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Nothing is better than being on a drive with someone special and taking in the sun as we cruise on down to someplace fun or relaxing. Would love to have some decent conversations with a passenger princess!
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 60 years · 80 km
I’m a naturally submissive guy based in South London, looking to meet a confident, dominant woman who enjoys leading and having a man who genuinely wants to please her.
I’m quite laid-back, affectionate and eager to learn. I’m drawn to a woman who knows what she wants, enjoys taking the initiative, and likes the idea of a man who is happy to let her take the lead.
NSA · 18 - 35 years · 80 km
Would you like to be handcuffed and let me arrest you 😉
Kinky Date · 20 - 80 years · 175 km
Easy going, subby and most of all slutty please 🫡
Kinky Date · 18 - 40 years · 105 km
The former will receive all the praise and affection that they deserve for their performance, the latter will also get what they deserve 😈
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 32 years · 95 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋
NSA · 5 km
Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits
NSA · 18 - 25 years · 50 km
Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off.
Looking to explore with an open minded person.
Kinky Date · 18 - 28 years · 70 km
Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Im looking for like minded people
NSA · 18 - 80 years
What’s going on tonight
Anything funn
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

tell me what to do. I will happily let you tell me what to do, I will video it and send it to you.
Dom/me Session · 19 - 45 years · 5 km

My favorite kinky obsession is to belong to a Lady who can control my orgasm, tease and play with my nipples, my body, educate me to a sweet and soft discipline and have fun with me in doing this whenever she wants.
I don't like hard BDSM and body ***s.
Please Madame, if you think we can start having a simple chat and then thinking about to play in a relationship, I eager to read your message, my pleasure is to belong to you as a sweet Sub.
BDSM Play Partner · 40 - 75 years · 25 km
Anyone open minded and feeling kinky ? Love 1-2-1 and group meets , love to indulge in some kinks with genuine people
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Some times I just want to get pegged
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
Who’s free around London tonight someone who smokes aswell 😉
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I am new to this community and don’t know anyone else. I would love to meet people I could go to events with.
Munch Buddy · 18 - 28 years · 80 km
Looking for a dominant woman who wants more than just kink but also a vanilla relationship.
Would love to go into more details with anyone who is interested.
Kinky Date · 22 - 26 years · 65 km
I‘m looking for casual hookups. If anyone is interested let me know :)
Kinky Date · 18 - 50 years · 50 km

Hello Gentlemen,
I know I look like a Domme and I am in a professional sense. I’m also a foot model in the Foot Fetish world. My pics are to give you a sense of who I am.
On this site, I’m Not looking for a full time sub!
I’m not looking for a full time anything!
I’m looking for a play partner that we can have a regular meet up for some kinky fun that we both agree on. Ideally you should be aged 25-35, attractive, look after yourself, physically, mentally and be able to hold a conversation. I’m also a Sapiosexual, so I need to be attracted to your mind. Don’t ask for a free professional service… that’s a hard No!
Enjoy your day x
Kinky Date · 25 - 35 years · 200 km
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