Kinky women in Cambridgeshire

i’m 23, new (ish) to kink. wanna meet someone !!!! looking for a daddy dom. love tall, older, muscular men, being ***d into submission (CNC and free use) and pleasing my partner, do not want to be in charge in or out of the bedroom. having said that i like there to be room for playfulness and affection and big BRAT energy

I’m a confident, sensual femmeDom with a sharp mind, soft curves, and a natural taste for being in control. I like connection with chemistry, tension, teasing, and a man who knows the difference between confidence and arrogance. I’m drawn to respectful, eager energy someone who can hold a conversation, read the room, and understand that submission is not weakness, it’s trust. I enjoy playful power dynamics, anticipation, obedience, worship, and the delicious little moments where control is given rather than taken. I’m not here for lazy messages, entitlement, or men who think kink means forgetting manners. Impress me with intelligence, emotional maturity, humour, and the ability to follow instructions. Come correct, be honest, be respectful and maybe I’ll let you earn my attention.

I’m married and looking for a kinky FWB. I’m dipping my toes into things I might like to try as life’s too short to not do things that you might enjoy. I’ve discovered I like being spanked, the test says I’m a switch but haven’t really tried either in real life. I’m really looking to chat, see if we connect and explore what kinky fun is out there.

I've worn His collar for 21 years and His ring for 18 of those. Update, while he remains my Daddy he is no longer my Master however we are still happily married

Plus size ,pin up tattooed curvy ,slightly crazy kooky woman ,sometimes has blue hair ,sometimes who knows what colour it is? on here for shits and giggles, looking to have a bit of fun and see what I can find.

I am a DOMINANT! I want to stablish friendships. with like minded people, Not looking for any Male subs as i have currently 2, I may consider..A female as i never had one.and the right one comes along. in general just want to chat with like minded people.Maybe have a cuppa every once in a while.I want to stablish friendships. NOT LOOKING . for fuck buddies. I dont wanna shag! DOnt need any male subs. I DONT wanna be your SUB!

Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me. Online play only.

Female, UK-based, intelligent, independent, and looking for a genuine Female-Led Relationship with the right person. I am interested in a Level 3-4 FLR dynamic. For me, that means a relationship where the woman holds clear authority and leadership within the partnership, and where my guidance, decisions, and priorities are respected and valued. This will be a 24/7 dynamic both in and out of the bedroom. What that looks like for me: • I take a leading role in decision-making and setting the direction of the relationship. • The man actively supports my goals, happiness, and wellbeing. • Service, respect, accountability, and communication are central values. • Clear expectations and agreed standards are maintained. • Any potential financial responsibility, domestic contribution, and lifestyle decisions may be influenced by myself depending on compatibility and mutual agreement. • The dynamic is built on trust, honesty, consent, and mutual benefit. I expect a partner who understands that my needs, desires, and boundaries take precedence. Your role is to be attentive, responsive, and focused on my satisfaction. Chastity, orgasm denial, and the surrender of sexual control along with ***/*** and psychological Mindcraft, are all aspects that I enjoy exploring. You should be comfortable with the idea that access to sexual release is a privilege rather than an expectation, and that self-control, service, obedience are also rewarding in their own right. I value maturity, emotional intelligence, integrity, and genuine connection. I prefer a power exchange that is built on respect rather than ***. Outside of FLR, I enjoy cerebral conversation, laughter, and spending time with the people and ***s I love. If you are seeking a meaningful, long-term female-led dynamic and understand that true submission is demonstrated through actions, words and deeds, then introduce yourself.

