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I am a primal masochistic semi bratty (all for fun) submissive and I am now taking applications for vetting stages of a dominant. I enjoy impact play, wax play, primal play as my main kinks. I am looking to expand into exploring Shibari and suspension so if you are a rigger and interested please message me. I've been on the scene for quite a while now, I own my own wax play business which is growing day by day. Please see my hard limits for what they are and any questions please ask. if you are under 31 please don't message me, I am not looking for a toy boy and honestly I just find it ick.
Female (46) Blandford Forum, Dorset
I'm looking for a long term relationship The guy has be older then me, I'm not interested in people younger then me, just a personal preference So I like to be Spanked Tied up Someone to control when I can and can't cum Having someone leave there mark on me Being ***d (CNC) I had some experience of most things but not all I'm quite open to try new things as well. No I don't want dick pics, no I don't want to talk to you if you live in a different country as that's not what I'm looking for
Female (29) Bournemouth, Dorset
Looking for those who are serious about foot pics, or other body parts. Video calls, phone sex, ***, ***s and sugar daddies. NSA meets. Looking for friends and have a particular thing for the older gentlemen
Female (49) Bournemouth, Dorset
**Desires and Fantasies** To find an experienced Dom or Switch who can help me explore my limits. I would like to meet someone who is caring, with a good sense of humour. Full disclosure, I have a bratty side at times. I also want to be hunted/ engage in more primal aspects of play, I find these extremely appealing.
Female (45) Bournemouth, Dorset
5'2 chubby. Currly hair, blue eyes. DD/E. I'm a kinky sub, always willing to try things once with in reason. I am a bit camera shy due to some live events
Female (29) Poole, Dorset
I'm a 5ft 1, 9 stone, one boobed goddess ;) primarily looking for female play partners to explore my bi side with. I'm experienced in some areas of kink. I love rope and soft impact play, fetishwear mostly . I enjoy dressing up n taking pics, but im definitely not an exhibitionist. connection, chemistry and attraction are paramount. oh and did I mention I LOVE to kiss mmm. no time wasters, catfishers, ghosters or scammers please! if you can't verify with me then don't even try connecting. I'm here to enjoy, have some fun and explore. I'm not looking for hook ups, ide prefer longer term play partners, people I can grow and explore with. im not a dom or mistress im a goddess (its all about the energy) husband knows I'm here exploring women. DO NOT message me if you just want wank fodder im not interested!
Female (56) Dorchester, Dorset
here for a real relationship something genuine and long lasting something which says " you are mine forever" plus i love my feet being in different scenarios such as a hospital. what would u do to such ticklish tender *** feet like mine in your work place. but yh looking to settle down and marry
Female (27) Poole, Dorset
Here with my partner, open to meeting a man who likes a couple dynamic where the focus stays on me. Drinks first, see the spark. During One on one hookups, videos of hookups are appreciated 😁If we vibe over message I’ll explain more ❤️
Female (27) Christchurch, Dorset
daddy’s good girl. happily taken!! bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle. although im submissive that doesn’t mean ill submit to anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. i answer to my dom (:
Female (23) Bournemouth, Dorset
Hi there ☺️ I’m a sub with a cheeky/bratty side. I’ve known for as long as I can remember that I was submissive and interested in kink. Dabbled in BDSM in previous relationships, but always found that it didn’t quite hit the mark. I need someone who enjoys it just as much as I do rather than just doing it for me. Perhaps you other kinksters understand what I mean. I’m quite tall at 5ft11, into my sports (can more than hold my own in a conversation about football ⚽️) and love to socialise. Quite a big personality and like to be the life and soul of a party… maybe that’s why I enjoy being put back in my place so much? xx
Female (34) Bournemouth, Dorset
Neurodivergent - soft heart, curious mind, learning life (and kink) in my own way. ✨ I’m brand new to all of this and taking things slowly and intentionally. For now, I’m looking for something fun and/or digital while we build trust and get to know each other. If the connection feels right, I’d love to grow that into a deeper, long-term dynamic over time. Very monogamous — I’m an “all yours” type and expect the same. I don’t share. I’ve been intentionally abstinent for the past six years and am just now easing back into talking to men — so patience, emotional safety, and kindness mean a lot to me.🤍
Female (25) Bournemouth, Dorset
Dominant yet always a lady I’m a bbw Also on fetlife - feel free to ask for my name or send me yours. Currently have fwb and prefer ethical non monogamy. Looking for friends , fwb, ,community and connections.
