Non-kinky me
Hi! I’m 33, married, poly, and here looking for friends. I’m more introvert than extrovert—think coffee shops, board games, and deep chats over wild nights out.
I love reading (even if I rarely get the time), and I’m a bit of a strategy game nerd. Always up for chatting books, life, or nerdy things, so feel free to say hi.
Kinky me
Still exploring and figuring things out. Not looking for anything right now, just friendly, open-minded people to chat with and learn from.
If you feel drawn to explore the quieter, deeper parts of your kinky desires, you are welcome to message me. I believe that every submissive journey should be approached with patience, understanding, and gentle guidance. I take pride in continually refining my skills and expanding my knowledge so I can offer an experience that feels safe, meaningful, and truly fulfilling for those I choose to spend time with.
‘A truly submissive woman is to be treasured cherished and protected for it is only she who can give a man, or woman, her gift of dominance’
Welcome to my profile.
15/06/2026 update - I have now lost 10 stone all on my own! 💪😃😈
Sadly I cannot see likes or respond to them. Please do send me a message.
I am not owned so free to play as I wish and with whom I so wish.
I am a fun loving, lively, outgoing, easy going, masochistic, attractive sexy woman who is a slave. I simply adore playing in a D/s dynamic. Plus I’m cool as hell! 😀
BDSM is a BIG part of my life even in my vanilla life too. I cannot do just plain vanilla, ever. It is so not to my taste.
I cannot be degraded verbally, ever. This includes talk about punishment, correction, ***, obeying, being used and serving too. Not for me thank you. I just shut down, not in a good way. You may even lose me for good. 😞
l am a sub and a masochist. There isn’t anything sweeter or more delicious than that sweet joyous hit of *** and then I am floating way up high into another magical world that I never ever want to leave.
I would love to find someone, a DOM with whom I mentally connect, who will love, cuddle and make me smile. Who is imaginative, ingenious, fun and is for keeps too! Someone honest, warm, caring, respectful, outgoing and fun loving with a debauched, depraved, ingenious and imaginative mind. A tall order one might say, but without hope, then there is nothing.
Thank you for looking at my profile. 😃
BDSMTest.org
Result ID bxe5yB5Y
Date Taken 11/02/2026
100% Masochist
100% Rope bunny
100% Submissive
100% Exhibitionist
91% Slave
88% Primal (Prey)
86% Experimentalist
78% Voyeur
77% Pet
50% Brat
45% Primal (Hunter)
42% Degradee
40% Vanilla
39% Non-monogamist
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Little
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Sadist
0% Switch
Hi, I'm Loz!
Ideally I'm looking for someone who is experienced in kink and wants a sub/little/pet to interact with, play with, do nice (or naughty?) things with!??
A connection is a must. It takes a lot of trust to build a solid kink relationship and trust takes time to build.✨ I'm not looking for quick hookups or any of that.
I'm 100% sub, with a big Little side, a large sprinkle of brat and a side helping of cute kitten.😽
✨TAKING A BREAK ✨
Looking for a Daddy who can guide, care and protect. I’m a little, but have a love for many kinks.
Ideally looking for a 24/7 dynamic.
If you’re looking for NSA or FWB, respectfully please move along
If you’re asking me to call you daddy from the beginning and start using pet names I’m going to assume you’re a fake dom and not reply
happy to send a picture (platonic) on request :)
Hello I'm an inexperienced & untrained sub looking for some1 to train me
I find facial hair a turn off so if ur not willing to shave it don't bother messaging
My hobbies are reading manga, watching anime, diamond art
My goal in life is to be the best mum I can be to my lil princess
Im also autistic
Im a big fan of avril lavigne
Im bi-curious
I will only date white British ***ps
Just for future reference i cant & wont do nude pics, give blowjobs, handjobs & boobjobs wen it comes to men
Also i detest anal
I ave kik leave a message if u wnna know it
**Desires and Fantasies**
My fantasy is to be tied up & ave mind blowing sex all night long
Hey there, thanks for visiting my profile and hopefully you read it.
