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currently separated from my husband. Still living together till I find a place. looking for further experiences in bondage and bratting
Female (38) Alton, Hampshire
I joined Fetish for kinky conversation and to meet like-minded people. I am seeking friendship only, but I love it when you like my photos. I am submissive and a bit of a brat that my Dom Sir Green who enjoys binding and taming me. # **What I like about BDSM** The main thing I love about BDSM is giving over full power and control. I have a strong personality so when I submit, it is a gift I am giving to my partner. For me, submission shouldn’t be beaten into me. Submission is given willingly which is the ultimate power exchange. In the process, I am able to give all decisions over so that the hard work of being a leader at work can fade away into a simpler headspace. # **Things I enjoy** **Collaring** - I am collared by Sir Green and enjoy wearing my collar to represent his control over me. **Discipline** - I like being set tasks but sometimes life gets too busy for me to find time to do too many tasks, so flexibility is important to me. **Multiple Orgasms** - this is one of my favourite things. Each one more powerful than the last, until I go into an amazing mental headspace. **Rope / Suspension** - absolute yes for me. Love ropework and generally love restraints. Love the hug of rope and the pressure on my body. Love being suspended. **Age play** - for me I age down to 15. I like feeling old enough to be opinionated but also young enough to need looking after. I also like the idea of sex whilst being just under the age threshold and considered a minor in my mind. **Sensory Deprivation** - I love being blindfolded. But not so keen on loss of sound though. **Heat / Wax Play** - love the use of hot rocks and heated metal in play. Wax play is also enjoyable as long as it’s not scolding. **Fantasies** - love being the vulnerable person being taken advantage of. # **Things that are ok but not in my list above:** **Pet Play** - whilst I tend to meow occasionally and act cat-like, it’s not a sexual kink. But I do find it fun to snuggle and be stroked. **Flogging / Impact Play** - I’m ok with some impact play but due to suffering from chronic pain, my desire for more pain isn’t there. **Edge Play** - is ok sometimes, but my nervous system gets confused and sometimes the final orgasm isn’t as good as multiple orgasms. **Cold / Ice Play** - Ice play has its place in the heat of summer but I generally prefer heat play. **CNC** - whilst my fantasies are to be vulnerable and taken advantage of, this is in a persuasive way where a superior or guardian suggests sexual acts and persuades by showing that even though it’s wrong it can feel good. CNC on the other hand is to take without persuasion in a forceful way, which doesn’t work well with my need to feel good enough to want someone to bend the rules with e.g. teacher/student or doctor/patient, to want to risk their reputation with me. # **No’s for me:** **Orgasm Denial / Control** - hate not being able to orgasm. Orgasms override my chronic pain and for me, orgasms are too good to be denied. **Face slapping** - I hate being slapped, especially on the face. **Anal** - whilst butt plugs are ok, I don’t like anal sex. It just hurts and I get no pleasure from it. **Knife Play** - definitely a no for me. Had this done once and I freaked out and called RED. My anxiety kicked in and I just started crying. The whole evening had to stop because I wasn’t happy. So, it’s a major no. **Piss, Shit and Blood Play** – they are just not my thing. # **My BDSM Score:** 100% Rope Bunny 96% Middle 80% Voyeur 70% Submissive 69% Brat 60% Primal (Prey) 58% Non-monogamist 55% Pet Kitty 50% Exhibitionist 47% Experimentalist 44% Vanilla 36% Slave 25% Masochist 5% Degradee
Female (43) Alton, Hampshire

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currently separated from my husband. Still living together till I find a place. looking for further experiences in bondage and bratting
Female (38) Alton, Hampshire
I joined Fetish for kinky conversation and to meet like-minded people. I am seeking friendship only, but I love it when you like my photos. I am submissive and a bit of a brat that my Dom Sir Green who enjoys binding and taming me. # **What I like about BDSM** The main thing I love about BDSM is giving over full power and control. I have a strong personality so when I submit, it is a gift I am giving to my partner. For me, submission shouldn’t be beaten into me. Submission is given willingly which is the ultimate power exchange. In the process, I am able to give all decisions over so that the hard work of being a leader at work can fade away into a simpler headspace. # **Things I enjoy** **Collaring** - I am collared by Sir Green and enjoy wearing my collar to represent his control over me. **Discipline** - I like being set tasks but sometimes life gets too busy for me to find time to do too many tasks, so flexibility is important to me. **Multiple Orgasms** - this is one of my favourite things. Each one more powerful than the last, until I go into an amazing mental headspace. **Rope / Suspension** - absolute yes for me. Love ropework and generally love restraints. Love the hug of rope and the pressure on my body. Love being suspended. **Age play** - for me I age down to 15. I like feeling old enough to be opinionated but also young enough to need looking after. I also like the idea of sex whilst being just under the age threshold and considered a minor in my mind. **Sensory Deprivation** - I love being blindfolded. But not so keen on loss of sound though. **Heat / Wax Play** - love the use of hot rocks and heated metal in play. Wax play is also enjoyable as long as it’s not scolding. **Fantasies** - love being the vulnerable person being taken advantage of. # **Things that are ok but not in my list above:** **Pet Play** - whilst I tend to meow occasionally and act cat-like, it’s not a sexual kink. But I do find it fun to snuggle and be stroked. **Flogging / Impact Play** - I’m ok with some impact play but due to suffering from chronic pain, my desire for more pain isn’t there. **Edge Play** - is ok sometimes, but my nervous system gets confused and sometimes the final orgasm isn’t as good as multiple orgasms. **Cold / Ice Play** - Ice play has its place in the heat of summer but I generally prefer heat play. **CNC** - whilst my fantasies are to be vulnerable and taken advantage of, this is in a persuasive way where a superior or guardian suggests sexual acts and persuades by showing that even though it’s wrong it can feel good. CNC on the other hand is to take without persuasion in a forceful way, which doesn’t work well with my need to feel good enough to want someone to bend the rules with e.g. teacher/student or doctor/patient, to want to risk their reputation with me. # **No’s for me:** **Orgasm Denial / Control** - hate not being able to orgasm. Orgasms override my chronic pain and for me, orgasms are too good to be denied. **Face slapping** - I hate being slapped, especially on the face. **Anal** - whilst butt plugs are ok, I don’t like anal sex. It just hurts and I get no pleasure from it. **Knife Play** - definitely a no for me. Had this done once and I freaked out and called RED. My anxiety kicked in and I just started crying. The whole evening had to stop because I wasn’t happy. So, it’s a major no. **Piss, Shit and Blood Play** – they are just not my thing. # **My BDSM Score:** 100% Rope Bunny 96% Middle 80% Voyeur 70% Submissive 69% Brat 60% Primal (Prey) 58% Non-monogamist 55% Pet Kitty 50% Exhibitionist 47% Experimentalist 44% Vanilla 36% Slave 25% Masochist 5% Degradee
Female (43) Alton, Hampshire

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