Age difference in different dynamics

[si****]

What, in your opinion, is/ought to be the age difference between a daddy and his little or a mommy and her's?

[Deleted Member]

No why should there be? It’s not about actual age (although some people like that) it’s about being able to play the roles well no matter what age 😄. I’ve had a younger caregiver and older ones before. I’ve also been a caregiver to people older and younger than me.

[be****]

Enough that it's felt, but not so much that the power difference and dynamic is unhealthy and *** co dependence takes hold. Age is so key exactly here.

Accuracy of working relationships in the world. Show me that 7 is the kinky number difference. 5 for common society.

[Deleted Member]

Age gap should have no relevance other than if an age gap is your personal taste

[Deleted Member]

For me personally, I am open to my daddy being 5-8 years older.. still can get the slang/social relevance & at the same time is wise.

[Go****]

I don't know if I'm a "little" or not but I like for my daddies to be significantly older than myself. I like that maturity that sometimes accompanies older age and gray hair turns me on for some reason 😁

[Wo****]

Age is not important

[Deleted Member]

As long as both are of legal age it doesn’t really matter. It could even be an older little and younger caregiver. Really comes down to the people individually.

[un****]

personally i’m older than my little not by some massive age gap or what have you but personally unless you have a kink for older or younger men/women than physical age shouldn’t have any bearing on the Dynamic

[Ob****]

Lots of great answers already. It really doesn't matter as long as both legal and consenting.

I thought it might be useful to talk a bit about how, also
I find a huge age gap interesting sometimes. 15-20+ years. However in these instances I've let the subs come to me. She must know she wants a much older Dom/DD. And i always initiate a contracting convo about how we'll keep sight of when we end. There's a dynamic that i enjoy, which includes teaching, support, mentoring, caring and a relationahip of some sort outside of the kink space.

I seem to be picked by young mums and students (not necessarily undergrads) and these almost never come from dating apps. They come from real life.

But attraction isn't down to age at all for me. It's down to the realness of the kink. And the degree to which she can call out/need my Dom D*ddy'ness.

Hope this helps.

[Deleted Member]

I personally love it as a little but that’s because I’m into older men , back to the main point as along both parties involved are of legal age of course!

[sa****]

I’m a sub, not a little. My hubdom is 14 years older than me. Barely notice the difference to be honest :-)

[Deleted Member]

I had a successful 2 year dynamic with an older sub. There was almost a 10 year difference between us. I think it depends on the individuals and where they’re at in life. If they have similar mindsets then I don’t see it being an issue

[ph****]

Regardless of the role my sub identifies with, I stick to an old school rule—half my age plus seven for the low.

I’m into older women more than younger, and that limit is my age plus fifty percent minus seven.

I’m 47 (48) so the low is 31 and the high is 65. Thirty-eight to 57 is a sweet spot.

[Deleted Member]

I’m 48 soon had a 68 yr old lol

[Bi****]

I just go with over 18 with a brain and connects with me

[Bi****]

43 but usually it's younger who hit me up

[Di****]

An age of sanity & morality!

[Deleted Member]

40 odd years

[si****]

I cannot appreciate you all enough. Thank you all your wise, kind, encouraging, and enlightening words.
Cheers 🍻

[IM****]

As long as she is 18, I’m game.

[Ta****]

I’d like to have an age gap of 10+ years (minimum) with a mommy/daddy

[Marquis-64]

I don't think the age spread is really important. Be that the chronological age or the imaginary one. But what is important is the potential liability you might face if you photograph/video your partner where they are playing at being under the age of consent. In Canada, child pornography legislation states that the chronological of the 'actor' is unimportant, if they are portraying themselves to be under the age of 16, legal age limit in Canada, it's child porn. So if your photos and/or videos were discovered by the authorities, you can be in deep dodo. 

I play Daddy with many partners. Turning 76 tomorrow, there's almost always a significant age spread. But at my age, I have found that if you are good at making appropriate comments on members' photos/videos, people start to follow you and some do becum friends because they like what you say and how you say it.