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If you want to kneel at my feet smiling as I make your face drip with *** send me a message. Bonus points if I can make your clothes wet in a public park
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 80 km
Male sub looking to serve a goddess, particularly in the realm of skat…happy to discuss further for anyone interested
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 195 km
London-based, curious, and craving connection—I’m looking for a creative, confident woman to help me explore the world of kink and BDSM. Think of it as mentorship with a spark: playful, intelligent, and just the right amount of wicked. Intrigued?
BDSM Play Partner · 47 - 66 years · 85 km
I’m looking for fun
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 25 km
I want to find my master looking for someone to make me their slave I’m curious about all kinks I’m good for pegging and other needs I will serve my dom like no other, if you couldn’t tell I’m very horny all the time
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 45 km

Looking for a female partner for NSA fun, I cant accommodate but i can drive, lots of toys and very experienced, my speciality is after care!
BDSM Play Partner · 25 - 40 years · 50 km
I’m looking for my feeder to let me worship them and be their slave. To humiliate me.
Must be Kent or London based - just dm x
BDSM Play Partner · 19 - 64 years · 115 km
Bull in need of breeding and potential suckling anr partner
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for a filthy little slut…got so many kinks and some dark taboo ones as well. Just want someone to explore with and get really filthy 🥵🥵🤫🤫
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for a female dom who i can serve and be used by and being made to beg for mercy by them
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 54 years · 80 km
Newbie looking for a helping hand
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Dom dad
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for a nice dad to have his way with me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Anyone willing to be my slave and have a good time, lots of respect, play chats and kinky fun
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 60 years · 45 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km
I want to meet very dominant women in London area
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 10 km
Looking to have fun. Explore and experiment, sub dom I love it all
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Wanna be someone's play toy for them to use and *** me I'm very submissive and obedient and wanna serve a dominant queen
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 50 km
Came out of a long term and vanilla relationship a few months ago, so am just looking for some fun and adventure for now.
Always felt like more of a sub but have never been able to express it much. Would ideally like to find someone that takes control and shows me what they want from me.
Open to trying a lot of kinks so let me know what you find hot.
6’2, athletic slim, clean and trimmed. DMs are open if you have any questions :)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 40 km

Looking for a gay guy to come and look after me change my nappies and feed me and care and play and role play I am the age of 1 to 2 toddler if your interested we can have more fun
BDSM Play Partner · 19 - 45 years · 5 km
Dominatrix who likes to inflict *** on a dirty old man
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 180 km
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