I'm a 42yo short petite build 100% submissive in a Dom/sub relationship. We would love to meet another female submissive or switch to join in some kinky fun with us or another male Dom to join us. We are both quite experienced with BDSM and have a broad range of interests.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Let's chat and see if there's a connection.
I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
I value control, consistency, and genuine effort. If you know your place and enjoy giving with purpose, we’ll get along.
If you’re someone who understands boundaries, mutual respect, follows direction, and takes pride in earning approval, we’ll get along just fine. I don’t entertain time-wasters or vague energy. Effort and intention matter here.
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way.
I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer"
"the light bearer"
I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs.
Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes.
People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important.
No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
5 whole feet of curves, cannabis and chaos.
Brat by nature, submissive by preference, occasionally known to switch when the mood takes me. Equal parts intelligent professional and absolute menace.
Sex and relationships educator with plenty of kink experience, I can talk as confidently about consent, communication and dynamics as I can about having fun with them.
Sometimes found accompanying my dominatrix partner for two very different energies, and one very fun time.
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while...
Just here to see what happens and where things end up, would prefer something longer term but open to short. Still exploring and finding out limits, open to trying most things once with the right person. Trust and connection are a must, I’m not looking for a ONS.
Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username?
Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
Female submissive brat (most recent bdsm test puts me as the vassal/service sub) looking for someone to create a long term 24/7 dynamic with, primarily focusing on high protocol dynamic including partial/full ownership. Im bi (with a steong female lean) and poly, I do have a vanilla male partner who is kind of interested in the lifestyle but he has given me full permission to find a full time dynamic to go along side our relationship, domme/dom would still me allowed full control and use of me (obviously consented and agreed upon by all 3). I personally would love a more experienced domme/dom to put me in my place, provide rules/structure/punishment but also with the possibility of going to kinky events, I live to serve and not having that part of my life currently has left me a little lost and so would love to be owned/collared/give up all control again.
i’m new to kink and still figuring out what i like. i know i’m drawn to control, connection, and the kind of energy that makes me want to give in.
submissive, but thoughtful about it. i don’t give that part of myself to just anyone. it takes trust, tension, and someone who knows how to build it slowly.
not into rushing, pushing, or performative dom vibes. if you’re grounded, patient, and know how to keep things simmering, i’ll probably want to know more.
good luck earning it.
* ON HAITUS *
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen
a dirty desi slut who’s currently into race play x
disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
i also do not share face pics - it isn’t a bit of me, please respect that.
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully
• New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously.
• Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego.
•I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure.
• Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve.
• I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional.
• Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
Curious, thoughtful, and fairly new to the BDSM world, but drawn to the depth of connection and trust it can create. I’m naturally quite submissive in my energy and enjoy exploring dynamics built on respect, communication, and emotional safety.
I’m still learning the language and culture of BDSM, so I value patience and honesty from people who are more experienced. What interests me most is the psychological side of D/s — the trust, guidance, and sense of belonging within a dynamic.
Outside of kink I’m warm, reflective, passionate and enjoy meaningful conversation. I’m looking to explore at a pace that feels safe and authentic, ideally with someone who understands that connection.
If you’re kind, self-aware, and enjoy guiding someone who is genuinely curious and open to learning, we’ll probably get along.
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go.
I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ?
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
92% Brat
91% Rope bunny
75% Primal (Prey)
74% Boy/Girl
64% Masochist
58% Vanilla
50% Ageplayer
27% Experimentalist
23% Exhibitionist
20% Slave
17% Degradee
13% Switch
8% Voyeur
7% Pet
0% Non-monogamist
looking for another male to join me and my master in threesome fun.
Would love to just chat and learn as well.
I am also part of OF if youre interested in that or if its a deal breaker
**Desires and Fantasies**
***d
***d into submission
having a collar and lead
Looking to see what's is out there and meet new people. Have a kinky side and looking to reignite that flame that was dimmed. Connection is huge for me.
I'm terrible at logging in the app...maybe someone will intrigue me enough and keep my interest. 😅
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Not looking to dominate a man, I don't think I have it in me tbf.