A quick vanilla intro about me first — I’m the kind of person who’ll happily spend the day riding my motorbike too fast, gaming for hours, crocheting something ridiculous at 2am, or dragging you around a garden centre while pretending I absolutely know how plants work. I’m funny, caring, slightly chaotic, very affectionate, and always down for random errands, late night drives, stupid conversations, or just existing together. I can be shy about certain things at first, and parts of my upbringing are still a *** topic for me, so trust and emotional safety genuinely matter more to me than people probably expect. ~~ Kink-wise… I lean submissive naturally, but I do have a more dominant side occasionally if the chemistry is right. I’m drawn to confident people who can take control calmly rather than perform it loudly. I love power exchange, teasing, edging, orgasm control, restraints, impact play, scratching, choking, being manhandled, overstimulation, possessiveness, praise mixed with ***, hickeys/bruises, wax play, exhibitionism, and that mental side of kink where someone can completely get into your head in the best way. I adore tension, anticipation, playful bullying, being wound up intentionally, and someone who can keep me on my toes mentally as much as physically. The brat tendencies are absolutely there… but so is the desire to feel looked after afterwards. ~~ Things I’m curious about / open to with trust: CNC, medical play, knife play, somno, free use dynamics, electro play, DDLG dynamics, pet play, interrogation, sounding, watersports, breath play and a few other things depending on chemistry, trust and communication. I’m very much a “let’s discuss things properly first” type of person. ~~ What I’m actually looking for: Not a one night stand. I want chemistry, attraction, flirting, tension, good conversation, and eventually a dynamic/relationship where kink feels like part of the connection rather than the entire foundation of it. I like people who reply properly, communicate well, can banter without being weirdly aggressive, and actually want to spend time together outside of sex too. Give me someone I can laugh with, annoy intentionally, cuddle with afterwards, run errands with, and occasionally hand over control to completely. ~~ Hard no’s: Sc@t, incest play, MDLB, burning, anal fisting, pushiness, poor communication, and people who don’t understand consent or boundaries. Aftercare, communication, reassurance and mutual respect are important to me — kink is supposed to feel safe as well as exciting. ~~ Also — Fet absolutely hates my wifi for some reason and child locks the site half the time 🙃 so if replies are slow or I vanish temporarily, feel free to message me on Instagram: @_breadandbutt3r_ (underscores either side) Just maybe say where you found me first so I know you’ve seen all of this, that way I won’t be ambushing a random with all this chaos 😌 ~~ If you’ve read all this: Congratulations. You’re either genuinely interested or just incredibly nosey. Either way, message me properly. 🖤

***, worship, making you feel small and obsessed with me. 💅 Looking for submissive guys who are genuinely into it, or think they might be but never tried it. Grovel properly, worship like you mean it, take daily tasks and rules if we click I’m open to something regular. I enjoy power role play both sexual and as a lifestyle. If you get off on being mocked, dismissed, and reminded you’re beneath me, maybe I’m the mean domme for you. Absolutely no “use me however” energy. Put in the work or get left on read 🤭

I do have anxiety, especially when it comes to food. Eating out at restaurants is triggering for me, but working on it, and I hope I find someone who is patient with me and aids me in working on the confidence to go out to eat again! I love to game, a good variety of cozy and chaotic gameplay, I do stream on Twitch *** so if you wish to see more of my personality, feel free to check it out!

I am naturally very submissive, massive fan of impact play, being restrained, edging and receiving an*l play. open minded. Happy to share my photo with genuine people, just message!

Big ol dnd nerd and art student from wales. for me, at least Kink requires an emotional connection, so I'm not interested in a one night stand. I've limited experience, and I'm excited to explore:^)

looking to explore the world of BDSM, have an interest in choking, spanking, bearable ***, and just letting a man take control 😜 ALSO open to try most things so hit me up. Have several toys and happy to do guided videos for your pleasure 😜 also open to kinky dates/hook ups where possible

Currently exploring solo polyamory and have 2 partners. I’m very particular about who I choose to give my time and energy to. Hoping to make some longer term connections, I do not do ONS or NSA. I value connection over sex so if the connection isn’t there it’s unlikely to go any further. No response is a response, please don’t message me repeatedly.