Keeping things straight foreword and brief and private-ish
The Important stuff
- Replies slow as not very active on here.
- Not here for ONS,flings or a quickie. If you're looking to get you're dick wet for a jolly, move along I'm NOT interested! I'm here for something long term and a connection something with meaning and value!
- Distance: Make note of it please, it's right there and not changing. Don't waste my time pretending to be interested then when things start to get real you use it as a excuse and bail! (usally happens when a phone call is agreed to after weeks of talking)
If you're not looking for something long term or a commitment then again don't bother,move on!
- I prefer men slightly older (age 39-45 is whom I'm looking to connect with friends or more).
Lastly Fuck off with your games,love bombing and ghosting.
ABOUT ME:
- Straight
- Monogamous
- Values - Respect, Honesty, Communication,Consistency,laughter, Consent, Trust, Loyalty, Connection
Kind hearted,honest ,likes to laugh, have fun, curious, adventurous, easy going, caring with a very naughty side.
Keeping it on the downll low but happy to share what I'm into privately.
What you see is what you get.
INTERESTS & HOBBIES
- Gaming
- Music
- Nature
- Sport
- Racing
- Art/p@inting being creative
- Indoor bike to keep active
- Adventure
LOOKING FOR:
Friendship. A Relationship would be nice but I have come to realise recently I actually have abit of a fe@r of the thought of being in a relationship again. It's likely a mix of past relationships not being good and being single for 4/5 years. It's a hurdle I need to work through but I'm being completely honest and open, so for now just friends.
But if I was looking I would like to find a guy thats kinky , Dominant, understanding, fun and holds the same values as I and would make me feel safe and wanted. But friends first and foremost,let things happen naturally and hope we have a connection with no pressure and get to know eachother both vanilla and kink see if we're a good fit.
- White, Caucasian
- Male
- Straight
- Monogamous
- 39-45
- Dom (no switch)
- Has morals and values the same
- Being his genuine self
- Someone who is strict but fair and who I can laugh with at the same time
- Makes me feel safe and secure
- Doesn't *** control using it negatively.
- Has experience as a Dom.
If I genuinely interest you in some way feel free to reach out and get to know me. I'm an open book and will be real with you as I hope you will be with me too.
I am a sub that is looking for a dom to be my partner in crime, I am a fun bubbly person that is looking for a relationship. kink stays in the bedroom no question.
I am looking for a gentleman someone to treat me with respect (obviously out of the bedroom) and someone roughly my age
I and half Greek and half English, love the heat! and my family and friends are everything to me, I love a film and a good book, cooking, baking and I love a good walk!
ask me anything I am an open book! let the fun begin 😈😇
Hi :) Looking to see if I connect with anyone. After something genuine with sincerity and open, honest communication.
Creativity is my drive. I love making things and discovering new ways to work with stuff. Gaming and drawing are my go-to relaxation. I live for the sun and enjoy exploring places, finding all those cool hidden gem locations. I'm soft, cheeky, a little chaotic, empathetic, and earnest. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm not interested in anything purely casual. Intimacy is so much more fun when there's feelings involved. I'm enjoying discovering more about myself and my kinks in the meantime.
I'm a sub but I occasionally enjoy topping frorm the bottom, and I value my autonomy. Chill, cheeky, and intimate is my vibe. I'm a natural caregiver, but I also really love being looked after. Affection and praise makes me light up, and playfulness and aftercare are very important for me. I want that trust and feeling of being comfortable enough to let go. I'd like to find a Dom who makes me feel happy and safe.
I don't play with married or attached people and I'm a needy bitch so I don't expect you to be playing elsewhere ☺️
I'm not looking for online or long distance, as above, I'm too needy for that
As a single Mum, my free time is precious. So if we do connect, please don't waste it
I don't lie, liars are always caught out eventually. I expect full honesty from the start.
Any first meets to be public.
Also, if you're younger than me, please don't ask to meet/have interactions, that's not for me!
I'm plus size, demisexual, tattooed, I like to read and I love to bake.
I want to have a connection with someone, rather than just fuck buddies.
