bondage buddy
looking for a female bondage buddy around essex area ,can travel or accomadate nice friendly guy business owner so plenty off time for bondage fun ... . hopefully .got plenty off rope and other bits and bobs ,
Kinky Dating18 to 60 years ● 50km around UK, Chelmsford 11 hours ago
A very submissive girl who is interested in new experiences. Currently in a relationship so not looking for anything serious on here. I would like to see what else is out there besides the “norm” and maybe act out on some of the things I’m into;).
Kinky Dating25 to 50 years ● 50km around UK, Thurrock 5 days ago
On a mission to satisy and be satisfied.
Looking for open minded females to play with or to develop relationship with. Exploration and desire to experiment as we discover our true kinks is desired. I am new to the 'official' scene but have been interested in kinks and BDSM for as long as I can remember. Looking to have dates, meet ups and attend events with a partner./playmate.
Kinky Dating500km around UK, Colchester one week ago
Straight man giving into urges. First timer
Virgine to men . Long relation family man treated shit by girls ready to give into urges I had when I was a teen . I used to shag toys and want to be dominated by a group of men rough and swallow loads of cum and leave with sore bum for one night .never tried but want the full whack in front of a crowd . I have always been the strong man I want a night being abused and thrown around the group obeying my dominators and slapped and humiliated like a bitch . I've been dreaming for a while being fucked dirty like my ass and mouth is pussy
Kinky Dating18 to 60 years ● 5km around UK, Thurrock 2 weeks ago
WLTM Dominas for Real Time Meets
I am an experienced sub and would like to form friendships and D/s friendships with kinksters in Essex and London. I have an interest in real time play with dominas with cruel fantasies. I enjoy slavery and masochism scenarios and would like to expand my exposure to degradation. Im respectful and safe. People and personality interest me more than anything.
Kinky Dating28 to 50 years ● 50km around UK, Epping Forest one month ago
Dom here
Looking for a sub to do what I want when I want looking to fully Dom someone and have them as my little pet for my own use and enjoyment don't mind sexting or meeting and having fun so try me sexy see you soon
Kinky Dating18 to 25 years ● 5km around UK, Ilford 2 months ago
Seeking little
Looking for a little for ltr. Including both sexual and non sexual activities. Preferably local to me, but I do enjoy a good raid trip with some good music. Lol I can be firm and dominant when needed but tend to be much more of a loving daddy than anything else. Does this sound like you? There's no harm in talking and seeing what happens..... :)
Kinky Dating22 to 36 years ● 50km around UK, Southend-on-Sea 2 months ago
Want to play
Hi, new to this scene...looking to meet people in it and explore. Very much into mutual satisfaction, and keen to explore new things. Definitely looking to meet in real life, not just endlessly exchange messages on here. Of you're interested, send me a message, maybe start with what your biggest turn on is ;)
Kinky Dating20 to 40 years ● 50km around UK, Chelmsford 2 months ago
Babygirl looking for her Daddy Dom
What am I looking for? This is what I get asked a lot. So here’s an inkling of what I want. I don’t want a play partner. For me mentally this type of relationship is no good. I need commitment, communication and attention. I can be bratty but I’m hardly ever bratty to the One person who has control over me. I’m not a punishment slut. The worse punishment for me is being ignored and when I am ignored my anxiety goes into overdrive. I have little tendencies. I love stuffies, colouring, hiding behind the One at strange places and cling to them in crowded places. I can be shy and blush a lot. Going to build a bear is a must :D. I also like some rules and bed time. I don’t like decision making. I like to be told I’m a good girl and being rewarded. I’m still discovering my kinks and limits. I’m not big on intercourse, if I do doggy is my best position. I’m currently in the middle of training myself for butt plugs and anal. I’ve done anal once with someone. The one thing that needs to be remembered is that I am a carer for my mum so patience is needed.