💙 Short version! Experienced in kink, open & honest, love variety, happy to chat and see where it leads! 🥰 ~ What I am looking for: ✅️ Kinky play times ✅️ Mental & physical dominance ✅️ Casual meets or deeper dynamics ~ What I'm NOT looking for: ❌️ Young, inexperienced people ❌️ Cybersex, sexting, etc. ❌️ ONS It's nothing personal - the above are just not for me 🥰 ~~ 💙 Long Version! Quick vanilla intro! You'll either find me riding too fast on my motorbike or hard at work! I'm a mum, and I own and run 2 businesses - dominant in my day to day life, so you can imagine why I enjoy the submissive downtime where I can let go of that control! 🥰 ~ ⚠️ YES, I'm a busy woman, I won't reply quickly on Fet. But if we build a connection and sw@p digits, I do dedicate time and energy to those who reciprocate that 🥰 ~~ I'm one of the most open, understanding and patient people you'll meet... but at times, also shy, ***, and anxious. Take that as you wish 🤷🏻‍♀️ ~~ Kinky meee! I'm open to MANY other things too, so don't be afraid to message if you've got something else in mind! 👀 ~~ 💙 Kinky play I love restraints.. letting go of control.. power exchange.. being ***d.. sensory deprivation.. orgasm control.. breath play.. being overpowered and *** is one of the hottest feelings! I love many different aspects! ~~ Love someone who can give that mental domination as much as the physical presence and overpower me! I'll put up a good fight 😏 ~~ I'm a brat at heart - but light hearted, fun, playful, mischievous, devious, and I'll enjoy every second of winding you up 😌 But I know when to draw the line - I'm not immature! But having said that... if playing with a brat isn't your style, I can behave... 🥰 ~~ 💙 Medical play Any medical play - anything from basic play and being examined, to more kinky play including sounding rods, catheters, masks, and more. I love being teased, and my pussy, ass, cervix, etc examined. Restraints optional 😉 I can be a great 'unwilling' patient if that's your style 😏 ~~ Needle play is most definitely an option too 😉 but if needles aren't your thing, they can stay safely away 🥰 needle play is most definitely something that requires trust and a deeper connection! ~~ 💙 CNC I love CNC... either within sex, in a dynamic, or combining CNC with medical play or other kinks, etc 😉 ~~ 💙 Other dymamics I love a dynamic where I can feel safe, looked after and reassured. Something a little more sensual than my usual play times above! If you can figure out what makes me melt, that's your secret weapon! 😂 I also love firm dominance... a gentle touch with a firm grip... ~~ And also, the day to day things - someone who I can turn to, talk to, get frustrated with, vent to, ask for cuddles, someone who'll lead, but put me in my place and keep me on track... letting me be the strong independent woman that I am. It's about knowing when to step back, and when to step up... I find confidence hot and attractive 👌🏻 But hey, if you'd rather not have the day to day chats and dynamic, that's cool too! We can just keep it pure kink 🤷🏻‍♀️ ~~ 💙 Bisexual/Couples While I would usually have identified as 'straight', I must admit I am bisexual. I have played with M/F couples on a number of occasions. If an individual female or a M/F couple came along, I'd certainly be curious and see where it leads... ~~ 💙 Curious? I'm really easy going. If you fancy a chat, just message! 🥰 (slow replies to start with though, don't be mad if it takes me 3 days to reply 🥺) ~~ ❤️ Please note: - I'm up for anything from casual meets and dynamics, to proper long term dynamics if it works between us! - I do have a wicked, devious dominant streak, but me switching happens on my terms... please don't ask me to dominate you, I'll decide if and when I switch 🙏🏻 - I do prefer slightly older men for various reasons (between 35-60 years old ish) - I can travel to a certain extent, but cannot host. - I'm looking for real life connections, not online play.

