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I am an emotional and open woman who is not afraid to express her feelings and be sincere. Loyalty is one of my main traits, because I believe that love is impossible without devotion. I know how to give warmth and care, and I always try to surround my loved one with support. I am attentive to details and love to please my loved ones with pleasant surprises. It is important for me to create relationships filled with love, trust and spiritual closeness
Female (50) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.
Female (32) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (41) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation have been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (42) Graveley, Hertfordshire
"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, witchy woo, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
I am a Dominatrex !!! Nature of My dynamics. I do not sleep with my submissive. This is high-quality, structured BDSM practice only. No romantic expectation. No sexual relationship. If you are looking for intimacy outside BDSM structure then I'm not your Mistress.
Female (44) Watford, Hertfordshire
Hi 😊 I’m naturally curious and enjoy meaningful conversations, hearing people’s stories, and understanding what makes people tick. When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me reading, baking, getting creative, or spending time with my beautiful kitty cat. 🐈‍ I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking the lead. I have an interest in a Daddy/little dynamic, but for me it’s about trust, care, emotional safety, communication, and connection rather than just a label. I prefer to get to know someone and build a genuine connection before jumping into a dynamic. Communication, safety, consent, and mutual respect are essential to me. 💕
Female (39) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I’m a short little princess that likes to be guided with love and rules. makes me feel safe and grounded. I love CNC edging choking ect subscription fee needed 😂 sick of scammers and people messaging once and disappearing. my time is valuable, make me see you’re worth it.
Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.
Female (45) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (47) Barnet, Hertfordshire
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (38) St Albans, Hertfordshire
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (21) Watford, Hertfordshire
I’m looking for hook ups. Will verify with pics/ video on another app. No cis men please, I’m no longer bi. Look forward to hearing from you x
🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.
kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪
I’m a lil shy but I’m super cool once I’m settled❤️ I do drink and smoke quite a bit and I loveee music! I want a dominant woman to put me in my place 😖 I’m open to being an in house sex slave for free from time to time 😛 HMU️
Female (19) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire

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I am an emotional and open woman who is not afraid to express her feelings and be sincere. Loyalty is one of my main traits, because I believe that love is impossible without devotion. I know how to give warmth and care, and I always try to surround my loved one with support. I am attentive to details and love to please my loved ones with pleasant surprises. It is important for me to create relationships filled with love, trust and spiritual closeness
Female (50) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (41) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
Subs - DO BETTER. Stand Out! Never call a Domme Misstress without permission. I'm getting so many messages calling me this and it's SO disrespectful. Do not call me Miss either, it's not polite, it's over fermilliar and shows you can't follow basic instructions. You are not my sub, and you are not collared by me. You may call me Mermaid, until I give you permission to address me another way. I'm inked, BBW, poly and looking to combine romance and BDSM. My existing poly partner will not be involved in our relationship, sex life or dynamic. I'm a switch but only intrested in service subs, slaves and cucks. A serious pleasure sub or FLR with someone who I can use for my pleasure and nothing else. They will be used, pleasure me, worship me, and have nothing in return. I will not touch you. Chastity encouraged but not essential. Zero intrested in brats, newbies and people who are unsure about this lifestyle. I'm looking for someone who's looking to seriously commit to me. Nothing casual or fwb. I am not looking for a 24/7 sub. I'm looking for someone who can combine romance, servitude and submission. Someone to spoil me, treat me, take me out, and worship me. If you can't separate your public persona from your private one, or think I should be 'on' everytime we meet, you watch too much porn. Just because you're a sub/slave doesn't mean you just wait for instructions. I want someone with initative, who predicts my needs before I know I have them. A submissive partner who will cook, clean, do my admin, drive me around and be my cuck. Bi men preffered to fluff us both. If you're not intrested in the cuckold lifestyle that's also fine, but be upfront about wether you are or aren't. I'm not looking for casual sex. Connection, dates and getting to know someone is what I'm looking for. I love mmf and adore being the centre of attention in any situation. I'm a sapiophile so value intelligence and good conversation. Honesty and good communication is a must, as is emotional maturity. If you're under 30, don't live in the south of England, use slang or small talk, it's unlikely I'll be intrested. I love romantic gestures, gifts, phone calls, voice notes, spontaneity, restaurants, adventures, holidays and hotel rooms. Sexually I love to be tied up (yes, subs can tie their Doms up), oral and rimming, toys, my wand, orgasm control, ***d orgasms, and fisting. All of this is receiving. I don't care what you like. If you've made it this far, I'm glad. Please message me about yourself, and what you like, outside and inside kink. What attracts you to me and my profile, and what exactly you're looking for. Eg, serious relationship, casual relationship, domestic slave ect. Please also attach a clear face picture if there isn't one on your profile, and use the word 'Rose' so I know you've read my entire profile.