I'm not high maintenance, I don't need expensive things. I just need time with you and your attention ☺️
I like to make my Daddy happy but I will also sass and cheek, seeing how far I can go.
I like to be spanked, restrained, taken care of, called a good girl and a good little slut.
I'm looking for a local Daddy to make me a good girl. . .for the most part ??
Hard limits;
Caning, fist slaps/punching, urine and faeces, lying, cheaters.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
94% Masochist
85% Rope bunny
85% Degradee
70% Voyeur
68% Boy/Girl
64% Experimentalist
60% Exhibitionist
53% Brat
48% Ageplayer
45% Vanilla
34% Primal (Prey)
20% Slave
Just a delicate little petal looking for a strong, independent and emotionally stable dom. Preferably a husband material.
Not into poly, open relationships, slavery, casual, cncs or extremes - i am not that experienced.
also
id appreciate some sort of conversation before you start telling me how big your dick is and how you will fuck me.
basically if you are crude, stale like last years bread and cant make me laugh, we wont get anywhere, thank you, cheers, buh bye
honestly, can any of you make me laugh
Blonde hair, 5ft2 and slim Iam currently in a relationship that isn't open minded but potentially looking for someone long term. See myself as submissive and hopefully looking for something bit more interesting
**Desires and Fantasies**
Everyone has fantasies but chat and ask me haha
I'm not the best at these things, I don't believe a person can be summed up in a few lines. I enjoy talking to people and getting to know someone through chat.
I'm currently only here for friendship connections and continuing to learn about the fun world of kink.
Prefer sub. Not interested in couples & FWB
Respectfully, if you don’t live in England & haven’t uploaded any pics then I won’t talk to you. I don’t mind if you don’t show your full face for privacy reasons, but I want to see your vibe at least (:
avoid being immediately sexual in my dms either, lets get to know each other first
I’m a submissive, in a vanilla but very happy relationship. I guess I just use the site as a way to express my BDSM side, make friends in the lifestyle and chat to like minded people. I am not interested in meeting, please don’t ask.
In vanilla life I’m a beer drinking football fan who loves Autumn, coffee and cuddles…
I am a sub who would like to find someone that can keep my mind focused on tasks that push my limits for the long term. I need meets which can be a bit tricky. voice notes and face photos always help.
also if your not around the 45 mins away mark its not going to work. as sometimes it can be last minute. and if we get on late night visits for awhile. so no offence if I say too far.
Just a young silly sub looking for some fun, do you have what it takes? I get off from descriptions, so tell me, how would you like to use me? The more detailed the better, then maybe I’ll live up to my username ?. There’s not much I wouldn’t do, but I’m not here to give you everything on a plate (other than me) so find out for yourself. I have a toy box, I may be willing to share and give an explanation of how they work, we will see how wet I get. Oh, I forgot to say, I prolly have a butt plug in right now ?, but don’t tell anyone, yea? Especially in public, but you’ll only see it if you’re very lucky. Just let me sit on your face already and I’ll be happy as well as horny. Off you go, try and capture my attention….I’m waiting…
still here? put me on a collar and lead already, then you won’t lose me ;)
“Alt girl with a bratty edge, looking for a Dom who knows how to take control.
I bend for someone who can break down my attitude and mould my fire into something that’s theirs.
If you can handle a challenge and claim it properly, I’m yours
trans
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
98% Submissive
98% Degradee
94% Experimentalist
89% Masochist
83% Little
78% Exhibitionist
76% Primal (Prey)
75% Slave
Professional Dominatrix - very dominant in my work settings gets boring - Open to switch with the right soul!
Establishing I work too hard and most people who try to date me bore me shitless.
I am veryyyyy
care free, spontaneous, fast pace!
super shit at messages. I like living life haven't got time for pen pals! spare me with that shit
Very saddistic I'm not one for the light hearted.
I like to leave marks, bruising and cuts 😘
open to new clients & fun dates etc
Miss, she/her
Femme Domme switch
I’m homosexual. I’m a person, not a fantasy. Minimise assumptions.