I am sweet and innocent to everyone around me, I am the straight A student who studies maths, English literature, physics and psychology. I am actually 18 not 19, and I only like kinky shi if it comes to after care. I am very well read in ALL of BDSM as I read porn. However, I am a virgin who has not had her first kiss yet. I love playing little and being a spoiled little princess, and I need a daddy to put me in my place (if you can handle the challenge) xoxo littlemrsinnocent

Open to explore things. Submissive with a very bratty attitude, looking for a dominate guy

Hey, I’m in an open marriage looking to explore with solo males and females and couples. only message if you are into bigger women as I’m a fatty✌️ please do not message me if your under 30!! looking for someone dominant, someone to take control, rough and people that know what they want! I only play on my own not with my husband. 🤘🏻

I’m a petite submissive girl looking for an experienced Dom to teach me more. Currently in a relationship with someone who wants to share me. Looking to start slow and virtual with anyone intelligent, mature and strong. **Desires and Fantasies** cnc ownership creampie dp primal

I’m pretty new to all this. Mostly submissive, but can be a domme in some circumstances (ask me). I’m on here to chat, make friends and meet people. Already owned by my Dom 😛

I have a submissive man, and I need help and tips on how to dominate him well…. I want to keep things interesting. From the messages I’ve been getting so far it seems we do a lot already, nothing has overly inspired me, yet!

window shopping and seeing what happens my DMs are spammed rn so please be patient ?? no subs, no one over 40, no faceless profiles, message me and ill just delete you x

A bit of handful to handle boys think your big enough to handle me bring it. I never listen I don't do as I'm told and I will make u want to hit ur head Into a brick wall over and over and over again I am a single mother to 3 kids so if I don't message right away I'm either stuck watching teletubbies or looking at a telescope. My kids are my life so if u don't understand u have to wait we'll ur bad luck.

I’m a confident, sensual femmeDom with a sharp mind, soft curves, and a natural taste for being in control. I like connection with chemistry, tension, teasing, and a man who knows the difference between confidence and arrogance. I’m drawn to respectful, eager energy someone who can hold a conversation, read the room, and understand that submission is not weakness, it’s trust. I enjoy playful power dynamics, anticipation, obedience, worship, and the delicious little moments where control is given rather than taken. I’m not here for lazy messages, entitlement, or men who think kink means forgetting manners. Impress me with intelligence, emotional maturity, humour, and the ability to follow instructions. Come correct, be honest, be respectful and maybe I’ll let you earn my attention.

Plus size ,pin up tattooed curvy ,slightly crazy kooky woman ,sometimes has blue hair ,sometimes who knows what colour it is? on here for shits and giggles, looking to have a bit of fun and see what I can find.

Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me. Online play only.

I am a DOMINANT! I want to stablish friendships. with like minded people, Not looking for any Male subs as i have currently 2, I may consider..A female as i never had one.and the right one comes along. in general just want to chat with like minded people.Maybe have a cuppa every once in a while.I want to stablish friendships. NOT LOOKING . for fuck buddies. I dont wanna shag! DOnt need any male subs. I DONT wanna be your SUB!

i’m 23, new (ish) to kink. wanna meet someone !!!! looking for a daddy dom. love tall, older, muscular men, being ***d into submission (CNC and free use) and pleasing my partner, do not want to be in charge in or out of the bedroom. having said that i like there to be room for playfulness and affection and big BRAT energy

I've worn His collar for 21 years and His ring for 18 of those. Update, while he remains my Daddy he is no longer my Master however we are still happily married

I’m married and looking for a kinky FWB. I’m dipping my toes into things I might like to try as life’s too short to not do things that you might enjoy. I’ve discovered I like being spanked, the test says I’m a switch but haven’t really tried either in real life. I’m really looking to chat, see if we connect and explore what kinky fun is out there.

New here so I'll update this soon. Seeking a male or female submissive. Into a range of different kinks. What's your ultimate fantasy? Message me....