Heyy freaky people 😆
I am new to the kink world and I would like to explore what turns me on and what my body responds to most - so far I’ve found I’m a switch but more sub/brat than dom but hugelyy into praise and restraint but I also love ***, leaving and receiving marks and just a little bit of ***…(I might be both a sadist and a masochist) I’m excited to see how far this side of me goes- let me be your good little girl x
Gotta mention foreplay, reassurance and connection is a need for me - I need to feel safe with you to unleash my inner freakkk
Domme/Sub Switch 😈😈😈
Depending on my audience as I’m very much a pleaser at heart 💜💜💜
Dipping her toe back into a world that’s digitalised and got scarier than the met and greets i entered this scene through (before 50 shades turned the world into bdsm wannabes) 😜🤦🏻♀️🙄
Shorter men need not apply as I require 6-6.2ft minimum to feel worshipped sexual, being a 5.10 Goddess 💫💫💫
20 y/o rope bunny
i’m really into bondage, cnc, mask/role play
scream mask or special ops uniforms will make me fold
no age play, race play, or bathroom kinks
definitely up for some cyber fun, personally find role playing entertaining and helps me get to know the individual and what they’re like/wanting a little more
New to exploring power exchange — I love that feeling of being led, firm but caring control, light intensity, clear direction. I’ve felt it once and it was perfect, so I want to explore it properly.
New here, so please be gentle 😉
Looking for connection and trust first. A man with quiet confidence, able to guide and take the lead without being ***ful.
Not looking for explicit pictures or quick casual fun. If that’s what you’re after, there are different apps for that. Unfortunately, I don’t provide that kind of service.
And remember, submission is a privilege to be earned, not something you are automatically entitled to.
Approach with manners… and maybe snacks 😅
Submissive. A good girl for the right Dom.
I am looking for a pleasure dom/service top. Someone who wants to dominate me but will prioritise my pleasure.
Will share photos if our interests align.
My main interests are; restraints, rope play, edging, orgasm control.
Not really into *** but can appreciate a good spanking.
An ever evolving Sub, looking for friends.
What inspires me to get to know someone better….….maturity, that they are a good person, with a good heart. The ability and willingness to communicate well, Emotional intelligence, good Manners, respect, Honesty and a good sense of humour.
To me, whether it be a friendship or relationship, it should be based around trust, Love, friendship, respect and communication.
I am way more than just a sub!!!! Please be respectful of that, or expect to be either ignored or schooled, depending on what mood I'm in!
I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners, poly or just a dynamic either.
I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
I value control, consistency, and genuine effort. If you know your place and enjoy giving with purpose, we’ll get along.
If you’re someone who understands boundaries, mutual respect, follows direction, and takes pride in earning approval, we’ll get along just fine. I don’t entertain time-wasters or vague energy. Effort and intention matter here.
I'm a 42yo short petite build 100% submissive in a Dom/sub relationship. We would love to meet another female submissive or switch to join in some kinky fun with us or another male Dom to join us. We are both quite experienced with BDSM and have a broad range of interests.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Let's chat and see if there's a connection.
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way.
I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer"
"the light bearer"
I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs.
Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes.
People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important.
No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female submissive brat (most recent bdsm test puts me as the vassal/service sub) looking for someone to create a long term 24/7 dynamic with, primarily focusing on high protocol dynamic including partial/full ownership. Im bi (with a steong female lean) and poly, I do have a vanilla male partner who is kind of interested in the lifestyle but he has given me full permission to find a full time dynamic to go along side our relationship, domme/dom would still me allowed full control and use of me (obviously consented and agreed upon by all 3). I personally would love a more experienced domme/dom to put me in my place, provide rules/structure/punishment but also with the possibility of going to kinky events, I live to serve and not having that part of my life currently has left me a little lost and so would love to be owned/collared/give up all control again.
New to exploring power exchange — I love that feeling of being led, firm but caring control, light intensity, clear direction. I’ve felt it once and it was perfect, so I want to explore it properly.
Domme/Sub Switch 😈😈😈
Depending on my audience as I’m very much a pleaser at heart 💜💜💜
Dipping her toe back into a world that’s digitalised and got scarier than the met and greets i entered this scene through (before 50 shades turned the world into bdsm wannabes) 😜🤦🏻♀️🙄
Shorter men need not apply as I require 6-6.2ft minimum to feel worshipped sexual, being a 5.10 Goddess 💫💫💫
New here, so please be gentle 😉
Looking for connection and trust first. A man with quiet confidence, able to guide and take the lead without being ***ful.
Not looking for explicit pictures or quick casual fun. If that’s what you’re after, there are different apps for that. Unfortunately, I don’t provide that kind of service.
And remember, submission is a privilege to be earned, not something you are automatically entitled to.
Approach with manners… and maybe snacks 😅
Curious, thoughtful, and fairly new to the BDSM world, but drawn to the depth of connection and trust it can create. I’m naturally quite submissive in my energy and enjoy exploring dynamics built on respect, communication, and emotional safety.