I am looking for: BDSM play partners, friends, hookups
I am NOT looking for: 24/7 dynamic, serious dating
I’m in to: Sensual play, SM, bratty confident masochists, leather, impact play, bondage, intelligent conversations, imagination
I’m curious about: Primal and pet play, dirty talk, wax play, shibari
Same username everywhere
I have alot of anxiety but try to be really nice as i don't like to make people upset with me. I can be really sassy and be sarcastic because i find it funny and I love the idea of being used but havent been able to dive into that.
If you feel drawn to explore the quieter, deeper parts of your kinky desires, you are welcome to message me. I believe that every submissive journey should be approached with patience, understanding, and gentle guidance. I take pride in continually refining my skills and expanding my knowledge so I can offer an experience that feels safe, meaningful, and truly fulfilling for those I choose to spend time with.
‘A truly submissive woman is to be treasured cherished and protected for it is only she who can give a man, or woman, her gift of dominance’
Welcome to my profile.
15/06/2026 update - I have now lost 10 stone all on my own! 💪😃😈
Sadly I cannot see likes or respond to them. Please do send me a message.
I am not owned so free to play as I wish and with whom I so wish.
I am a fun loving, lively, outgoing, easy going, masochistic, attractive sexy woman who is a slave. I simply adore playing in a D/s dynamic. Plus I’m cool as hell! 😀
BDSM is a BIG part of my life even in my vanilla life too. I cannot do just plain vanilla, ever. It is so not to my taste.
I cannot be degraded verbally, ever. This includes talk about punishment, correction, ***, obeying, being used and serving too. Not for me thank you. I just shut down, not in a good way. You may even lose me for good. 😞
l am a sub and a masochist. There isn’t anything sweeter or more delicious than that sweet joyous hit of *** and then I am floating way up high into another magical world that I never ever want to leave.
I would love to find someone, a DOM with whom I mentally connect, who will love, cuddle and make me smile. Who is imaginative, ingenious, fun and is for keeps too! Someone honest, warm, caring, respectful, outgoing and fun loving with a debauched, depraved, ingenious and imaginative mind. A tall order one might say, but without hope, then there is nothing.
Thank you for looking at my profile. 😃
BDSMTest.org
Result ID bxe5yB5Y
Date Taken 11/02/2026
100% Masochist
100% Rope bunny
100% Submissive
100% Exhibitionist
91% Slave
88% Primal (Prey)
86% Experimentalist
78% Voyeur
77% Pet
50% Brat
45% Primal (Hunter)
42% Degradee
40% Vanilla
39% Non-monogamist
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Little
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Sadist
0% Switch
✨TAKING A BREAK ✨
Looking for a Daddy who can guide, care and protect. I’m a little, but have a love for many kinks.
Ideally looking for a 24/7 dynamic.
If you’re looking for NSA or FWB, respectfully please move along
If you’re asking me to call you daddy from the beginning and start using pet names I’m going to assume you’re a fake dom and not reply
happy to send a picture (platonic) on request :)
Non-kinky me
Hi! I’m 33, married, poly, and here looking for friends. I’m more introvert than extrovert—think coffee shops, board games, and deep chats over wild nights out.
I love reading (even if I rarely get the time), and I’m a bit of a strategy game nerd. Always up for chatting books, life, or nerdy things, so feel free to say hi.
Kinky me
Still exploring and figuring things out. Not looking for anything right now, just friendly, open-minded people to chat with and learn from.
Hi, I'm Loz!
Ideally I'm looking for someone who is experienced in kink and wants a sub/little/pet to interact with, play with, do nice (or naughty?) things with!??
A connection is a must. It takes a lot of trust to build a solid kink relationship and trust takes time to build.✨ I'm not looking for quick hookups or any of that.
