Looking for someone just as open to twists and turns and ups and downs as we are , looking to make friends and on the table maybe even more (if you like dark aesthetics and alternative music) then pop on down it’d be good to meet some interesting people :)

A dom who can own me

looking for someone who is open minded and comfortable; preferably someone who is bi or willing to get to know a couple.

Help please anyone someone, I don't know how to control my girlfriend

Hello, I'm new to the scene and never experienced any sort of bdsm driven relationship before but my current girlfriend insists she's a brat, is constantly disrespectful and sometimes just mean to me and claims it's cause she's a brat, she wants me to punish her but I don't really know how to go about doing it (mainly cause if I start spanking her she starts begging me to stop).. So I'm confused can anyone help??? Thanks!

I’m looking for a master to play with me and do the things that go round my head! We must fit and have the same needs … to enjoy and hold your sub in great esteem .. to adore and punish for being so beautiful n submissive ! Not degraded , n treated like a nothing ! I will give the best of me the more you praise me for serving you ! Non smokers please

I'm looking for some snowbunnys to have fun with or queen of spades

I want to meet people who are new and want to learn together

How do people actually use one word replies and then get confused when things dont work?

I want a woman who needs to earn my praise or ***. I love confidence but if your nervous that's fine you wont be thinking with your nerves for too long 🤷‍♂️

Hi, lovely to meet you. I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone. Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times. I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for. As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes. Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library. At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits. I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do. Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap. Have a wonderful day.

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋

Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits

Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off. Looking to explore with an open minded person.

Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?

Im looking for like minded people

Need a dom Essex Harlow

Im in harlow for the week anyone up for some fun? 😏

I'm new to this sort of thing. I'm into bdsm, anal meeting up with couples.

Are there any lesbian couple or group of girls seeking male sub to use

I am looking for women,trans and couple