Female (32) Borehamwood, Hertfordshire
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
I am a Dominatrex !!! Nature of My dynamics. I do not sleep with my submissive. This is high-quality, structured BDSM practice only. No romantic expectation. No sexual relationship. If you are looking for intimacy outside BDSM structure then I'm not your Mistress.
Female (44) Watford, Hertfordshire
I’m a lil shy but I’m super cool once I’m settled❤️ I do drink and smoke quite a bit and I loveee music! I want a dominant woman to put me in my place 😖 I’m open to being an in house sex slave for free from time to time 😛 HMU️
Female (19) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
Hi 😊 I’m naturally curious and enjoy meaningful conversations, hearing people’s stories, and understanding what makes people tick. When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me reading, baking, getting creative, or spending time with my beautiful kitty cat. 🐈‍ I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking the lead. I have an interest in a Daddy/little dynamic, but for me it’s about trust, care, emotional safety, communication, and connection rather than just a label. I prefer to get to know someone and build a genuine connection before jumping into a dynamic. Communication, safety, consent, and mutual respect are essential to me. 💕
Female (39) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I’m a short little princess that likes to be guided with love and rules. makes me feel safe and grounded. I love CNC edging choking ect subscription fee needed 😂 sick of scammers and people messaging once and disappearing. my time is valuable, make me see you’re worth it.
kinda shy so I do like to be encouraged and lead in conversations not huge on meeting people atm but never say never don't have my pic on profile just because of my job but happy to share pics once I'm comfortable start a convo by telling me your kinks and fantasies please 🙈 won't be offended if you send pics either other than kinky stuff I love superheroes, anime and true crime 🤪
🇨🇦 New to the UK… still figuring things out, might need a good tour guide 😉 A bit of a princess, a bit of a brat, and definitely submissive in the right hands. I like attention, I like to be taken care of, and I like feeling genuinely wanted… I give that energy right back. I’m drawn to confident, grounded people who know how to take the lead without forcing it. Someone who can handle attitude, give praise, and still put me in my place when needed. Connection and trust come first. If the vibe is right, everything else follows. 💋 Dynamics I enjoy: Power exchange, affectionate dominance, praise, teasing, control, and being a bit of a handful. I like someone who understands both firmness and softness. 🚫 Boundaries: Limits are shared with people I trust. No rushing. No entitlement. into bdsm, control, ownership, praise, punishment, breeding, orgasm control, cuddles, choking, CNC, roleplay, authority, Also Nipple play, dirty talk, voices, cuddling, sir/daddy, bondage I'm a brat/sub/princess, ddlg, trust, possessive, ageplay.
Mildly masochist sub, looking for mildly Sadistic Dom. Looking for a mental connection before a physical one. Am on here not just to have sex but because I have sexual preferences. No smokers please
Female (47) Barnet, Hertfordshire
Proffessional soft/hard Domme. I love submissive men/women who understand my worth and are respectful of the Dom/Sub dynamic. Explore your kinks in a safe space with me.
Female (45) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Hey! I’m chelle & I’m an Aussie abroad, living in the uk for the past 9 years. I’m a sweet, kind & kinda shy girlie but I have a silly, playful, bratty side when you get to know me… I am definitely switchy by nature but tend to feel more at home within a submissive position… I’d love to make friends or lovers with bright, lively, open minded people!
Female (38) St Albans, Hertfordshire
I’m looking for hook ups. Will verify with pics/ video on another app. No cis men please, I’m no longer bi. Look forward to hearing from you x
"Let me haunt the corridors of your mind, a whisper in every silence, a shadow behind every thought. Let your hunger deepen into need, your need into worship. I will unravel you slowly,beautifully, until nothing remains but obedience wrapped in ache." I live well, love selectively, and thrive in quiet intensity more than loud declarations. I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, witchy woo, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian heritage thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit. If your strength is found in quiet service… if surrender feels like a kind of worship… if the smallest touch, the softest word, carries meaning for you, then you’ve already begun to feel me. I don’t ask for your obedience. I inspire it. And I never forget the weight, the beauty, the worth of a man who kneels not from weakness, but from longing, who offers himself fully, reverently, his body like a vow, with open hands and gaze lowered… because he knows where he belongs, with me.
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (21) Watford, Hertfordshire
DMs working now and then. Apologies if I don't respond, I'll try to chat in the forums. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) Here to chat and see where things go. I am not holding my breath that I'll meet Mr or Mrs Perfect here. I don't think they exist, at least not for me anyway. When you get to your 40s and still haven't met the right one, I think it's highly unlikely you ever will. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for people at least 41-65 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people, and I’m honestly flattered, but I don't feel comfortable talking to younger people. This lifestyle is something I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). I also like the idea of being a kept woman. Every relationship I've had has been one-sided. Giving gifts, along with acts of service and words of affirmation have been my love language. I have no idea what it feels like to receive any of these things back. Because I am submissive and like to give, I have realised that most men see me as a plaything, a toy to be used, and little else. Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (42) Graveley, Hertfordshire

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