I'm 100% sub, with a big Little side, a large sprinkle of brat and a side helping of cute kitten.😽
Hello I'm an inexperienced & untrained sub looking for some1 to train me
I find facial hair a turn off so if ur not willing to shave it don't bother messaging
My hobbies are reading manga, watching anime, diamond art
My goal in life is to be the best mum I can be to my lil princess
Im also autistic
Im a big fan of avril lavigne
Im bi-curious
I will only date white British ***ps
Just for future reference i cant & wont do nude pics, give blowjobs, handjobs & boobjobs wen it comes to men
Also i detest anal
I ave kik leave a message if u wnna know it
**Desires and Fantasies**
My fantasy is to be tied up & ave mind blowing sex all night long
Hey there, thanks for visiting my profile and hopefully you read it.
Keeping things straight foreword and brief and private-ish
The Important stuff
- Replies slow as not very active on here.
- Not here for ONS,flings or a quickie. If you're looking to get you're dick wet for a jolly, move along I'm NOT interested! I'm here for something long term and a connection something with meaning and value!
- Distance: Make note of it please, it's right there and not changing. Don't waste my time pretending to be interested then when things start to get real you use it as a excuse and bail! (usally happens when a phone call is agreed to after weeks of talking)
If you're not looking for something long term or a commitment then again don't bother,move on!
- I prefer men slightly older (age 39-45 is whom I'm looking to connect with friends or more).
Lastly Fuck off with your games,love bombing and ghosting.
ABOUT ME:
- Straight
- Monogamous
- Values - Respect, Honesty, Communication,Consistency,laughter, Consent, Trust, Loyalty, Connection
Kind hearted,honest ,likes to laugh, have fun, curious, adventurous, easy going, caring with a very naughty side.
Keeping it on the downll low but happy to share what I'm into privately.
What you see is what you get.
INTERESTS & HOBBIES
- Gaming
- Music
- Nature
- Sport
- Racing
- Art/p@inting being creative
- Indoor bike to keep active
- Adventure
LOOKING FOR:
Friendship. A Relationship would be nice but I have come to realise recently I actually have abit of a fe@r of the thought of being in a relationship again. It's likely a mix of past relationships not being good and being single for 4/5 years. It's a hurdle I need to work through but I'm being completely honest and open, so for now just friends.
But if I was looking I would like to find a guy thats kinky , Dominant, understanding, fun and holds the same values as I and would make me feel safe and wanted. But friends first and foremost,let things happen naturally and hope we have a connection with no pressure and get to know eachother both vanilla and kink see if we're a good fit.
- White, Caucasian
- Male
- Straight
- Monogamous
- 39-45
- Dom (no switch)
- Has morals and values the same
- Being his genuine self
- Someone who is strict but fair and who I can laugh with at the same time
- Makes me feel safe and secure
- Doesn't *** control using it negatively.
- Has experience as a Dom.
If I genuinely interest you in some way feel free to reach out and get to know me. I'm an open book and will be real with you as I hope you will be with me too.
I have alot of anxiety but try to be really nice as i don't like to make people upset with me. I can be really sassy and be sarcastic because i find it funny and I love the idea of being used but havent been able to dive into that.
I'm a big personality, with a big heart. I'm looking to experiment with my life currently. I can be quite shy to begin with, but once I am comfortable I enjoy a good laugh and a good time
“Alt girl with a bratty edge, looking for a Dom who knows how to take control.
I bend for someone who can break down my attitude and mould my fire into something that’s theirs.
If you can handle a challenge and claim it properly, I’m yours
trans
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
98% Submissive
98% Degradee
94% Experimentalist
89% Masochist
83% Little
78% Exhibitionist
76% Primal (Prey)
75% Slave
I am a sub who would like to find someone that can keep my mind focused on tasks that push my limits for the long term. I need meets which can be a bit tricky. voice notes and face photos always help.
also if your not around the 45 mins away mark its not going to work. as sometimes it can be last minute. and if we get on late night visits for awhile. so no offence if I say too far.
I am a sub that is looking for a dom to be my partner in crime, I am a fun bubbly person that is looking for a relationship. kink stays in the bedroom no question.