I’m still learning the language and culture of BDSM, so I value patience and honesty from people who are more experienced. What interests me most is the psychological side of D/s — the trust, guidance, and sense of belonging within a dynamic.
Outside of kink I’m warm, reflective, passionate and enjoy meaningful conversation. I’m looking to explore at a pace that feels safe and authentic, ideally with someone who understands that connection.
If you’re kind, self-aware, and enjoy guiding someone who is genuinely curious and open to learning, we’ll probably get along.
Submissive. A good girl for the right Dom.
I am looking for a pleasure dom/service top. Someone who wants to dominate me but will prioritise my pleasure.
Will share photos if our interests align.
My main interests are; restraints, rope play, edging, orgasm control.
Not really into *** but can appreciate a good spanking.
Heyy freaky people 😆
I am new to the kink world and I would like to explore what turns me on and what my body responds to most - so far I’ve found I’m a switch but more sub/brat than dom but hugelyy into praise and restraint but I also love ***, leaving and receiving marks and just a little bit of ***…(I might be both a sadist and a masochist) I’m excited to see how far this side of me goes- let me be your good little girl x
Gotta mention foreplay, reassurance and connection is a need for me - I need to feel safe with you to unleash my inner freakkk
5 whole feet of curves, cannabis and chaos.
Brat by nature, submissive by preference, occasionally known to switch when the mood takes me. Equal parts intelligent professional and absolute menace.
Sex and relationships educator with plenty of kink experience, I can talk as confidently about consent, communication and dynamics as I can about having fun with them.
Sometimes found accompanying my dominatrix partner for two very different energies, and one very fun time.
i’m new to kink and still figuring out what i like. i know i’m drawn to control, connection, and the kind of energy that makes me want to give in.
submissive, but thoughtful about it. i don’t give that part of myself to just anyone. it takes trust, tension, and someone who knows how to build it slowly.
not into rushing, pushing, or performative dom vibes. if you’re grounded, patient, and know how to keep things simmering, i’ll probably want to know more.
good luck earning it.
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully
• New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously.
• Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego.
•I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure.
• Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve.
• I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional.
• Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
20 y/o rope bunny
i’m really into bondage, cnc, mask/role play
scream mask or special ops uniforms will make me fold
no age play, race play, or bathroom kinks
definitely up for some cyber fun, personally find role playing entertaining and helps me get to know the individual and what they’re like/wanting a little more
An ever evolving Sub, looking for friends.
What inspires me to get to know someone better….….maturity, that they are a good person, with a good heart. The ability and willingness to communicate well, Emotional intelligence, good Manners, respect, Honesty and a good sense of humour.
To me, whether it be a friendship or relationship, it should be based around trust, Love, friendship, respect and communication.
I am way more than just a sub!!!! Please be respectful of that, or expect to be either ignored or schooled, depending on what mood I'm in!
I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners, poly or just a dynamic either.
Looking to see what's is out there and meet new people. Have a kinky side and looking to reignite that flame that was dimmed. Connection is huge for me.
I'm terrible at logging in the app...maybe someone will intrigue me enough and keep my interest. 😅
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Not looking to dominate a man, I don't think I have it in me tbf.
* ON HAITUS *
the brattiest brat you’ve ever seen
a dirty desi slut who’s currently into race play x
disclaimer: if i don’t respond don’t take it as an invitation to spam me with messages and acting beggish, it puts me off and completely slims your chances to zero.
i also do not share face pics - it isn’t a bit of me, please respect that.
Looking for a Dom to help remind me of my place once in a while...
Just here to see what happens and where things end up, would prefer something longer term but open to short. Still exploring and finding out limits, open to trying most things once with the right person. Trust and connection are a must, I’m not looking for a ONS.
Before you ask, I dont have a dominant bone in my body and will not switch, the clues in the username?
Drop me a message, I dont bite (unless you ask me nicely)✌
I joined here a long time ago and left due to other commitments but curiosity is killing the cat again so I'm back an still not sure what I'm here for but happy to chat and discover as I go.
I am also looking to chat to other, more experienced subs to make friends and also for tips and advice ?
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
92% Brat
91% Rope bunny
75% Primal (Prey)
74% Boy/Girl
64% Masochist
58% Vanilla
50% Ageplayer
27% Experimentalist
23% Exhibitionist
20% Slave
17% Degradee
13% Switch
8% Voyeur
7% Pet
0% Non-monogamist
looking for another male to join me and my master in threesome fun.
Would love to just chat and learn as well.
I am also part of OF if youre interested in that or if its a deal breaker
**Desires and Fantasies**
***d
***d into submission
having a collar and lead
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