Submissiveness can be complex. But doesn't need to be

[Sirseeksmuse]

Submission is a complex and intimate lifestyle that requires a great deal of trust between the submissive and their dominant partner. A submissive willingly gives control to their dominant partner, trusting that they will guide and protect them in all aspects of their life. This trust is built over time and requires a deep understanding of each other's needs and desires.

One of the key responsibilities of a dominant partner, or "Sir," is to provide protection to their submissive. This protection can take many forms, from physical safety to emotional well-being. In any case, the submissive needs to feel secure and protected in the presence of their Sir.

Physical protection is one of the most important aspects of a Sir's role. As a submissive is giving up control, they become more *** to physical harm. A Sir must ensure that their submissive is physically safe at all times, whether that means providing a safe environment or intervening in dangerous situations. The submissive should never feel afraid or unsafe in the presence of their Sir.

Emotional protection is also essential in a D/s relationship. The submissive is often in a *** position, emotionally exposed and open to their Sir. A Sir must be attuned to their submissive's emotional needs and provide a safe space for them to express themselves. This means being understanding, supportive, and non-judgmental, even when the submissive is struggling or feeling overwhelmed.

A Sir's protection also extends to the submissive's reputation and social standing. In some cases, a submissive's lifestyle may not be accepted or understood by society. A Sir must protect their submissive's reputation and privacy, ensuring that their lifestyle choices do not become public knowledge without their consent.

In summary, a submissive needs a Sir's protection for several reasons. The submission lifestyle requires a great deal of trust, and a Sir must ensure that their submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This includes physical safety, emotional well-being, and protection of their reputation and privacy. Ultimately, a Sir's protection is an essential aspect of a D/s relationship and allows the submissive to fully embrace their role and submit to their dominant partne

[Deleted Member]

Thank you for writing this.

[Deleted Member]

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[Shilo66]

I am in full agreement with what you've written, and for many "Real Doms" this goes without saying. And, after having read a lot of various forum stuff recently, I think it's a very good idea that occasionally posts like this are aired to remind some others of their responsibilities when they take on this role.

[kree90]

Thissssss. Safety is one of the things that drew me to D/s.

[Deleted Member]

This! No one wants to get to know you anymore making it feel unsafe from the beginning.