Trust and safety

[Deleted Member]

What can I do to better trust the people I am engaging with? As well as build trust and a feeling of safety with others?

Does anyone have any pointers? I've made some mistakes in the past and I broke someones trust in me.

I've also trusted a few partners in the past and ended up feeling betrayed in the end. (I had an std scare, thankfully I was negative. The other one could have cost me my job). So I get kind of anxious with people I don't know well.

[De****]

A good convo for a few days . Pick the brains , learn them and have them learn you . Once you get the trust don’t fuck up lol 😂

[De****]

Don’t hook up with just anybody throwing pussy / dick your way

[De****]

*** work result and you’ll find you don’t run into the crazy ones that you’ll fuck for a few days and then wonder if you got something g

[De****]

Easy pussy isn’t good pussy , plus look for someone that into your kinks too . It’s more than just fucking . Anyone can do that

[Ki****]

Trust is built over time you need to find your way to feel comfortable around a partner or in a situation, to me is a matter is selfconfidence too if I don't feel at ease I will struggle to trust.

[ey****]

Trust is one that is difficult to measure.  Generally speaking having conversations with folk over time and looking at actions, not words.

It's difficult to put a timeline on when you will feel trust - but remember also this is a two-way thing.  

[Deleted Member]

Take time to get to know a potential partner in all ways not just a sexual way. Don’t treat person as disposable. Keep your word and be truthful. Show person by your actions that you are responsible and safe to play with.

[th****]

Trust is a tough one. After talking to people I’ve learned that thinking you’re engaging in a polyamorous relationship but in reality you’re being lied to and just helping someone cheat on their partner is way more common than youd think, that kinda fucked me up for a little, used to be a lot more trusting before that. Beyond that now I think about it in “how much do i need to trust you” terms, based on whatever you set up with someone initially. If in doubt use protection