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Should male slaves/subs be hairless?


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Something I've always wondered, is it desirable for male subs/slaves to be completely free of any sort of body hair? Besides facial/head hair, i think personally a male slave should be completely free of hair, shows a real level of submission i think. Be interested to know the views of any masters/mistresses on here :) 

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I personally prefer my slaves to be hairless.
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Don't have any experience with being a sub/slave or even master mistress...but personally, I like to keep myself shaved everything below the neck, arms,chest,legs,pubs, etc..sides of my head too, but that is because the hawk lol
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IMHO it all depends on the/your domme/top/ body positivity levels- how confident you are with natural body hair. Body hair hating is a side effect of capitalism and the patriarchy (?) - it makes you you.
I’m skewering language here*
Happy to edit or be be corrected ⬇️

Mine personally, gets irritated/ing easily so I wax, lazier, shave, scrub, exfoliate and moisturize (!) if I’m really tryna.

Normalizing body hair is a journey I’m on thanks to stepping into being someone who’s pan, GNC/NB, still learning but follow lots on IG. Alok venom, the effects of the industry on women of color, the dove commercial with the artist from the 2000s/10s, bad (recent) Nivea sweater advertisement- you’re not alone in being new to this or unaware so thanks for and congratulations on being brave enough to ask the question. 🌞
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Beards are sexy! Bears are hot. If you have bush oil- yum 👍🏼
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It really depends on preference. I mean if you are going for full submission I can see it but for some people shaving is hard
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To me, it matters more what role they are. If it's ABDL, then a lot of hair is less attractive and harder to clean up messes out of the hair. If they are performing for groups, most would want to be shaved. But I've met maledom couples where the sub never shaved, doms' personal preferences. I like them all to be shaved so I can see the red marks better and there is cleaner impact. I've also punished sissies by personally shaving them from their noses down to there toes.
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I'm a guy sub, and I wouldn't want to be completely hairless. If asked, I'll shave private parts, but I'm not shaving my legs or under arms. Someone telling me to shave is too much like an ex of mine, and I'm not here for that. Lol
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I asked this question a while ago, not just for subs but for dudes generally. There was a bit of variation but the scales tipped toward BALDY!
Will be interesting to see the consensus here and now.
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Not a mistress, but for me it depends a lot on the body type of a man whether he's more appealing shaved. Dad bod/cuddly types are nice when furry, and shaving them is kind of weird. More slender men, whether a wiry line cook type or a soft femboy, definitely benefit from smoothness. There was a sub I was talking to who was slim and very hairy, and I had a strong urge to blindfold him and shave him completely, then lay him down on satin sheets for the sensory experience.
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Guess that depends on what the dominant person prefers or come to the agreement together to decide.
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The only thing a slave/submissive *should* be regardless of their gender is comfortable with what they are doing - and that includes about anything whether it be body hair or activities they partake in.
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If they're not comfortable to do so then it should be regarded as a limit or at the very least something to be negotiated
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Some dominants like body hair on guys. Also if the submissive has things like as a boundary, it is perfectly reasonable and does not diminish their dedication to a dominant.
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I feel the hair could be used to more effect. Pulling, burning, or put rules in place. Example they have a beard, and it touches the foot before the lips, punishment. Definitely up to the Dom's discretion though.
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I would prefer not hair free. I appreciate the male body for what it is, and men have hair on their bodies.
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There are no "shoulds" with regards to body hair or not. It's completely personal preference of the individual and/or their Dominant. 

This is teetering along the path of the "one tweue way" and "real" Dom(me)s and submissives. There are no universal requirements for roles, everyone is allowed limits and not all Dominants like the same things. 

There are many more options in being a male submissive besides being a slave, not all Dominants want a slave and in my personal opinion slave is something to grow into, gradually if that's the desire of bothering the sub and D type. Being a Master or Mistress isn't the only possibility for a Dominant either. 

 

Femdom porn is very often a wildly inaccurate representation compared to reality. 

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Thats just your preference at the end of the day hun.
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I think it all depends on everything
Does the Dom want their slave hairless
Then make it protocol
Does the slave feel like it shows their commitment then fuck ya let it your skin show
Maybe the Dom want their slave to keep their hair growing

Every situation is different and depends on eachothers desires

If you like shaving your hair for your master then do it and rock the hair less life
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To me. I have to see the body type. Like my hubby being chubby. His body is better with hair. But having his bits shaved is nice.
A fem like body is just better shaved. Its nicer and easier to dress them up
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Your choice. I like some hair in places. Obviously if a cage is involved less hair is helpful imo
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It's really up to personal preference; I want to be with people who truly feel comfortable with themselves. Sometimes that means no hair, sometimes that means full hair, sometimes that means methodical landscaping.

That being said, I'm a big fan of the hairy dom/smooth sub dynamic. I tend to associate hairlessness with submission, vulnerability, easy access, a reminder of your servile status that stays with you wherever you go, without the need for any harnesses or accessories. BUT, that's just me: other people might associate hairlessness with empowerment, confidence, boldness, not being afraid of letting others know what you want, etc. At any rate, hairy subs aren't bad at all. It's fun to have something to tug at and give them a jolt, just to keep em on their toes.
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