MY BIGGEST F@AR REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[He****]

Never finding someone to explore it with

[Wi****]

My biggest *** is that I'll just be seen as some kind of experiment or sex toy and my feelings, wants and needs just being disregarded as they mean nothing to anyone.

[tr****]

Getting a std/sti 😩

[so****]

That i will get in over my head

[Wi****]

It's, overcoming religious trauma... Something to do with that.

[mistressdelilah]

Taking it too far and... going to hell... or heaven lol

[Di****]

That my partner won't be able to keep up

[re****]

Nup, no ***s! My tastes are a part of me and I refuse to live in *** of myself. Full send.

[Jo****]

That it will end up like my first time trying it out: My trust being violated while I'm ***.

[Se****]

That my S.O decides they get the ick and check out right there as soon as I open up about it

[Ru****]

Lack of acceptance

[Ri****]

That people will judge me

[Gu****]

Polygamy….I want a deep dynamic that is just between me and her…

[Ne****]

That people will find out

[Sk****]

That I have more bends than kinks…

[Ha****]

That i won't fulfill or have mine fulfilled. I'm starting wya late in my life and have been vanilla for so long.

[Deleted Member]

For me, it’s probably the *** of being called ‘weird’ or something! There’s so many people who simply do not have a clue!

[Ch****]

A lot of whats already been said is shared by myself.

[Gareth_Switch]

Coming across someone that appear to be enthusiastic, play along and gradually withdraw until we stopped making love altogether. That what happened to me and then wife. Now that I'm happily single again, I am willing to try again, but with guarded caution.

[Ba****]

1 hour ago, Gareth_Switch said:

Coming across someone that appear to be enthusiastic, play along and gradually withdraw until we stopped making love altogether. That what happened to me and then wife. Now that I'm happily single again, I am willing to try again, but with guarded caution.

Open and honest communication
I‘m not trying to imply the lack of that to be what went wrong with the ex, i‘m just mentioning it because „guarded caution“ can work against it and it should at the very least cut out the part from „playing along“ to „gradual withdrawal“

[Le****]

Them coming true :))

[Innerkink]

All my knowledge is theoretical, and I have no playmate(s). I am a little concerned because what I want cannot be logically reconciled. I am also beginning later in life, and have thus far been vanilla. I found a local munch recently, and am attending it. It will be my very first such event. I'm both excited and nervous for this.

[Di****]

Getting a date while I wait for my new tooth. My smile is temporary but my loving is still strong and intense.

[P-****]

My biggest *** at this point is dieing alone, or finding a partner who judges and shames me for not being "vanilla."

[br****]

Choosing the wrong one 🐇🤍🥺 I don't want to keep starting over