Kinky women in Hertfordshire

Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.

bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.

I'm someone who values honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humour. I work hard, enjoy keeping busy, and like to challenge myself—whether that's learning something new, taking on a project, or stepping outside my comfort zone. Life's too short to stand still. Outside of work, you'll usually find me taking on small household projects, improving the house, planning a weekend away, firing up the BBQ for friends and family, or relaxing with a good film after a long week. I enjoy creating things, fixing things, and keeping busy, but I also appreciate the simple moments. I'm looking for someone who wants to grab life by the horns and make the most of it. Someone who's not afraid to get stuck into a project, doesn't mind getting their hands dirty, and enjoys building a life together rather than just talking about it. A good sense of humour, open communication, kindness, and emotional maturity all go a long way with me. If you're genuine, enjoy making memories rather than collecting things, and are looking for something real, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ? I always have my partner with me ( voyer n a mild cucold) so if you are ok with that then let’s chat n get to know if we can please each other Also we used to go to all the London fetish clubs n are very chilled about most stuff and we are easy going n real people looking fur that bit of kinky fun

Someone to perform for online and be rewarded nicely for and then possible meets if it goes well I'm being honest here so...

Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.

"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, witchy woo, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me. Sapiosexual, Submissive, Single, Hairy, and looking for LTR men, can jump the queue! And I will be the one doing the spanking.

Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 10 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… Honestly, I’m kinda just wanting to find something steady & fun… definitely feeling a little lonely lately & would very much love to find some people to spend time with. I’d love to find people to blend kink & mundane together, cutie in the streets, freaky in the sheets! I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!

I am a Dominatrex !!! Nature of My dynamics. I do not sleep with my submissive. This is high-quality, structured BDSM practice only. No romantic expectation. No pure relationships .Materialistic No sexual relationship. If you are looking for intimacy outside BDSM structure then I'm not your Mistress. Do not waste my and your time

DMs not sending AGAIN! If you really pique my interest, I'll try to send you my Telegram contact details to start chatting. Apologies if I don't respond to anyone, I'm 100% real, but this app is useless most of the time. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before, but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry, but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation, has been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here, then I’m very sorry, but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending on a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do, however, tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold-ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio, so they are on a completely different wavelength, and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them; it’s me, and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting, then all good; otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!

I'm not certain if I'm classed as plus sized or curvy probably both 🤣. I'm more introvert in person and the exact opposite over message 😅. I've always known I've wanted to be treated more roughly in the bedroom and recently realised I am submissive. Only had very little experience with kinks and still discovering what I enjoy.

im a bbw covered in tattoos and piercings im kinda new to this got some experience with things in the bedroom my kinks are being ***d hair being pulled face fucking doggie and being licked out

Hi 😊 I’m naturally curious and enjoy meaningful conversations, hearing people’s stories, and understanding what makes people tick. When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me reading, baking, getting creative, or spending time with my beautiful kitty cat. 🐈‍ I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking the lead. I have an interest in a Daddy/little dynamic, but for me it’s about trust, care, emotional safety, communication, and connection rather than just a label. I prefer to get to know someone and build a genuine connection before jumping into a dynamic. Communication, safety, consent, and mutual respect are essential to me. 💕

I am located in Basildon, Essex. I do send pictures on request of myself. I enjoy a lot of forms of domination but I really enjoy foot domination. I love a human foot stool. Feel free to message me even for a chat.👋

Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally with my only hard limits being ***/vomit Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate

I expect nothing here. I only know what I want. I need to stay a bit anonymous until I trust because of professional necessity. my non-negotiables: * I’m only looking to date Christian men - the church-going sort, not the “I was christened” sort. Sorry to the rest of y’all. God bless ya! genuinely! * I’m looking for someone who believes in gender equality. Yes, I love to be tied up and dominated in the bedroom but I believe that both men and women are of equal value. * I’m looking for a man to date, build trust and eventually have a monogamous relationship that involves a lot of kinky sex. I won’t do the casual sex thing. No judgement, just not for me. * I’m also a single parent so I’d need someone who understands the challenges of that and is patient with me as well as honest and trustworthy. Outside of what I enjoy in the bedroom, my passions include gardening, sourdough baking and serving my church family. I was vanilla married for 7 years. I don’t want to do that again. I’m very slow to trust and too slow a burn for most, I’d say. I need to meet with no sexual expectations and feel safe before anything. like I say, a slow burn. kinky Christians with ltr ambitions please enquire within…I’m here with no expectations. no real hopes but I am here. btw I’m not a ‘Little’ but I’m just…you know, little (5’2”).

Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.

Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please

🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.

