How to deal with rejection?

[no****]

Just get on with it. It’s part of life ***ps😊💁🏼‍♀️

[Dz****]

March 16, 2023, Deleted profile said:

If you're not failing, you're not trying. Failure is the best teacher and motivator. 

🫳🎤💥 1000%

[li****]

I withdraw into myself and spend lots of time on my Art. I journal the sadness or rage. I make sure I eat, allow myself to sleep a bit more. I’m worth it and so are you.

[Ra****]

I get rejected a lot not just for being old but being heavy and I’m shy . I really don’t worry about it any more I say hello or hi to everyone I see and if someone is interested in talking to me they will if not oh well it’s their loss in meeting me a nice guy who has lead a interesting life

[pu****]

Find a source like the sun and get energized. Workout and try the next target. Let's go! Stay hype everyone!

[Le****]

It seems to be situational, on a dating site I am able to let go fairly quickly as I haven’t invested a great deal of time and emotional energy into a person, yet. Sometimes I am sad, and I allow myself to be sad or hurt or even overcome with doubt. If you resist your emotions, they persist.
But then I look for what I can learn about from the experience that is useful. Sometimes it can be what I did or said, and if it was not a great thing and not really reflecting what who I am I use that as feedback. If I was being authentic and it didn’t connect with someone, then no loss.
But if I have started to open up, trust, and surrendered then the rejection is full of ***. Trusting can be difficult and experiencing rejection makes opening up again less and less likely. Walls come up and get built higher and thicker as rejection cuts into the heart.
And that is the danger of trusting, while it is also the only path to acceptance.

[Da****]

I don't

[Th****]

Something I have noticed is that rejection may not be so hurtful if people had the balls to be honest. Instead they reject others by ghosting and such. As adults we are able to express ourselves by being honest. One learns from rejection and use it as a way to move on to better. Rejection saves you from things that may end up truly changing your life and causing immense ***.

[th****]

For me the rejection is not the difficult part- it’s perfectly fine and natural if we don’t vibe or change our minds, but when there is no communication of that rejection I don’t understand- simply say “hey I am not feeling a connection” and I will be good with that. The ghosting and lack of respect to be honest with each other does not sit well with me. But with that I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t share those same values so it is what it is.

[dr****]

It’s part of life and especially this lifestyle. It’s important both are compatible. To me it’s better to act if either party are unsure and both can move on.

[kk****]

Rejection is very tough especially when you think you found that’s special someone. But all that’s anger and frustration just give it to God. He has that special someone and he knows when to give her/him to u and you just gotta have faith in him and trust him until he knows ur ready for that special person so just keep your head up and ur faith strong at all times and you’ll get through it

[Si****]

Just move on …You get used to it

[Scarlettlips]

Self care with lots of orgasms.

[Bj****]

This day and age it's pretty much all rejection with online dating. Everyone wants the perfect partner. I'm a completely single 37 year old male with no kids 90k$ a year job. Emotionally avalible. Not a 10 but I got a good body with a 6 pack. And can barely get a date for coffee.. I don't understand it. But rejection is just part of it.

[Crixus]

After over 10 years on various kink and vanilla dating sites, I have never once had managed to arrange a date and someone actually turns up, thta is of course assuming they answer your DM's at all.
So for me I don't even notice the rejection anymore. It's just par for course at this point. 😅🤷

[kn****]

Meh, it's no bother, I just move on, I stopped wasting time analyzing it. All women are different, yet the vast majority in my experience expect encounters to adhere to their subjective and seemingly arbitrary rules of engagement as if they are culturally ubiquitous. Why take THAT kind of random probability nonsense to heart?

[Oc****]

It’s super hard to deal with, but I try and find the positives and work on myself, again.

[Mo****]

Rejection is all I get. Get used to being a lone wolf and drink a lot of liquor

[Cdsub-3144]

For me there is no good answer or solution so I don't know, everyone deals with things differently and it effects us in different ways aswell.... If ever anyone has the answer be sure to let me in on it

[Vi****]

Rarely happens to me just be polite or someone's type 💜👏

[MmmChef]

I accept the feelings that I have, give myself time to bounce back, then try to make myself feel better by going out with friends or doing something I love to do

[Ul****]

When I had to deal with rejection. I got naked and looked in the mirror. Lost 30 pounds, held my head up high and tried who was for me instead. Connection is Key.

[Go****]

I never understood the issue. if someone doesn't like you just leave em be. There's so many factors in somebody liking you the more men understand this the better. Been single 6 years but when I do meet someone it'll be lovely with no pressure.

[Ja****]

Every rejection is a good opportunity to check in with yourself and your self love. Feel the hurt, be present with it.

Most of the time it is more hurtful the *** of being rejected than the *** itself.

[Alexander126]

I generally wallow in depression for 1-15 years til I find an appropriate replacement 🤪😭