33 • petite • 5’4 • size 6/8 New to this app and still figuring it all out 👀 Naturally submissive, playful, affectionate and definitely drawn to confident energy. Looking for someone I genuinely connect with to explore that side of myself with safely and naturally. Big on chemistry, banter and feeling comfortable with someone first. Open-minded, curious and seeing where things go… whether that’s good conversation, fun experiences or maybe even something more serious eventually. Tiny and petite… but I have preferences that don’t exactly match my size 😇 Apparently my tiny size 4 feet deserve their own mention on here too 😂

I am naturally very submissive, massive fan of impact play, being restrained, edging and receiving an*l play. open minded. Happy to share my photo with genuine people, just message!

Hey, I’m in an open marriage looking to explore with solo males and females and couples. only message if you are into bigger women as I’m a fatty✌️ please do not message me if your under 30!! looking for someone dominant, someone to take control, rough and people that know what they want! I only play on my own not with my husband. 🤘🏻

looking to explore the world of BDSM, have an interest in choking, spanking, bearable ***, and just letting a man take control 😜 ALSO open to try most things so hit me up. Have several toys and happy to do guided videos for your pleasure 😜 also open to kinky dates/hook ups where possible

***, worship, making you feel small and obsessed with me. 💅 Looking for submissive guys who are genuinely into it, or think they might be but never tried it. Grovel properly, worship like you mean it, take daily tasks and rules if we click I’m open to something regular. I enjoy power role play both sexual and as a lifestyle. If you get off on being mocked, dismissed, and reminded you’re beneath me, maybe I’m the mean domme for you. Absolutely no “use me however” energy. Put in the work or get left on read 🤭

I am a stay at home mum … I am really into little space, I use this as a coping skill and really enjoy it 😅. I have been told that I can be the biggest brat in existence, however, I often brat without realising I’m being a brat 🙃😅😂. I am still fairly new to the kinky lifestyle I’ve only been in one previously kinky relationship and do not feel I learnt as much as I had hoped from it. I’m usually up for anything at least once, so give me a chance and if we don’t match up perfectly that’s okay too. I have a lot of mental health struggles so frequently second guess myself or make myself very nervous about mundane things like responding to messages from new people. I am working on it I promise 😅. I love a good night in with movies and snacks. I like most movie genres except horror 😂. I get terrified. I love music and sometimes use it to express what I’m feeling when I can’t put a name to it. I love all genres, my go to’s for music is rock, pop and I do like me a bit of K-pop 😅. I love singing along (no matter how bad I sound) and enjoying my free time. I am hoping for something more long term but I do also understand that it takes time and mutual trust. I am happy to chat and see how things go and play out.