I’m looking for hook ups. Will verify with pics/ video on another app. No cis men please, I’m no longer bi. Look forward to hearing from you x

funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?

kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪

Preferably a relationship would like to develop a bond first. i do prefer older men but men in my age range or a couple years young is also fine. if you're in your 20s a HARD NO. Kinks: toy, i like to be used. Looking for a real dom, someone experienced not just someone to wants to f***k. My body is a temple and not just anyone can have access to me. TIP Come at straight! What you want 😋, then lets get to know each other. If you are too much i will block you

I’m a lil shy but I’m super cool once I’m settled❤️ I do drink and smoke quite a bit and I loveee music! I want a dominant woman to put me in my place 😖 I’m open to being an in house sex slave for free from time to time 😛 HMU️

I'm someone who values honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humour. I work hard, enjoy keeping busy, and like to challenge myself—whether that's learning something new, taking on a project, or stepping outside my comfort zone. Life's too short to stand still. Outside of work, you'll usually find me taking on small household projects, improving the house, planning a weekend away, firing up the BBQ for friends and family, or relaxing with a good film after a long week. I enjoy creating things, fixing things, and keeping busy, but I also appreciate the simple moments. I'm looking for someone who wants to grab life by the horns and make the most of it. Someone who's not afraid to get stuck into a project, doesn't mind getting their hands dirty, and enjoys building a life together rather than just talking about it. A good sense of humour, open communication, kindness, and emotional maturity all go a long way with me. If you're genuine, enjoy making memories rather than collecting things, and are looking for something real, I'd love to hear from you.

bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.

Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.

I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ? I always have my partner with me ( voyer n a mild cucold) so if you are ok with that then let’s chat n get to know if we can please each other Also we used to go to all the London fetish clubs n are very chilled about most stuff and we are easy going n real people looking fur that bit of kinky fun

Someone to perform for online and be rewarded nicely for and then possible meets if it goes well I'm being honest here so...

Preferably a relationship would like to develop a bond first. i do prefer older men but men in my age range or a couple years young is also fine. if you're in your 20s a HARD NO. Kinks: toy, i like to be used. Looking for a real dom, someone experienced not just someone to wants to f***k. My body is a temple and not just anyone can have access to me. TIP Come at straight! What you want 😋, then lets get to know each other. If you are too much i will block you

I am a Dominatrex !!! Nature of My dynamics. I do not sleep with my submissive. This is high-quality, structured BDSM practice only. No romantic expectation. No pure relationships .Materialistic No sexual relationship. If you are looking for intimacy outside BDSM structure then I'm not your Mistress. Do not waste my and your time

im a bbw covered in tattoos and piercings im kinda new to this got some experience with things in the bedroom my kinks are being ***d hair being pulled face fucking doggie and being licked out

I'm not certain if I'm classed as plus sized or curvy probably both 🤣. I'm more introvert in person and the exact opposite over message 😅. I've always known I've wanted to be treated more roughly in the bedroom and recently realised I am submissive. Only had very little experience with kinks and still discovering what I enjoy.

I’m a lil shy but I’m super cool once I’m settled❤️ I do drink and smoke quite a bit and I loveee music! I want a dominant woman to put me in my place 😖 I’m open to being an in house sex slave for free from time to time 😛 HMU️

Hi 😊 I’m naturally curious and enjoy meaningful conversations, hearing people’s stories, and understanding what makes people tick. When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me reading, baking, getting creative, or spending time with my beautiful kitty cat. 🐈‍ I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking the lead. I have an interest in a Daddy/little dynamic, but for me it’s about trust, care, emotional safety, communication, and connection rather than just a label. I prefer to get to know someone and build a genuine connection before jumping into a dynamic. Communication, safety, consent, and mutual respect are essential to me. 💕

kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪

I am located in Basildon, Essex. I do send pictures on request of myself. I enjoy a lot of forms of domination but I really enjoy foot domination. I love a human foot stool. Feel free to message me even for a chat.👋

🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.

Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally with my only hard limits being ***/vomit Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate

Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please

Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.

Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 10 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… Honestly, I’m kinda just wanting to find something steady & fun… definitely feeling a little lonely lately & would very much love to find some people to spend time with. I’d love to find people to blend kink & mundane together, cutie in the streets, freaky in the sheets! I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!

I’m looking for hook ups. Will verify with pics/ video on another app. No cis men please, I’m no longer bi. Look forward to hearing from you x

"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, witchy woo, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me. Sapiosexual, Submissive, Single, Hairy, and looking for LTR men, can jump the queue! And I will be the one doing the spanking.

I expect nothing here. I only know what I want. I need to stay a bit anonymous until I trust because of professional necessity. my non-negotiables: * I’m only looking to date Christian men - the church-going sort, not the “I was christened” sort. Sorry to the rest of y’all. God bless ya! genuinely! * I’m looking for someone who believes in gender equality. Yes, I love to be tied up and dominated in the bedroom but I believe that both men and women are of equal value. * I’m looking for a man to date, build trust and eventually have a monogamous relationship that involves a lot of kinky sex. I won’t do the casual sex thing. No judgement, just not for me. * I’m also a single parent so I’d need someone who understands the challenges of that and is patient with me as well as honest and trustworthy. Outside of what I enjoy in the bedroom, my passions include gardening, sourdough baking and serving my church family. I was vanilla married for 7 years. I don’t want to do that again. I’m very slow to trust and too slow a burn for most, I’d say. I need to meet with no sexual expectations and feel safe before anything. like I say, a slow burn. kinky Christians with ltr ambitions please enquire within…I’m here with no expectations. no real hopes but I am here. btw I’m not a ‘Little’ but I’m just…you know, little (5’2”).

Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.

funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?

DMs not sending AGAIN! If you really pique my interest, I'll try to send you my Telegram contact details to start chatting. Apologies if I don't respond to anyone, I'm 100% real, but this app is useless most of the time. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before, but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry, but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation, has been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here, then I’m very sorry, but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending on a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do, however, tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold-ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio, so they are on a completely different wavelength, and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them; it’s me, and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting, then all good; otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!