I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
I value control, consistency, and genuine effort. If you know your place and enjoy giving with purpose, we’ll get along.
If you’re someone who understands boundaries, mutual respect, follows direction, and takes pride in earning approval, we’ll get along just fine. I don’t entertain time-wasters or vague energy. Effort and intention matter here.
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long!
I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves.
For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but *** for ***s sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over *** and love filthy talk but not being degraded.
I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with.
In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love music, art, travelling and the outdoors.
Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR.
Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way.
I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer"
"the light bearer"
I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs.
Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes.
People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important.
No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Looking to see what's is out there and meet new people. Have a kinky side and looking to reignite that flame that was dimmed. Connection is huge for me.
I'm terrible at logging in the app...maybe someone will intrigue me enough and keep my interest. 😅
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Not looking to dominate a man, I don't think I have it in me tbf.
Looking for dates, mates and maybe more if there is a connection.
I’m a feral book reader and like Sci Fi, Fantasy, Horror and Dark Romance. I run a book club and I like to Skate. I play the drums as well as being big into TTRPGs and TV & Films.
Daddy I’ll be honest, the finality of everything in this world haunts kitten like a second shadow.
Heyy freaky people 😆
I am new to the kink world and I would like to explore what turns me on and what my body responds to most - so far I’ve found I’m a switch but more sub/brat than dom but hugelyy into praise and restraint but I also love ***, leaving and receiving marks and just a little bit of ***…(I might be both a sadist and a masochist) I’m excited to see how far this side of me goes- let me be your good little girl x
Gotta mention foreplay, reassurance and connection is a need for me - I need to feel safe with you to unleash my inner freakkk
Looking for that All encompassing Connection of minds, with an experienced Dom.
Someone who respects and earns my Submission.
xxxxx
I do believe I have found this now, so no longer actively looking.
However, .I am always up for making genuine friends , chatting, and being part of the community.
I am not interested in one off meets, sharing pics, dick pics, one or two word messages though. .
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go.
I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ?
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
92% Brat
91% Rope bunny
75% Primal (Prey)
74% Boy/Girl
64% Masochist
58% Vanilla
50% Ageplayer
27% Experimentalist
23% Exhibitionist
20% Slave
17% Degradee
13% Switch
8% Voyeur
7% Pet
0% Non-monogamist
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen
a dirty desi slut who’s currently into race play x
disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
i also do not share face pics - it isn’t a bit of me, please respect that.
20 y/o rope bunny
i’m really into bondage, cnc, mask/role play
scream mask or special ops uniforms will make me fold
no age play, race play, or bathroom kinks
definitely up for some cyber fun, personally find role playing entertaining and helps me get to know the individual and what they’re like/wanting a little more
soft sub energy, figuring it out as i go. please be gentle 💗
a little shy but slowly learning to open up. drawn to caring, patient doms with a teasing side. i like gentle guidance, playful energy, and feeling safe enough to let go. open to both online and in-person if it feels right.
Travelling a lot for work, location isn’t always where I live!✨
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while...
Just here to see what happens and where things end up, would prefer something longer term but open to short. Still exploring and finding out limits, open to trying most things once with the right person. Trust and connection are a must, I’m not looking for a ONS.
Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username?
Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully
• New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously.
• Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego.
•I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure.
• Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve.
• I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional.
• Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
Submissive. A good girl for the right Dom.
I am looking for a pleasure dom/service top. Someone who wants to dominate me but will prioritise my pleasure.
Will share photos if our interests align.
My main interests are; restraints, rope play, edging, orgasm control.
Not really into *** but can appreciate a good spanking.
At the moment, I'd just like to become friends with more kinky people 😊
I am a leftist and an ally to the LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ community
🇵🇸 boycott everything
If you smoke/vape, I'm not interested in meeting up with you irl
Loving, passionate, loyal Submissive/bottom who loves to be loved and cared for, treated like a princess by day, but by night.…….
A Lover of good morning and good night texts, deep and meaningful chats, sharing our day, ‘how you doing’ checks etc… after care goes beyond just the end of play. Emotional intelligence / Intimacy is a must. I'm a true romantic but also a
Lover of structured but primal, impact BDSM play with sensual and tender loving mixed in.
Vanilla me is strong and independent , a natural carer of others.
Honesty, respect, good communication and a good sense of humour are a must.
Every day is a learning day, so if you reach out, and inspire me, then prepare to be peppered with questions from my inquisitive brain! Happy to chat.
Respect and manners are key so I wont reply if they are not present. You don't yet know what I look like so dont start with hey beautiful or anything similar as you’ll lose my interest straight away.
I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners, poly or just a dynamic either so please don't bother reaching out if that's what your after.
My Unicorn Dom is - A mature, well-mannered ,strong minded, firm handed. Experianced, Primal, emotionally intimate Dom. Who likes structure, is good at communication in and outside of play. For a loving, intimate, long term manogamous D/s based relationship. Trust is earnt and A deep connection is a must before any trust is given.