💙 Short version! Experienced in kink, open & honest, love variety, happy to chat and see where it leads! 🥰 ~ What I am looking for: ✅️ Kinky play times ✅️ Mental & physical dominance ✅️ Casual meets or deeper dynamics ~ What I'm NOT looking for: ❌️ Young, inexperienced people ❌️ Cybersex, sexting, etc. ❌️ ONS It's nothing personal - the above are just not for me 🥰 ~~ 💙 Long Version! Quick vanilla intro! You'll either find me riding too fast on my motorbike or hard at work! I'm a mum, and I own and run 2 businesses - dominant in my day to day life, so you can imagine why I enjoy the submissive downtime where I can let go of that control! 🥰 ~ ⚠️ YES, I'm a busy woman, I won't reply quickly on Fet. But if we build a connection and sw@p digits, I do dedicate time and energy to those who reciprocate that 🥰 ~~ I'm one of the most open, understanding and patient people you'll meet... but at times, also shy, ***, and anxious. Take that as you wish 🤷🏻‍♀️ ~~ Kinky meee! I'm open to MANY other things too, so don't be afraid to message if you've got something else in mind! 👀 ~~ 💙 Kinky play I love restraints.. letting go of control.. power exchange.. being ***d.. sensory deprivation.. orgasm control.. breath play.. being overpowered and *** is one of the hottest feelings! I love many different aspects! ~~ Love someone who can give that mental domination as much as the physical presence and overpower me! I'll put up a good fight 😏 ~~ I'm a brat at heart - but light hearted, fun, playful, mischievous, devious, and I'll enjoy every second of winding you up 😌 But I know when to draw the line - I'm not immature! But having said that... if playing with a brat isn't your style, I can behave... 🥰 ~~ 💙 Medical play Any medical play - anything from basic play and being examined, to more kinky play including sounding rods, catheters, masks, and more. I love being teased, and my pussy, ass, cervix, etc examined. Restraints optional 😉 I can be a great 'unwilling' patient if that's your style 😏 ~~ Needle play is most definitely an option too 😉 but if needles aren't your thing, they can stay safely away 🥰 needle play is most definitely something that requires trust and a deeper connection! ~~ 💙 CNC I love CNC... either within sex, in a dynamic, or combining CNC with medical play or other kinks, etc 😉 ~~ 💙 Other dymamics I love a dynamic where I can feel safe, looked after and reassured. Something a little more sensual than my usual play times above! If you can figure out what makes me melt, that's your secret weapon! 😂 I also love firm dominance... a gentle touch with a firm grip... ~~ And also, the day to day things - someone who I can turn to, talk to, get frustrated with, vent to, ask for cuddles, someone who'll lead, but put me in my place and keep me on track... letting me be the strong independent woman that I am. It's about knowing when to step back, and when to step up... I find confidence hot and attractive 👌🏻 But hey, if you'd rather not have the day to day chats and dynamic, that's cool too! We can just keep it pure kink 🤷🏻‍♀️ ~~ 💙 Bisexual/Couples While I would usually have identified as 'straight', I must admit I am bisexual. I have played with M/F couples on a number of occasions. If an individual female or a M/F couple came along, I'd certainly be curious and see where it leads... ~~ 💙 Curious? I'm really easy going. If you fancy a chat, just message! 🥰 (slow replies to start with though, don't be mad if it takes me 3 days to reply 🥺) ~~ ❤️ Please note: - I'm up for anything from casual meets and dynamics, to proper long term dynamics if it works between us! - I do have a wicked, devious dominant streak, but me switching happens on my terms... please don't ask me to dominate you, I'll decide if and when I switch 🙏🏻 - I do prefer slightly older men for various reasons (between 35-60 years old ish) - I can travel to a certain extent, but cannot host. - I'm looking for real life connections, not online play.

Female, UK-based, intelligent, independent, and looking for a genuine Female-Led Relationship with the right person. I am interested in a Level 3-4 FLR dynamic. For me, that means a relationship where the woman holds clear authority and leadership within the partnership, and where my guidance, decisions, and priorities are respected and valued. This will be a 24/7 dynamic both in and out of the bedroom. What that looks like for me: • I take a leading role in decision-making and setting the direction of the relationship. • The man actively supports my goals, happiness, and wellbeing. • Service, respect, accountability, and communication are central values. • Clear expectations and agreed standards are maintained. • Any potential financial responsibility, domestic contribution, and lifestyle decisions may be influenced by myself depending on compatibility and mutual agreement. • The dynamic is built on trust, honesty, consent, and mutual benefit. I expect a partner who understands that my needs, desires, and boundaries take precedence. Your role is to be attentive, responsive, and focused on my satisfaction. Chastity, orgasm denial, and the surrender of sexual control along with ***/*** and psychological Mindcraft, are all aspects that I enjoy exploring. You should be comfortable with the idea that access to sexual release is a privilege rather than an expectation, and that self-control, service, obedience are also rewarding in their own right. I value maturity, emotional intelligence, integrity, and genuine connection. I prefer a power exchange that is built on respect rather than ***. Outside of FLR, I enjoy cerebral conversation, laughter, and spending time with the people and ***s I love. If you are seeking a meaningful, long-term female-led dynamic and understand that true submission is demonstrated through actions, words and deeds, then introduce yourself.

I do have anxiety, especially when it comes to food. Eating out at restaurants is triggering for me, but working on it, and I hope I find someone who is patient with me and aids me in working on the confidence to go out to eat again! I love to game, a good variety of cozy and chaotic gameplay, I do stream on Twitch *** so if you wish to see more of my personality, feel free to check it out!

