Hey all

[Redhead-1998]

Hi everyone I’m new to this and don’t really know what to expect. 

Im 28 and to be honest as looking to spice up my sex life I have been with two long relationships in my life but sex to me was over rated. But upon stumbling on videos I find myself getting excited at the though of been controlled in every aspect!! I think this is the longing I have been needing. 

Am I in the right place 

xox thanks xox

 

[Re****]

Hi, we are relatively new to the lifestyle, if you ever fancy a chat please feel free to drop us a line x

[Ba****]

Welcome home :)

[Deleted Member]

As a fairly newbie to here I can say you are in the right place. Lots of helpful people on here. Especially eyemblacksheep! 😉

[Ar****]

Yes, there are plenty of sharks and people who would try to take advantage or don't "get it" (as you would find with almost any site) but there is also a kind, respectful, knowledgeable and helpful community with many success stories here too. Interact, use the chat/forums as you feel comfortable, and the ignore/block button is there for anything you don't want to be receiving.... best of luck to you.

[Mi****]

Yes you are in the right place but take some time to learn and research before jumping in with both feet

[ey****]

it's a good place to start  

[soleone]

i think i might be able to assist :)

[TallNew]

I came late to the realization that control was essential to me... the fact that she willingly gives up control, all the more delicious...One thing on which I will presume to give advice... Don't accept that somebody else's "rules" or how things "should" work... figure out what works for you... what excites you... those are the only "rules" that matter... good luck.

[Vandalslut]

Hi, RedHead, glad you found where you need to be.  There's definitely plenty of wonderful people on this site, and it is very well managed. There's tons of very sensible articles in the magazine and very helpful people, esp. eyemblacksheep.  Being controlled, by the right partner, is mind-blowing and wonderful and honest.  If you're not in a relationship with your ideal Dom/me at present, then definitely exercise some caution because there are people out there who will take advantage.  I like TallNew's suggestion too - it's what works for you both.  Good luck.