Female (47) Bournemouth, Dorset
owned. slave to a master. will add more later.
Female (34) Poole, Dorset
⚠️any right off the bat, non consental behaviour, generally just being gross or asking for hook ups begging will be deleted. if your still small brain about this, watch this video c: very helpful https://youtu.be/pZwvrxVavnQ?feature=shared ⚠️ - - - - heyo I'm Maria 🌸 came here to re enter the coumminty as I have missed it. generally love the gear this space has to offer and have a major interest in it, non turn on interest as well. I'm wanting to meet people and basically go back slowly into the coumminty and share intrests and make pals for now. I'm not looking for instant hook ups or play, lowkey that ain't safe. - - also just to note I'm on the spectrum - - - how I was introduced to this coumminty was from a friend in my ***s and they brought me into their group and the coumminty it's self. they taught me alot of things as well as safety. at the time I didn't want to do intimate scenes but did do soft scenes and had a owner/pet dymanic. ironically enough the people I was close with were big on gear, mainly gimp laytex or uniform wear and their interests were definitely alot more on the darker/risky side but tbh I find people who are, are the kindest and caring, as well as genuine. so I do have intrests within that aera as well though pls note, just cause I know these scenes and have interests in them, dosent mean I'm heavily experienced, I was just with people who were. - - - I won't say all of them, as tbh easier to say what I don't like but I do have intrests in breathing restriction/ pressure play/ edging/ pet play, rest on that BDSM test thing and other intrests, your gonna have to ask - - - -
Female (27) Bournemouth, Dorset
✨I am not looking for a dynamic or relationship- I am here to chat and see where it goes. ✨ Switch but on the more submissive side. Will domme for the right person BBW, MILF. Im a bit weird and a bit neurospicy Love breath play, bondage, anal, spit, watersports, edging, period play, orgasm control, denial. ***d orgasms, primal. Face fucking, spanking, ***, praise, pegging, foot worship, breeding.
Female (32) Bournemouth, Dorset
names Jessie, new to all of this not sure what I want right now, just come out of a long relationship looking for the next best thing :)
Female (28) Bournemouth, Dorset
I want my fantasies turned into reality I love to be tied and gagged especially outside in nature I would love more rope experience I don’t want multiple meets. I want someone I can trust and feel comfortable with that’s a regular thing. Then who knows what the future may bring. I’m mainly free during the week so looking for someone who would like to come of a mini adventure with me. Outside of kink: I am a mermaid who spends most of the time in the sea and at the beach. i love the forest, fossil hunting, skinny dipping and exploring too. It would be nice to find someone who loves the outdoors and would want to adventure with me. So even if we don’t connect on a sexual level then I’m still happy to make friends I am on most social media platforms with same name nik_by_the_sea If you like swimwear 🤭 Sorry I have filtered DMs by distance as I would prefer physical meet ups
Female (40) Bournemouth, Dorset
Fet life account BrattyxPup (make sure to use caps) mainly active there/uncensored ⚜️ ⚜️ Genuine interests: Horror ☠ Drawing/crafts 🎨 Monster designs/ocs 🕷 Medieval buildings ⛪ Game design/coding 🖥 Rural towns 🌾 Off path nature exploring 🌲 Drumming 🥁 Strength training 💪 Plant keeping 🪴 Old cars/4x4s 🚙 Dark romance novels 🕊 ⚜️ Just to be aware: Autism 🎭 Inattentive ADHD 🥀 Deslixa 📜 Hypotension 🩸 Motor issues Prolonged head *** 🧠⚡ C-PTSD 🦈 ⚜️ Some interests in kink: Pressure play 🪨 (both) Withstraints 🗝 (both/ify about rope) Breathing control 🤿 (both) Marking 🖌 (both) *** 💥 (mostly giving/only enjoy heavy impact/dull) Trampling 🥾 (both) Wrestling Pup play 🦴 (both) All things kink wear 🐈 (both) Deprivation 🌑 (both) ⚜️ Important to know: Demisexual 🔒 No interest in hook ups/short term Pls do not expect anything from me if you have strong intentions ⛓💥 Only partake in play/intimacy/non sexual or sexual kink if I'm mutually bonded with a person, this will take a long time ⚠ Extremely rusty with skill due to my last experiences being years ago ⌛ Not open to being a Dom for now, it's alot of responsibility/skill to be one, that title is earned 🫂 ⚜️ Open to: Mainly looking for connections and friendship ✨ Dynamics (most experience in pet-owner/ master-slave) 📋 Play partners 💕 ❌Pls remember important to know info❌