Kinky Dating34 to 50 years ● 10km around UK, Thurrock 2 months ago
Essex Guy :)
Hi - I'm a 50+ yr old Essex guy looking for some kinky fun. Switch, nothing madly extreme, NSA is fine but ideally looking for a long term thing. 5ft6, Fit, active and adventurous. Married so need to be discreet
Kinky Dating20 to 50 years ● 50km around UK, Braintree 3 months ago
Experimenting in Essex
I'm a fit, active guy in his early 50's looking to experiment. 5ft 6, slim (11stone), just an average kinda guy to look at. I'm primarily looking for an understanding Lady who can learn with me for hopefully regular meetings during the week/day but I'm a realist so tea/coffee (and cake!) are the first step :) I'm an open minded switch , never been with a guy but love it when the Lady takes control, particularly if she wants the tables turned later. Scat is not something I would do or want to watch neither is "real" pain. Although I'm upfront I also have manners and am a bit shy at first and am also a realist so expect nothing more than politeness in the first instance. And just for the sake of transparency, I am married so discretion is essential. Please don't judge, just move on if that upsets you x.
Kinky Dating18 to 50 years ● 25km around UK, Braintree 3 months ago
Essex/southend/ looking to explore
Male 22 here looking for someone to experiment with, I like the idea of watersports and just to experiment and explore my fetishes and kinks thanks....................................................
Kinky Dating18 to 40 years ● 10km around UK, Southend-on-Sea 3 months ago
Sub guy
Hi all I’m a submissive guy looking for a Dominant guy of Master to use or train me. Also like 3sums and group fun. I’m very much into being restrained or tied up, I’m very hungry to learn. Essex, Kent, Suffolk areas if possible please
Kinky Dating40 to 70 years ● 50km around UK, Southend-on-Sea 4 months ago
40yr +/- woman wanted ideally dom/sub fwb-relation
Im Eddie. 30, stocky, bit chubby. Shaved head, 6ft tall. Looking for a gorjus Lady.. mature Preffered.. Im caring, loving, affectionate, very intimate. Passionate lover. My 3 Passions.. Women/My woman, sex with her.. and food.. Naked curvy lady in kitchen wearing just an apron sends me Skitso lol. i love sex, my ex, 48, was turned off by sight of my hard Mauritian cock... Im dominant but love going from 'chilled, let nature take its course n get the fire burning... ' to drinks and partying session, clean and dirty, dom/sub, tied, blindfold, spank, roleplay, dark room scenarios... EVERYTHING but scat and blood. im self employed, work, but can party in the click of your bra baby lol got ma fingers in piles of pies..xx
Kinky Dating18 to 80 years ● 200km around UK, Chelmsford 4 months ago
Looking for dom top
Ginger sub guy looking for a dom top guy to help me explore kink and expand (and push) my limits. I'm only looking for discrete and safe play but I'm very open minded, don't shock easily, and I'm very willing (and gagging) to do as I'm told ;) Love edging and long, drawn out wanks. Love cum all over me, and really want to explore more.
Kinky Dating25 to 60 years ● 50km around UK, Romford 4 months ago
Looking for a Dom/Domme
Very Bi curious sub seeks anyone who can put me in my place! Main interests are pegging, piss play, cum play and restraints! But I have many many interests, so all you vac bed owners get at me! ;)
Kinky Dating100km around UK, Southend-on-Sea 3 months ago
Looking for owner
I am a Submissive obedient guy looking for an owner to play with me, I love sucking cock, being tied up, rough sex/force fucked, preferably long-term and/or live with, also enjoy being milked and spanked
Kinky Dating30 to 50 years ● 75km around UK, Harlow 4 months ago
Female sub/slave/little/doll wanted
Ok looking, muscly body, decent job, own house, late 30s male requires possibly live in younger female slave/sub/little/doll for long term relationship or just a weekend of fun. Want to try new things with the right girl.
Kinky Dating18 to 35 years UK, Woodford Green one month ago
Looking to explore my submissive side. I am Adventurous and obedient. Looking for a man to dominate and enjoy me. Looking forward to exploring each other and our fantasy’s. —————————————————————————-
Kinky Dating30 to 45 years ● 25km around UK, Braintree 5 months ago

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