Deleted Member Posted July 30, 2023 Posted July 30, 2023 I am in a serious relationship and I and my girl already notice we like some fetish, we wanna start this thing of bdsm but how?
Dom_Kev Posted July 30, 2023 Posted July 30, 2023 Talk to her…. I was scared to ask My wife, scared that she would think I was a weirdo it something. Best thing I ever did (bar ask her to marry Me of course). If you already have a suspicion it will work, chances are it will.
ey**** Posted July 30, 2023 Posted July 30, 2023 remember that your relationship is yours and yours alone. So, start with what you already know turns you on. Watch videos together for inspiration, and if something is OMG YES - then that can be a point of learning what you would want to do Remember a lot often ends up being trial and error - so having patience with each other is a must.
GreyHog Posted July 30, 2023 Posted July 30, 2023 Find a porn video or sexy story that you both enjoy, then try to recreate the scenario (within your means, of course). Use the input as a script and a taking off point for your fun. Good luck!!!
Matttster Posted July 30, 2023 Posted July 30, 2023 Do what you (both) want. Communicate a lot, before, during and after. Experiment and see what works and doesn’t work. There are no rule books about what is right and wrong, it’s about being open to explore what is tight and wrong for you and your partner(s). Research and be safe. Some things in kink can cause bodily harm. Be sure to research these things to do them as safely as possible.
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