How do you discreetly indicate kink on other apps?

[us****]

What discreet or subtle things do you include in your profile or look for on other sites to let people know you are kink friendly?

I’m not really comfortable being super open about it publicly, but I’d like a way to hint at it and meet like-minded people.

[NJ****]

Just look at mine and you’ll know!

[Deleted Member]

“D/s friendly”

[fl****]

If you have pictures of yourself on there then maybe include pictures of you in a collar. Other Dominants would pick up on that. Before I found my submissive that was one thing I looked out for when searching for others in the lifestyle on vanilla platforms.

[Ij****]

I usually just say that I have a dominant personality or something to that effect and put SSC-Rack at the bottom. If you know then it stands out but if not then it doesn't.

[x_Missy_x]

Personally I'm only on fetish sites and on there, quite open. I see no point being on vanilla dating sites because the only relationship I would consider centres around bdsm as anything less than, would be entirely unfulfilling.

[PeggableFucker]

I put a pic of me in a latex mask... Straight up.
Scares the 'nillas 😉

[Deleted Member]

I usually put poly D in D/s looking for s. If they ask what it means, they aren't kinky

[Bu****]

I just put “Sensual Dominant and GGG” somewhere in the blurb. I found my response rate went way down-which is good. I want to attract kinky people. I also want the “ vanilla” people to weed themselves out.

[Bu****]

Also—a huge percentage of people aren’t gonna read your profile anyway.

[Da****]

If not a collar, a triskelion or a hoodie with Good Girl (Or something that is true to you)

But then become less discreet as soon as possible, please! There's no good time to spring this on an unsuspecting muggle and too many kinksters meander too much at the beginning... (sorry, #petgripe)

[yo****]

1 hour ago, x_Missy_x said:

Personally I'm only on fetish sites and on there, quite open. I see no point being on vanilla dating sites because the only relationship I would consider centres around bdsm as anything less than, would be entirely unfulfilling.

Same here!! I also find on vanilla dating apps if you do reveal your kinks a lot of people try (and fail) to act as if they are similar & experienced when, in fact, they are most definitely vanilla & just saying anything they can to get you into bed 🙄🤣

[Ma****]

Show a picture with triskellion logo.
Have a picture wearing a collar.
Write terms vanilla don't understand like D/s
Use "Hedonist"
"home fitness exercises"

[Deleted Member]

SSL/RACK/D/s probably a good one

[Se****]

Why be discreet? Be open bout who you are and if people ain’t for it they ain’t for you

[GentlemanDom]

I don't know about subtle but I got banned on tinder for putting in my profile I was seeking a kink based relationship and only interested in talking to people open minded or already knew they were into it.

[Greenman56]

I put 'kink over vanilla', as mentioned above response went way down, bur I did get someone asking what flavour ice cream kink was

[Deleted Member]

I add the following line in my bio

“Been told I’m warm & safe
little scary in a good way”

[Of****]

I have “Vanilla is only for ice cream” in my bio, usually gets picked up by the ones in the know.

[Ca****]

On the dating apps I just added a line in the middle of the profile previously been in a cuckold relationship

[ba****]

I have "talk aftercare to me" in mine. It's hard to know if that's subtle enough but I think it's at least a good starting point for other kinky folks :)

[Na****]

For activities I note, “sold my kayak, but still have a paddle. 😉”

[QXX666]

Is it a social app or dating app?
First one don’t put anything that would embarrass you or your family.
Second one, should be fine… maybe just write a cheeky end note saying” if I am naughty would you spank me”

[x_Missy_x]

3 hours ago, megbaby17 said:

Same here!! I also find on vanilla dating apps if you do reveal your kinks a lot of people try (and fail) to act as if they are similar & experienced when, in fact, they are most definitely vanilla & just saying anything they can to get you into bed 🙄🤣

Oh my gosh yes!!! Although I get these "kinksters" just as much on fetish sites 🤦‍♀️

[po****]

I just generally have the same profile showing what I’m positive/open minded about