, Sandholme63 said:

I have got to the point that I prefer no limitations and no safe word involved as I want my own boundaries pushed beyond my own perspective

I'm surprised with not even a safe word. Have you pre discussed everything and have the trust that everything will be within as discussed? Or do you have other form of communication/signal if things does get too far?

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Lady_Char said:

When I first joined the site, I had a list of limits as long as you arm 🤣 Most of those, I slowly realised, were prejudices and ignorance. Now my hard limits list is small but my soft limits are numerous and exist on a sliding scale. Growth should involve an opening of yourself, I feel, as well as a narrowing down of what you truly enjoy.

I can relate! At the moment my limits both soft and hard are very long, although for some I would put it down to *** as I have not yet tried.

[Ne****]

Bitch here, I find the older and more confident I get the less limits I have.

[Sw****]

Yes, they have. I have realised that i havnt got very many!

[pa****]

I love to experiment and try new things so, my hard limits consist of only about 4 things. I try to be open to just about everything and willing to give just about anything a shot.

[Deleted Member]

My limits have definitely changed. I've tried literally everything over the years to figure out what my hard limits really are: trying over studying. The trip was a great experience, and I don't regret anything.

[Deleted Member]

As you go along and experiment with new things, your limits tend to change as well. That's how human beings function.