I am looking for a gentleman someone to treat me with respect (obviously out of the bedroom) and someone roughly my age
I and half Greek and half English, love the heat! and my family and friends are everything to me, I love a film and a good book, cooking, baking and I love a good walk!
ask me anything I am an open book! let the fun begin 😈😇
hey I’m Tyler I’m 25 years old from Milton Keynes I have a hubby irl but he lives in America it’s a long distance relationship I’m looking for friends only to meet up with but no flirting on me just friends
Just a delicate little petal looking for a strong, independent and emotionally stable dom. Preferably a husband material.
Not into poly, open relationships, slavery, casual, cncs or extremes - i am not that experienced.
also
id appreciate some sort of conversation before you start telling me how big your dick is and how you will fuck me.
basically if you are crude, stale like last years bread and cant make me laugh, we wont get anywhere, thank you, cheers, buh bye
honestly, can any of you make me laugh
I don't play with married or attached people and I'm a needy bitch so I don't expect you to be playing elsewhere ☺️
I'm not looking for online or long distance, as above, I'm too needy for that
As a single Mum, my free time is precious. So if we do connect, please don't waste it
I don't lie, liars are always caught out eventually. I expect full honesty from the start.
Any first meets to be public.
Also, if you're younger than me, please don't ask to meet/have interactions, that's not for me!
I'm plus size, demisexual, tattooed, I like to read and I love to bake.
I want to have a connection with someone, rather than just fuck buddies.
I'm not high maintenance, I don't need expensive things. I just need time with you and your attention ☺️
I like to make my Daddy happy but I will also sass and cheek, seeing how far I can go.
I like to be spanked, restrained, taken care of, called a good girl and a good little slut.
I'm looking for a local Daddy to make me a good girl. . .for the most part ??
Hard limits;
Caning, fist slaps/punching, urine and faeces, lying, cheaters.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
94% Masochist
85% Rope bunny
85% Degradee
70% Voyeur
68% Boy/Girl
64% Experimentalist
60% Exhibitionist
53% Brat
48% Ageplayer
45% Vanilla
34% Primal (Prey)
20% Slave
Miss, she/her
Femme Domme switch
I’m homosexual. I’m a person, not a fantasy. Minimise assumptions.
I am looking for: BDSM play partners, friends, hookups
I am NOT looking for: 24/7 dynamic, serious dating
I’m in to: Sensual play, SM, bratty confident masochists, leather, impact play, bondage, intelligent conversations, imagination
I’m curious about: Primal and pet play, dirty talk, wax play, shibari
Same username everywhere
Just a young silly sub looking for some fun, do you have what it takes? I get off from descriptions, so tell me, how would you like to use me? The more detailed the better, then maybe I’ll live up to my username ?. There’s not much I wouldn’t do, but I’m not here to give you everything on a plate (other than me) so find out for yourself. I have a toy box, I may be willing to share and give an explanation of how they work, we will see how wet I get. Oh, I forgot to say, I prolly have a butt plug in right now ?, but don’t tell anyone, yea? Especially in public, but you’ll only see it if you’re very lucky. Just let me sit on your face already and I’ll be happy as well as horny. Off you go, try and capture my attention….I’m waiting…
still here? put me on a collar and lead already, then you won’t lose me ;)
Professional Dominatrix - very dominant in my work settings gets boring - Open to switch with the right soul!
Establishing I work too hard and most people who try to date me bore me shitless.
I am veryyyyy
care free, spontaneous, fast pace!
super shit at messages. I like living life haven't got time for pen pals! spare me with that shit
Very saddistic I'm not one for the light hearted.
I like to leave marks, bruising and cuts 😘
open to new clients & fun dates etc
Prefer sub. Not interested in couples & FWB
Respectfully, if you don’t live in England & haven’t uploaded any pics then I won’t talk to you. I don’t mind if you don’t show your full face for privacy reasons, but I want to see your vibe at least (:
avoid being immediately sexual in my dms either, lets get to know each other first
I’m a submissive, in a vanilla but very happy relationship. I guess I just use the site as a way to express my BDSM side, make friends in the lifestyle and chat to like minded people. I am not interested in meeting, please don’t ask.
In vanilla life I’m a beer drinking football fan who loves Autumn, coffee and cuddles…
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