Plus Size - Finding it hard

[ssbbwmum3]

3 hours ago, GentlemanSir_50 said:

Unfortunately that seems to be the general consensus but there are Dom’s out there that want and love the larger lady….its about connection too…if you click together then it just works

That is so true is big girls have so much confidence and are great people especially if you have a great connection then I don't see a problem with it 

[ThePhoenix]

On 12/14/2024 at 3:25 AM, Azzer1986 said:

I enjoy women with curves, my kink is rope bondage and shibari, and a lady with curves is perfect, the rope holds so well, however I have to say and only from experience, although that is my preference, larger women shy away from me on here. Xx

Why is that, Azzer? There's nothing off-putting on your profile.

[si****]

Monday at 04:51 PM, ssbbwmum3 said:

That is so true is big girls have so much confidence and are great people especially if you have a great connection then I don't see a problem with it 

Lots of confidence, and generally so so more adventurous 🥰🥰🥰

[si****]

Monday at 11:57 PM, ThePhoenix said:

Why is that, Azzer? There's nothing off-putting on your profile.

I find us Dom’s need to make a massive impression to even get someone to chat to

[An****]

I am curvy but I do have hard time finding a master

[lo****]

Don't lose faith ladies. We're out there

[Ka****]

I love plus size women bring it on

[Deleted Member]

Not hard to find someone to play but hard to find something long term.

[Deleted Member]

It's hard to find a woman in general.
Love curvy/plus size btw.

[Da****]

Based on today's beauty standards and society's standards, overweight people are seen as unacceptable by most. I've been with a few bigger women, but even I personally prefer my partners to be under 250. If I can't touch my fingers together when hugging someone, it's not for me.

[No****]

First of all - there is a whole group of men who LOVE us plus sized women!!
I have to admit, this isn’t the best place to find them but they’re here.
There’s no shortage of men who will entertain plus size women while they search for someone else and that’s unfortunate. Finding someone long term is hard at any size though.
The culture right now is so short sighted and all about the immediate satisfaction.
I promise you, they’re out there. Yes, they’re harder to find but they’re there and you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way.
I’m here for you, feel free to chat anytime. Chatting with the ladies sometimes really helps reset the nerves and come back fresh.

[Hi****]

Preach it

[si****]

5 hours ago, Novelnorth86 said:

First of all - there is a whole group of men who LOVE us plus sized women!!
I have to admit, this isn’t the best place to find them but they’re here.
There’s no shortage of men who will entertain plus size women while they search for someone else and that’s unfortunate. Finding someone long term is hard at any size though.
The culture right now is so short sighted and all about the immediate satisfaction.
I promise you, they’re out there. Yes, they’re harder to find but they’re there and you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way.
I’m here for you, feel free to chat anytime. Chatting with the ladies sometimes really helps reset the nerves and come back fresh.

Absolutely…..and Dom’s /Sirs open your mind to a fuller figured lady……they really are delicious xx

[to****]

I am finding it so difficult. There's no shortage of men who want to fool around, or "doms" who just come at me the wrong way. Apparently I am just what they want in the short term, but not so much for relationships. I want someone who matches my kinks and wants to ACTUALLY date and nurture a long term relationship. It's hard to stay firm on wanting exactly what I need and nothing less from a partner, but I hold out hope that it'll be worth it

[No****]

34 minutes ago, tonixbear said:

I am finding it so difficult. There's no shortage of men who want to fool around, or "doms" who just come at me the wrong way. Apparently I am just what they want in the short term, but not so much for relationships. I want someone who matches my kinks and wants to ACTUALLY date and nurture a long term relationship. It's hard to stay firm on wanting exactly what I need and nothing less from a partner, but I hold out hope that it'll be worth it

It will be. Nothing hurts more than settling and feeling your light dim as time goes. You’ll find it. I need that confidence too. It’s hard.

[Deleted Member]

I'm a dominant myself. But my whole life I had the opposite problem, men just won't leave me alone.

[Deleted Member]

On 11/9/2024 at 3:12 PM, mimix18 said:

It's abit hard sometimes, especially with people that only want you for how you look

This is too true. I have had a few men that only cared that I'm a BBW. They didn't care about my at all. They only loved me because of my weight.

Edited January 7 by Deleted Member
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[Re****]

Well in the uk US men have the same issue, easy to find a playful bbw woman but they do not want to commit to a long term relationship. Many are non monogamous which for me I don't like to share

[Na****]

As a skinny dude I love me a big girl. Thicc is fun.

[az****]

I love BBWs and bigger women.

[Si****]

Big is beautiful. But for me there is a cutoff point. Too big, and then there are obstacles and limited ways to play.

[An****]

November 9, 2024, mimix18 said:

It's abit hard sometimes, especially with people that only want you for how you look

Exactly

[si****]

Saturday at 08:36 AM, AngelGrace94 said:

Exactly

Then they’re not the right person….never settle or just make do for now…the connection with the right person is just so powerful xx

[Pe****]

As a plus sized person I was struggling to find someone too. It just took time. Now I just need to find another woman who wants to join in with my partner and me. That seems to be even more difficult.

[De****]

It is hard to find a match