Female (27) Bournemouth, Dorset
Curious mind, mischievous streak, and a soft spot for good conversation that turns a little wicked. I lean switch and connect most with people who value communication, consent, and chemistry over checklists. Into the dance of power, the art of teasing, and that delicious moment where trust clicks into place. If you’re respectful, self-aware, and know how to use your words, we’ll get along just fine.
Female (23) Bournemouth, Dorset
plus size and never been in a relationship but always been interested in kink and is very knowledgeable about it! wanna be in a relationship before anything happens
Fed up of vanilla life, looking for some fun, not to be owned. Enjoy being used and ***d, filmed, humiliated. Anything goes, any hole is ready for the taking. Any fantasy you'd like to try, no matter how weird or dirty it is I'm game. A limitless whore! A big fantasy of mine is to hook up with a random stranger, just meet off the streets, in the park or the woods. Maybe even break into my house...
Female (39) West Moors, Dorset

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Looking for those who are serious about foot pics, or other body parts. Video calls, phone sex, ***, ***s and sugar daddies. NSA meets. Looking for friends and have a particular thing for the older gentlemen
Female (49) Bournemouth, Dorset
5'2 chubby. Currly hair, blue eyes. DD/E. I'm a kinky sub, always willing to try things once with in reason. I am a bit camera shy due to some live events
Female (29) Poole, Dorset
I am a primal masochistic semi bratty (all for fun) submissive and I am now taking applications for vetting stages of a dominant. I enjoy impact play, wax play, primal play as my main kinks. I am looking to expand into exploring Shibari and suspension so if you are a rigger and interested please message me. I've been on the scene for quite a while now, I own my own wax play business which is growing day by day. Please see my hard limits for what they are and any questions please ask. if you are under 31 please don't message me, I am not looking for a toy boy and honestly I just find it ick.
Female (46) Blandford Forum, Dorset
**Desires and Fantasies** To find an experienced Dom or Switch who can help me explore my limits. I would like to meet someone who is caring, with a good sense of humour. Full disclosure, I have a bratty side at times. I also want to be hunted/ engage in more primal aspects of play, I find these extremely appealing.
Female (45) Bournemouth, Dorset
I'm looking for a long term relationship The guy has be older then me, I'm not interested in people younger then me, just a personal preference So I like to be Spanked Tied up Someone to control when I can and can't cum Having someone leave there mark on me Being ***d (CNC) I had some experience of most things but not all I'm quite open to try new things as well. No I don't want dick pics, no I don't want to talk to you if you live in a different country as that's not what I'm looking for
Female (29) Bournemouth, Dorset
I'm a 5ft 1, 9 stone, one boobed goddess ;) primarily looking for female play partners to explore my bi side with. I'm experienced in some areas of kink. I love rope and soft impact play, fetishwear mostly . I enjoy dressing up n taking pics, but im definitely not an exhibitionist. connection, chemistry and attraction are paramount. oh and did I mention I LOVE to kiss mmm. no time wasters, catfishers, ghosters or scammers please! if you can't verify with me then don't even try connecting. I'm here to enjoy, have some fun and explore. I'm not looking for hook ups, ide prefer longer term play partners, people I can grow and explore with. im not a dom or mistress im a goddess (its all about the energy) husband knows I'm here exploring women. DO NOT message me if you just want wank fodder im not interested!