I’m pretty new to all this. Mostly submissive, but can be a domme in some circumstances (ask me). I’m on here to chat, make friends and meet people. Already owned by my Dom 😛

i have an attitude so dont text me unless you can handle that…😉 i like being eaten out, worshipped but ruined at the same time.. Im down to sext, tell me your dirtiest thought, no judgement x

Big ol dnd nerd and art student from wales. for me, at least Kink requires an emotional connection, so I'm not interested in a one night stand. I've limited experience, and I'm excited to explore:^)

window shopping and seeing what happens my DMs are spammed rn so please be patient ?? no subs, no one over 40, no faceless profiles, message me and ill just delete you x

A quick vanilla intro about me first — I’m the kind of person who’ll happily spend the day riding my motorbike too fast, gaming for hours, crocheting something ridiculous at 2am, or dragging you around a garden centre while pretending I absolutely know how plants work. I’m funny, caring, slightly chaotic, very affectionate, and always down for random errands, late night drives, stupid conversations, or just existing together. I can be shy about certain things at first, and parts of my upbringing are still a *** topic for me, so trust and emotional safety genuinely matter more to me than people probably expect. ~~ Kink-wise… I lean submissive naturally, but I do have a more dominant side occasionally if the chemistry is right. I’m drawn to confident people who can take control calmly rather than perform it loudly. I love power exchange, teasing, edging, orgasm control, restraints, impact play, scratching, choking, being manhandled, overstimulation, possessiveness, praise mixed with ***, hickeys/bruises, wax play, exhibitionism, and that mental side of kink where someone can completely get into your head in the best way. I adore tension, anticipation, playful bullying, being wound up intentionally, and someone who can keep me on my toes mentally as much as physically. The brat tendencies are absolutely there… but so is the desire to feel looked after afterwards. ~~ Things I’m curious about / open to with trust: CNC, medical play, knife play, somno, free use dynamics, electro play, DDLG dynamics, pet play, interrogation, sounding, watersports, breath play and a few other things depending on chemistry, trust and communication. I’m very much a “let’s discuss things properly first” type of person. ~~ What I’m actually looking for: Not a one night stand. I want chemistry, attraction, flirting, tension, good conversation, and eventually a dynamic/relationship where kink feels like part of the connection rather than the entire foundation of it. I like people who reply properly, communicate well, can banter without being weirdly aggressive, and actually want to spend time together outside of sex too. Give me someone I can laugh with, annoy intentionally, cuddle with afterwards, run errands with, and occasionally hand over control to completely. ~~ Hard no’s: Sc@t, incest play, MDLB, burning, anal fisting, pushiness, poor communication, and people who don’t understand consent or boundaries. Aftercare, communication, reassurance and mutual respect are important to me — kink is supposed to feel safe as well as exciting. ~~ Also — Fet absolutely hates my wifi for some reason and child locks the site half the time 🙃 so if replies are slow or I vanish temporarily, feel free to message me on Instagram: @_breadandbutt3r_ (underscores either side) Just maybe say where you found me first so I know you’ve seen all of this, that way I won’t be ambushing a random with all this chaos 😌 ~~ If you’ve read all this: Congratulations. You’re either genuinely interested or just incredibly nosey. Either way, message me properly. 🖤

I am sweet and innocent to everyone around me, I am the straight A student who studies maths, English literature, physics and psychology. I am actually 18 not 19, and I only like kinky shi if it comes to after care. I am very well read in ALL of BDSM as I read porn. However, I am a virgin who has not had her first kiss yet. I love playing little and being a spoiled little princess, and I need a daddy to put me in my place (if you can handle the challenge) xoxo littlemrsinnocent

I have a submissive man, and I need help and tips on how to dominate him well…. I want to keep things interesting. From the messages I’ve been getting so far it seems we do a lot already, nothing has overly inspired me, yet!