To shave or not to shave

[Ow****]

I’m a big fan of my partner being ‘hairless’, shaven or waxed, I don’t mind which. A lady friend (not playmate) recently told me: she wouldn’t touch any mans bits that weren’t shaved.
Ladies, is this now common place, should Doms (and/or subs) be keeping their gentleman’s bits clean shaven?

[Deleted Member]

No, please no. You people are watching too much porn.

[Deleted Member]

I don't shave, have never had any issues. A sub won't dictate stuff like that to me.

[Deleted Member]

As a dom my subs must be shaved

[Fi****]

I personally enjoy and love pubic hair on my Dom; it’s so manly! Trimming is good and comfortable as I do for him but I’d never f*** anyone shaved. 

[Mezmerism]

I like my submissive to be hairy…. I love body hair!

[Deleted Member]

If they want it shaved 🪒 they can pay to have it waxed

[ey****]

like anything - some people have different preferences.  

[ge****]

"Should" shouldn't come into it - it comes down to personal preference and comfort whether that be for a submissive or a dominant - if others don't like the way you choose to maintain your pubic area then they're potentially not a good match is all it comes down to.
.
Anyone that dictated how I "should" be down there wouldn't be for me - if they suggested I may like to try it a different way, and accepted it if I declined, would be another matter.

[sissy_petra_uk_slut]

As a male sub, i always shave and it seems that Mistresses do prefer la smooth sub to play with

[Ro****]

Very common.
Pubic hair is nature’s own dental floss that gets stuck between the teeth. If men prefer going down on a bald beaver why wouldn’t we expect women would prefer the same?
By the same token I’d hazard a guess that most men prefer women with shaved armpits. So the question is do women prefer men with Ike and Tina Turner hair in their armpits?
I’ve known women who have insisted my armpit hair is trimmed back, and my pubes too so I don’t appear to look like a pre-pubescent boy, but they can see the whole length sliding inside with no hair on either party down there😃

[Va****]

Clean shaven helps with blowjobs, but if it is kept tidy that would help.

I hate getting pubes in my mouth when performing oral sex, so prefer clean shaven.

[Kar_som]

I don't know much about this all being a straight sub switch. But i do think having hair in your mouth while having a meal is unpleasant.

[Ca****]

It doesn't have to be shaved as long as it's maintained. It sucks when you're in the middle of a bj and you have to stop and pull a hair off your tongue.

[Twany]

Personally prefer shaved or trimmed as its annoying having to stop oral to fish a stray pube out of my mouth.

But I think it changes person to person so check in with your play partner and only do what's comfortable

[Ch****]

I like short or trimmed, completely smooth isnt my thing.

[de****]

As always. I look more inside the package than the box. She can be shaved. She can be unshaved. I will always dig within her to love her soul, or her body is just a dry empty body.

[MasterWakka]

I have saved since my 20s , I do not want a slave or sub distracted by hair as it breaks the flow of a session. Whether they are rimming me or licking my balls. That is my personal choice. Equally I like a smooth shaved cunt , mainly as when doing wax play it just looks smarter. I like order in all things 😌

[On****]

I prefer natural or trimmed. I also trim myself pretty short.

[Deleted Member]

It's down to personal preference, no one should dictate what you should do with your body hair. Keeping it tidy is good etiquette and good hygiene

[Mi****]

It’s a matter of personal preference. I will often shave my submissive’s pubic hair to the style I prefer. It’s a very intimate and bonding ritual, and I always show my appreciation after I’m done.

I personally keep mine well groomed, but I’ve never had my submissive shave me. It sounds like a lovely act of service, and a good way to build trust. Be open to trying new things. If you don’t like it, it’s just hair. It grows back.

[Ginnfizz1970]

I like it manicured but not hairless. Reminds me too much of others when a grown man has naked bits. I find it a turn off.

[Gi****]

Do unto others. Why should she be silky smooth for someone who doesn't bother at all?
I'm not not a fan of double standards though.

[Deleted Member]

I prefer body hair on my partner and myself, I don't really subscribe to the idea of looking like a giant child :/

[Deleted Member]

I much prefer a shave partner and shaved myself but that's just personal preference. I think hair hides too much lol