Kinky women in Hertfordshire

Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.

bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.

New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).

I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?

I might be delusional but looking for genuine connection ❤️ big time reader (dark romance and thriller), Pilates, writing and sweet treats have my heart x I have so many kinks but am always down to try anything once 😘 … in the nicest way please don’t message me if you don’t know what aftercare is I thought a kink app was where I wouldn’t have to explain it 😭😭

DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation have been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!

Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please

"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.

Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate

ideally im looking for a long term relationship where kink is a main feature with a daddy type dom or 2 ***s or 3

Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.

Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!

Emo, metal corporate good girl 😏 Finding myself and my likes after spending my whole adult life in one relationship. open to try things, and probably haven't done, after not realising that my fantasies actually happened in real life! Essex based but currently on holiday in Malta. I'm really bad at replying as life is manic, but will do my best! will send photos after matching. Had my first experience from this app and experienced 6 orgasms in under 30 minutes. my Dom controlled them at first, leaving me begging, pleading and dripping on the bathroom floor. before he ordered me to hold the vibrator hard against me. I screamed through 5 orgasms in 2 minutes. when finished I curled up, only able to whisper "thank you Sir" for him spending his time on me, and giving me such an amazing experience. I couldn't move and stumbled when I walked afterwards. Thank you Sir, you've made this sub very happy 😊

I’m looking for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I love men, but I’m also looking to explore more with women. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x

🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.

kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪

funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?

New to the scene. Looking for someone to help guide me through the gentle dom/sub world. Interested in finding a Daddy and being his princess. Very interested in Softcore rope bondage, verbal ***, spanking, collars, slapping, age play, fantasy ***, hair pulling, pegging. Not something that I want to be full time. I have other interests (Gym, playing football, reading, cinema, theatre and most importantly: Lord of the Rings).

bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.

Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.

I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?

kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪

I might be delusional but looking for genuine connection ❤️ big time reader (dark romance and thriller), Pilates, writing and sweet treats have my heart x I have so many kinks but am always down to try anything once 😘 … in the nicest way please don’t message me if you don’t know what aftercare is I thought a kink app was where I wouldn’t have to explain it 😭😭

Emo, metal corporate good girl 😏 Finding myself and my likes after spending my whole adult life in one relationship. open to try things, and probably haven't done, after not realising that my fantasies actually happened in real life! Essex based but currently on holiday in Malta. I'm really bad at replying as life is manic, but will do my best! will send photos after matching. Had my first experience from this app and experienced 6 orgasms in under 30 minutes. my Dom controlled them at first, leaving me begging, pleading and dripping on the bathroom floor. before he ordered me to hold the vibrator hard against me. I screamed through 5 orgasms in 2 minutes. when finished I curled up, only able to whisper "thank you Sir" for him spending his time on me, and giving me such an amazing experience. I couldn't move and stumbled when I walked afterwards. Thank you Sir, you've made this sub very happy 😊

🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.

Hey im happy to show you what i look like just ask x Im into most things quite literally and dont have any limits that im aware of rn Id say the main thing im into is CNC i kinda just want to be ***d and to not have a choice (unfortunately this applies to most aspects of my life tho i would never admit it) but any form of being dominated and im into it Im pretty new and inexperienced in everything but i still know what i want so pls don’t hate

Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please

Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.

Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!

I’m looking for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I love men, but I’m also looking to explore more with women. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x

"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.

funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?

ideally im looking for a long term relationship where kink is a main feature with a daddy type dom or 2 ***s or 3

DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation have been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!