Scarletlove Posted January 17, 2019 Posted January 17, 2019 My Master recently dismissed me. We have been together online for 3.5 years. We were in a 24/7. Planning for our future together. We had our first meeting at a restaurant 3 days into finding each other. Time after time he would refuse to see me or cancel dates we had to meet. There is some distance between us, but I traveled to his area 3-4 times a year. Always offering to set up a time to meet him. He always said no. A month ago he booked a room and we made plans again. 2 weeks before time to meet he had to cancel because of work. I understand it was not under his control, but time and time again he cancels. Each time it breaks my confidence in myself. He got angry when I asked him to help me understand why in 3.5 years we could never meet. Especially when I offered to do all the traveling to him. He got very defensive and told me to remove my collar. I need help in coping this loss. This is my first long-standing BDSM relationship. Anyone out there with some good advice in coping a loss of a Master?