Approaching a Domme

[du****]

Heya been looking for a dom for so long tried so many diffrent dating apps but never had any luck with it hope this one is better, love to serve and make them happy

[On****]

The number of times I have been messaged and simply replied “this is not the correct way to approach a Domme”. The response is immediately very telling about their real intentions

[La****]

What if you’re looking more for a “top” and prefer to always have the option to “top from the bottom” and also like to switch at times?

[On****]

Find someone that matches your needs, but don’t immediately launch into ‘I want this, I need that…’

[La****]

I think that would be obvious. The biggest *** one has at times is for others to discuss what we tell them or do with them to others. When in my opinion, anything anyone does in private should remain so, unless told that’s it’s okay to discuss with others. And as I’m sure you’re well aware of, wants do sometimes become or seem like needs when in reality they’re just strong desires, especially if it’s anything one has done and enjoyed before.

[th****]

Love this

[On****]

You would think it would be obvious, sadly, it isn’t

[La****]

Is “***” a taboo word on here? Because that’s the word I had where the asterisks are.

[La****]

That answered that question

[On****]

So it would seem

[to****]

Thank you for this, Queen

[je****]

Thank you for this. I’ll just send this link to the subs in my inbox 😂

[Deleted Member]

Thank you

[Ni****]

Very informative thank you for writing this they really need to know.

[At****]

Awesome advice! Mostly common sense, I would've thought, but I suppose a refresher never hurt anyone. Thank you for taking the time to write this up.