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Staying in Hemel Hampstead for a few weeks and am going to be bored in the hotel. Anyone want to do anything exciting?
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Staying in Hemel Hampstead looking for some fun and explore my wild side
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Sub looking for dom who will train him and even make him in to a sissy to be used
NSA · 18 - 40 years · 25 km
I love to be made to wear her heels
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 115 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋
NSA · 5 km
Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits
NSA · 18 - 25 years · 50 km
Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off.
Looking to explore with an open minded person.
Kinky Date · 18 - 28 years · 70 km
Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Im looking for like minded people
NSA · 18 - 80 years
The second Friday of every month! Open house at The Lord Clyde SE8. For kinksters and fetish folk!! Relaxed friendly atmosphere!! Get changed at the venue into any kink gear or come as you are!! ❤️😈
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
No questions asked and no discrimination against who (man /woman/non binary /transgender ) . The first person anywhere across the world …
Mutual masturbation on a chosen video platform .
Let’s start the morning right and cum together….
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NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Newbie looking for a helping hand
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Dom dad
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for a nice dad to have his way with me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Kind dads
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Basically long story short, I am going through a lot right now and could use a friend that i can enjoy kinks with. Big word is the friend, getting to know you first is a must (unless your into a stranger encounter in which case cool)
NSA · 18 - 34 years · 25 km
I'm not too picky as I have so much I want to try, just no *** kinks/shitting kinks or raceplay!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 25 years · 25 km
Looking for a mentor/teacher or like minded person to explore kinks as vanilla is getting boring. If your new to kinks and interested in sharing and exploring kinks shoot me a message.
If your experienced and have the patients to chat or show me the ways of being a master , dom , degrading, and maybe other kinks please also message me as I would love to hear or experience new things.
NSA · 18 - 55 years · 10 km
Looking for someone to have some fun tonight. Please read my bio before you say yes as you may not like what 'fun' I have planned :)
NSA · 18 - 32 years · 5 km
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Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Anyone in the London area wanting to hook up if we vibe?👀
NSA · 18 - 37 years · 5 km
I wanna have some good fun message me to do so
Kinky Date · 18 - 36 years · 60 km
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