Female (56) Dorchester, Dorset
Fed up of vanilla life, looking for some fun, not to be owned. Enjoy being used and ***d, filmed, humiliated. Anything goes, any hole is ready for the taking. Any fantasy you'd like to try, no matter how weird or dirty it is I'm game. A limitless whore! A big fantasy of mine is to hook up with a random stranger, just meet off the streets, in the park or the woods. Maybe even break into my house...
Female (39) West Moors, Dorset
Here with my partner, open to meeting a man who likes a couple dynamic where the focus stays on me. Drinks first, see the spark. During One on one hookups, videos of hookups are appreciated 😁If we vibe over message I’ll explain more ❤️
Female (27) Christchurch, Dorset
Curious mind, mischievous streak, and a soft spot for good conversation that turns a little wicked. I lean switch and connect most with people who value communication, consent, and chemistry over checklists. Into the dance of power, the art of teasing, and that delicious moment where trust clicks into place. If you’re respectful, self-aware, and know how to use your words, we’ll get along just fine.
Female (23) Bournemouth, Dorset
I want my fantasies turned into reality I love to be tied and gagged especially outside in nature I would love more rope experience I don’t want multiple meets. I want someone I can trust and feel comfortable with that’s a regular thing. Then who knows what the future may bring. I’m mainly free during the week so looking for someone who would like to come of a mini adventure with me. Outside of kink: I am a mermaid who spends most of the time in the sea and at the beach. i love the forest, fossil hunting, skinny dipping and exploring too. It would be nice to find someone who loves the outdoors and would want to adventure with me. So even if we don’t connect on a sexual level then I’m still happy to make friends I am on most social media platforms with same name nik_by_the_sea If you like swimwear 🤭 Sorry I have filtered DMs by distance as I would prefer physical meet ups
Female (40) Bournemouth, Dorset
Fet life account BrattyxPup (make sure to use caps) mainly active there/uncensored ⚜️ ⚜️ Genuine interests: Horror ☠ Drawing/crafts 🎨 Monster designs/ocs 🕷 Medieval buildings ⛪ Game design/coding 🖥 Rural towns 🌾 Off path nature exploring 🌲 Drumming 🥁 Strength training 💪 Plant keeping 🪴 Old cars/4x4s 🚙 Dark romance novels 🕊 ⚜️ Just to be aware: Autism 🎭 Inattentive ADHD 🥀 Deslixa 📜 Hypotension 🩸 Motor issues Prolonged head *** 🧠⚡ C-PTSD 🦈 ⚜️ Some interests in kink: Pressure play 🪨 (both) Withstraints 🗝 (both/ify about rope) Breathing control 🤿 (both) Marking 🖌 (both) *** 💥 (mostly giving/only enjoy heavy impact/dull) Trampling 🥾 (both) Wrestling Pup play 🦴 (both) All things kink wear 🐈 (both) Deprivation 🌑 (both) ⚜️ Important to know: Demisexual 🔒 No interest in hook ups/short term Pls do not expect anything from me if you have strong intentions ⛓💥 Only partake in play/intimacy/non sexual or sexual kink if I'm mutually bonded with a person, this will take a long time ⚠ Extremely rusty with skill due to my last experiences being years ago ⌛ Not open to being a Dom for now, it's alot of responsibility/skill to be one, that title is earned 🫂 ⚜️ Open to: Mainly looking for connections and friendship ✨ Dynamics (most experience in pet-owner/ master-slave) 📋 Play partners 💕 ❌Pls remember important to know info❌
Female (27) Bournemouth, Dorset
Neurodivergent - soft heart, curious mind, learning life (and kink) in my own way. ✨ I’m brand new to all of this and taking things slowly and intentionally. For now, I’m looking for something fun and/or digital while we build trust and get to know each other. If the connection feels right, I’d love to grow that into a deeper, long-term dynamic over time. Very monogamous — I’m an “all yours” type and expect the same. I don’t share. I’ve been intentionally abstinent for the past six years and am just now easing back into talking to men — so patience, emotional safety, and kindness mean a lot to me.🤍