I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
I value control, consistency, and genuine effort. If you know your place and enjoy giving with purpose, we’ll get along.
If you’re someone who understands boundaries, mutual respect, follows direction, and takes pride in earning approval, we’ll get along just fine. I don’t entertain time-wasters or vague energy. Effort and intention matter here.
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long!
I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves.
For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but *** for ***s sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over *** and love filthy talk but not being degraded.
I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with.
In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love music, art, travelling and the outdoors.
Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR.
Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way.
I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer"
"the light bearer"
I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs.
Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes.
People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important.
No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Submissive. A good girl for the right Dom.
I am looking for a pleasure dom/service top. Someone who wants to dominate me but will prioritise my pleasure.
Will share photos if our interests align.
My main interests are; restraints, rope play, edging, orgasm control.
Not really into *** but can appreciate a good spanking.
Heyy freaky people 😆
I am new to the kink world and I would like to explore what turns me on and what my body responds to most - so far I’ve found I’m a switch but more sub/brat than dom but hugelyy into praise and restraint but I also love ***, leaving and receiving marks and just a little bit of ***…(I might be both a sadist and a masochist) I’m excited to see how far this side of me goes- let me be your good little girl x
Gotta mention foreplay, reassurance and connection is a need for me - I need to feel safe with you to unleash my inner freakkk
soft sub energy, figuring it out as i go. please be gentle 💗
a little shy but slowly learning to open up. drawn to caring, patient doms with a teasing side. i like gentle guidance, playful energy, and feeling safe enough to let go. open to both online and in-person if it feels right.
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully
• New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously.
• Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego.
•I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure.
• Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve.
• I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional.
• Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
Looking for dates, mates and maybe more if there is a connection.
I’m a feral book reader and like Sci Fi, Fantasy, Horror and Dark Romance. I run a book club and I like to Skate. I play the drums as well as being big into TTRPGs and TV & Films.
Daddy I’ll be honest, the finality of everything in this world haunts kitten like a second shadow.
20 y/o rope bunny
i’m really into bondage, cnc, mask/role play
scream mask or special ops uniforms will make me fold
no age play, race play, or bathroom kinks
definitely up for some cyber fun, personally find role playing entertaining and helps me get to know the individual and what they’re like/wanting a little more
Loving, passionate, loyal Submissive/bottom who loves to be loved and cared for, treated like a princess by day, but by night.…….
A Lover of good morning and good night texts, deep and meaningful chats, sharing our day, ‘how you doing’ checks etc… after care goes beyond just the end of play. Emotional intelligence / Intimacy is a must. I'm a true romantic but also a
Lover of structured but primal, impact BDSM play with sensual and tender loving mixed in.
Vanilla me is strong and independent , a natural carer of others.
Honesty, respect, good communication and a good sense of humour are a must.
Every day is a learning day, so if you reach out, and inspire me, then prepare to be peppered with questions from my inquisitive brain! Happy to chat.
Respect and manners are key so I wont reply if they are not present. You don't yet know what I look like so dont start with hey beautiful or anything similar as you’ll lose my interest straight away.
I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners, poly or just a dynamic either so please don't bother reaching out if that's what your after.
My Unicorn Dom is - A mature, well-mannered ,strong minded, firm handed. Experianced, Primal, emotionally intimate Dom. Who likes structure, is good at communication in and outside of play. For a loving, intimate, long term manogamous D/s based relationship. Trust is earnt and A deep connection is a must before any trust is given.
Looking to see what's is out there and meet new people. Have a kinky side and looking to reignite that flame that was dimmed. Connection is huge for me.
I'm terrible at logging in the app...maybe someone will intrigue me enough and keep my interest. 😅
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Not looking to dominate a man, I don't think I have it in me tbf.
At the moment, I'd just like to become friends with more kinky people 😊
I am a leftist and an ally to the LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ community
🇵🇸 boycott everything
If you smoke/vape, I'm not interested in meeting up with you irl
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen
a dirty desi slut who’s currently into race play x
disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
i also do not share face pics - it isn’t a bit of me, please respect that.
Travelling a lot for work, location isn’t always where I live!✨
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while...
Just here to see what happens and where things end up, would prefer something longer term but open to short. Still exploring and finding out limits, open to trying most things once with the right person. Trust and connection are a must, I’m not looking for a ONS.
Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username?
Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Looking for that All encompassing Connection of minds, with an experienced Dom.
Someone who respects and earns my Submission.
xxxxx
I do believe I have found this now, so no longer actively looking.
However, .I am always up for making genuine friends , chatting, and being part of the community.
I am not interested in one off meets, sharing pics, dick pics, one or two word messages though. .
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go.
I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ?
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
92% Brat
91% Rope bunny
75% Primal (Prey)
74% Boy/Girl
64% Masochist
58% Vanilla
50% Ageplayer
27% Experimentalist
23% Exhibitionist
20% Slave
17% Degradee
13% Switch
8% Voyeur
7% Pet
0% Non-monogamist
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