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BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 30 years · 35 km

I'm mature guy
In reality if I'm going to play its with wicked pr - Doms wanting to punish Slaves
Been in Fet for only a year or so
Really like being caned and would love to feel a single tail whip take my A*** off
After NSA and in a Vanilla relationship so need to discuss things like Marks
Dom/me Session · 18 - 50 years · 100 km
Would love to meet someone nearby for chats first and see where things go naturally x
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 100 km
Looking for the big tittie goth baddies. Bigger the better
Kinky Date · 19 - 33 years · 500 km
Interested in dominant women who are always wet ...love to put my time into it getting there... whats ur call ?
NSA · 28 - 48 years · 30 km
Someone who’s up for some respectful fun with a likeminded individual.. 🙋♂️
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 20 km

An ex rugby playing, amateur dramatist, artistic, gentleman in his 50's, firm but considerate & caring, is looking to find ladies of any age groups who enjoy experiencing sensory pleasure. Get in touch to talk about this with me.
BDSM Play Partner · 35 - 75 years · 300 km

Looking for either a kinky female or couple who could help me broaden my fetish desires. I am hoping there is someone out here in Hertfordshire, UK
NSA · 18 - 60 years · 55 km

Any ladies who enjoy,or are curious about, any of these aspects of kink, I am currently hoping to discover new play partners to share & enjoy the pleasures of these activities with. Please do message me if you feel this is something you would enjoy.
NSA · 25 - 70 years · 200 km
I haven't had much luck with younger men close to my age. They see a submissive busty blonde and assume I only want to be used.
I've never been with an older man who treats his sub right. I have always been the giver of everything. Be it acts of service, words of affirmation, or gifts.
I want to find someone to treat me like the princess I am.
If I could find a man who likes to treat me well, I'd be more inclined to be whatever his fantasies dictate.
Kinky Date · 42 - 66 years · 500 km
Just going with it and seeing what happens really , up for mates , dates , chats , fun
NSA · 18 - 32 years · 5 km
I'm open minded and looking to make some new friends, let's chat and see where it leads :)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 45 years · 35 km

Submissive guy looking to meet dominant woman for bdsm fun. I'm 55 single and looking to explore the kinky world of bdsm.
BDSM Play Partner · 40 - 70 years · 50 km
How are you I’m happy go lucky guy very bubbly spontaneous dirty minded passionate Fun😉
NSA · 18 - 36 years · 25 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋
NSA · 5 km
Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits
NSA · 18 - 25 years · 50 km
Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off.
Looking to explore with an open minded person.
Kinky Date · 18 - 28 years · 70 km
Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

Im looking for like minded people
NSA · 18 - 80 years
How do people actually use one word replies and then get confused when things dont work?
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
I want a woman who needs to earn my praise or ***.
I love confidence but if your nervous that's fine you wont be thinking with your nerves for too long 🤷♂️
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 33 years · 500 km
Im in harlow for the week anyone up for some fun? 😏
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
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