Female (25) Bournemouth, Dorset
⚠️any right off the bat, non consental behaviour, generally just being gross or asking for hook ups begging will be deleted. if your still small brain about this, watch this video c: very helpful https://youtu.be/pZwvrxVavnQ?feature=shared ⚠️ - - - - heyo I'm Maria 🌸 came here to re enter the coumminty as I have missed it. generally love the gear this space has to offer and have a major interest in it, non turn on interest as well. I'm wanting to meet people and basically go back slowly into the coumminty and share intrests and make pals for now. I'm not looking for instant hook ups or play, lowkey that ain't safe. - - also just to note I'm on the spectrum - - - how I was introduced to this coumminty was from a friend in my ***s and they brought me into their group and the coumminty it's self. they taught me alot of things as well as safety. at the time I didn't want to do intimate scenes but did do soft scenes and had a owner/pet dymanic. ironically enough the people I was close with were big on gear, mainly gimp laytex or uniform wear and their interests were definitely alot more on the darker/risky side but tbh I find people who are, are the kindest and caring, as well as genuine. so I do have intrests within that aera as well though pls note, just cause I know these scenes and have interests in them, dosent mean I'm heavily experienced, I was just with people who were. - - - I won't say all of them, as tbh easier to say what I don't like but I do have intrests in breathing restriction/ pressure play/ edging/ pet play, rest on that BDSM test thing and other intrests, your gonna have to ask - - - -
Female (27) Bournemouth, Dorset
plus size and never been in a relationship but always been interested in kink and is very knowledgeable about it! wanna be in a relationship before anything happens
Dominant yet always a lady I’m a bbw Also on fetlife - feel free to ask for my name or send me yours. Currently have fwb and prefer ethical non monogamy. Looking for friends , fwb, ,community and connections.
Female (47) Bournemouth, Dorset
here for a real relationship something genuine and long lasting something which says " you are mine forever" plus i love my feet being in different scenarios such as a hospital. what would u do to such ticklish tender *** feet like mine in your work place. but yh looking to settle down and marry
Female (27) Poole, Dorset
owned. slave to a master. will add more later.
Female (34) Poole, Dorset
✨I am not looking for a dynamic or relationship- I am here to chat and see where it goes. ✨ Switch but on the more submissive side. Will domme for the right person BBW, MILF. Im a bit weird and a bit neurospicy Love breath play, bondage, anal, spit, watersports, edging, period play, orgasm control, denial. ***d orgasms, primal. Face fucking, spanking, ***, praise, pegging, foot worship, breeding.
Female (32) Bournemouth, Dorset
daddy’s good girl. happily taken!! bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle. although im submissive that doesn’t mean ill submit to anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. i answer to my dom (:
Female (23) Bournemouth, Dorset
names Jessie, new to all of this not sure what I want right now, just come out of a long relationship looking for the next best thing :)
Female (28) Bournemouth, Dorset
Hi there ☺️ I’m a sub with a cheeky/bratty side. I’ve known for as long as I can remember that I was submissive and interested in kink. Dabbled in BDSM in previous relationships, but always found that it didn’t quite hit the mark. I need someone who enjoys it just as much as I do rather than just doing it for me. Perhaps you other kinksters understand what I mean. I’m quite tall at 5ft11, into my sports (can more than hold my own in a conversation about football ⚽️) and love to socialise. Quite a big personality and like to be the life and soul of a party… maybe that’s why I enjoy being put back in my place so much? xx
Female (34) Bournemouth, Dorset

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